Hello, my wonderful friend! Let's talk about how to make her think about you almost without trying.
Okay, be real for a minute. Can you imagine how amazing it would feel to know that that really
cute gal you can't stop thinking about is thinking about you all the time, and to have it be so easy
that you can do it kind of without even trying? That would feel amazing, right?
It would be so exciting. That is certainly something you want in a relationship, am I right?
Well, you are in the right place. In this video, you're going to be discovering how to make her
think about you almost without trying. And the best part is it has nothing to do with mind games,
because spoiler, they don't work. Trust me you're not going to want to miss it,
so make sure you stay with me and you watch to the very end of this video. Before we dive in,
make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating
coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy. I'm your go-to place to know how to
attract a lasting loving relationship with a woman who loves the real you and wants to spend her life
loving you. So make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell. And if you'd
like to learn more about working with me to get that kind of relationship just visit my
website at coachmelannie.com There's also a link in the description below. All right, how to make
a woman think about you almost without trying. I've got some serious secrets for you. When a
girl has feelings for you, when she's attracted to you, especially when she's in love with you,
she's going to think about you all the time. She just is because you light her heart on fire.
So really, the end goal here is to get her to fall in love with you. That's how you get that lasting
relationship, right? So how do you do this almost without even trying? The secret -this part's cool.
Are you ready? The secret is for it to become a habit. Habits are the way you make anything
in life simple. It's kind of like, think for a minute about the last time you brushed your teeth.
Was that super hard? Was it something you had to really think about?
No, it's automatic, it's easy, right? Because it's a habit. Same thing with like driving your car.
Anything in life that you want to become simple and easy and effortless, you simply have to turn
into a habit. That makes sense, right? The same is true with being an attractive person,
with being that guy who just melts her heart, who makes her think about you all the time,
and makes her want to spend her life loving you. When you know the correct habits, you don't even
really have to think about it anymore. You just keep up those good habits. As a coach,
this is exactly what I created my academy, Attracting Lasting Love Academy, to teach my
clients how to do. And in this video, right here, right now, I'm going to be sharing with you 3 of
the most important habits that make you play in her mind all the time and make her want to spend
every moment thinking about or spending time in person with you. As we dive into this,
I'm going to mention it one more time because it is so important. This has nothing to do with
playing mind games. A lot of people try to play mind games in order to get her thinking about you.
But the truth is, mind games don't work long term. As a matter of fact they don't work at all when
you're talking about a high quality woman. The kind of woman who respects you, she expects that
respect from you as well. And if you play mind games with her, she's done. Always always always
ask yourself when you're taking advice from anywhere, ask yourself what kind of relationship
that advice will help you get. And only listen to the advice that helps you get the kind of
relationship you actually want. This is why mind games don't work unless you're looking for a very
short term very painful relationship. So let's move forward with healthy habits
instead of mind games that don't work. I have two other videos on this that you are going to love.
They'll help you so much as well. If you haven't yet seen this one and this one I will put links
to both of those in the description below. Okay, let's dive into the three habits you need to make
her think about you almost without trying. Number one is she needs to see that you treat people with
respect. And this certainly needs to be a habit. At the end of the day, what a good, high quality
woman is looking for is a man she can spend her whole life with. A man who she can be in love with
forever. Someone she feels safe with, someone she can trust and rely on. And a man who is respectful
to other people, her and everybody else, that's the kind of man that she can respect. And you can
only love someone if you actually respect them. Now there are several things that come into play
to turn this into a habit. For instance, some of the things I teach my clients in my academy
are things like being assertive and being mature. High quality women don't want to talk to men who
are super immature. It becomes awkward to her. It also includes having a good attitude
and having good social skills and things like small talk and your body language. These simple
habits are the things that show her, "Wow, he is a respectful person. He's an attractive person."
That's the kind of man that steals a woman's heart and makes her think about you all the time
because you're the kind of man she could see herself spending her life with. This also helps
you stand out because you're the exception, you're the one who's willing to develop those habits that
make you a good partner. So naturally, you're the one who gets her attention and steals her heart.
Next up for how to make her think about you almost without trying is flirting without being creepy.
That part's important. Let's be real, flirting is fun. It keeps the spark alive,
it makes the relationship exciting, it helps you both feel more attractive and more attracted
to each other. All good relationships have some flirting involved. And it's certainly one of the
things that makes you play on repeat in her mind. Now as I said it's very important that you know
how to flirt without being creepy. So naturally, the question is, "Okay, so what makes it creepy?"
