I get so many DMs from you guys asking me for advice about things like dating, business,
investing, relationships, and everything else under the sun.
And 95% of the problems you guys send me could be resolved by one, single thing: self-worth
aka confidence.
Confidence in your own abilities is the driving force of every successful person’s life.
And today I’m gonna teach you why you should be confident and more importantly how to be
confident.
#1 Never settle.
Settling for mediocrity is like shooting your confidence in the foot.
Don’t settle for an average job that you don’t really like.
Don’t settle for an outcome in your life that you don’t like.
Don’t settle for a body you don’t really like.
Does a confident, Basedlympian say “oh well I’m not as jacked as I want to be.
I guess my body doesn’t look that bad.”
No, fuck that.
You get your ass to the gym 4 times a week and rep out, until you have the body of your
dreams.
Don’t settle for an ugly girl that you only kinda want to hookup with because you don’t
think you can get the really hot girl that you actually want to hookup with.
Fuck that.
Don’t settle or compromise your standards for anything.
If it’s a slow night out and there are only ugly girls at the bar or the party you’re
at, then fuck it go home alone.
Don’t settle for less by going for a girl you’re gonna regret hooking up with the
second you finish.
I’d rather go home with my dignity and sense of worth untouched and spend the extra time
on doing something that will bring me the results that I actually want to see, as opposed
to wasting a night with a wildebeest.
If you don’t like something, don’t settle.
Do everything in your power to change it.
And if you can’t change it, then change your mindset, because that’s the one thing
you can fully control.
Settling for less than what you really want is programming your subconsciousness to think
that you’re not worthy of being 10% body fat, or making 6 figures, or getting the hot
girl you want.
Settling makes you believe