Being needy, being aggressive, or frankly, just guessing what will work. All of those things
make you creepy to her. It actually scares her when you act that way. This is where
some of those social skills I mentioned earlier really come into play. Most people
will just rely on what they learned in high school or maybe what they picked up on TV and try to pull
that off as good flirting or good skills when it comes to dating and relationships. However,
it doesn't work. If you're sitting there watching this video right now and you're not completely
pleased with where you're at in your love life, this is one of your big problems. So you must
learn how to do this correctly or you're going to continue to feel frustrated and confused.
On the other hand, when you really learn the correct way to flirt without being creepy,
holy moly, relationships become really really fun. And the truth is, you deserve that. So the
natural next question is, "Okay, how do you learn how to do this correctly?" How to flirt correctly,
how to turn all of these attractive habits into habits that you personally have. This is exactly
what I am here to help you with and why I created Attracting Lasting Love Academy. It's all about
everything you're learning and how to turn those things into habits fast and easy. The truth is,
these are not hard or difficult things to learn. They're very very simple. You just need a guide,
and that's what I'm here to help you with. To learn more and to find out how you can get started
today make sure you watch my free masterclass. It's at coachmelannie.com/masterclass This is
where you're going to learn more about what I teach and why it works, what makes it so insanely
effective. When you are ready to finally stop being alone and stop being frustrated
and start attracting the relationship you've always always wanted, that's where you need to go.
Again, coachmelannie.com/masterclass I'll put a link in the description and in the pinned comments
below. The next secret I'm going to share with you for how to make her think about you
almost without trying is you need to show her that you are a gentleman and that you're mature
about relationships. This definitely needs to be a habit. Because when it is, it is insanely
powerful. These are some of the things that women look for in relationships the very most.
Far more even than physical attraction. So if you have this key you're golden. So what does
it mean to show her your mature in relationships, to show her you're a gentleman? It certainly means
absolutely no mind games. High quality women do not have time for that. They will not tolerate it.
It also means having some of those relationship basics like knowing how to pursue her correctly
and knowing how to move the relationship at the right pace, understanding how to communicate with
her. A man who is humble and gentle and kind and respectful, that's the kind of man that steals
her heart. As a matter of fact, stop right now and just think about it for a minute. Do you want to
find, date, and eventually marry a woman who's kind, who's gentle, who's loving, who's happy and
positive and makes you feel amazing? Seriously, is that the kind of woman you want? If it is,
comment "yes" right now in the comments below. Like, do it right now. That's what you want,
isn't it? You want someone who you can feel safe with and feel like
you. That's what you want. Well, the truth is, she does as well. And you have to know how to show her
you're that kind of man. Because when you do, that's when she knows that you're her dream man.
You're the man she has been waiting her whole life to meet. Can you imagine what
that would feel like? Isn't that exciting to be able to show the woman of your dreams,
the woman you've been waiting for forever, that you're the man she's been waiting for forever?
That's where your dream, your ideal, relationship happens. This means you have to understand what a
healthy relationship even means. What does that even mean? And you need to understand
how to create that with her. The truth is, no one wants to make a bad bet. Especially
in a relationship. They don't want to play with their heart. That's never a good idea. So if it
looks like maybe you don't understand how to have a mature relationship, she's going to go find
somebody else who does. But when you're the one who shows you totally get it, and you're a boss
at this, that's when she sees, "Yes, this is the relationship for me." This is why I love sharing
these secrets with my clients in my academy, and why they can see results so quickly as they apply
what they learn there. Congratulations, my friend! You have just learned some of the biggest secrets
to not only making her think about you all the time, but also making her fall in love with you.
Take a second to take that in. That's really exciting, huh? Here's my question for you: Do
you want my help to learn how to turn everything we talked about into habits very quickly and
very easily, so that you can be a heartthrob and show your dream girl that you are her dream man?
Would you like my help with that? If the answer is yes, Attracting Lasting Love Academy is for
you. Learn how you can get started today by watching that free
masterclass at coachmelannie.com/masterclass Do yourself a favor and avoid future headaches and
frustration by just learning now what works, so that you can quickly get to the part where you're
the one holding the love of your life, waking up every morning next to the woman who sets your
heart on fire. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! Be sure to subscribe if you
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day! [blooper beep] Your face starts to get really tired after a while when when you've been talking
really long, and it like starts to twitch. I don't think you can see it, but it feels really weird.
It's like that part in Toy Story 2 where Barbie is smiling the whole time and she's like,
"Oh, my cheeks hurt," you know? That's kind of how I feel right now. Anyway, what was I saying?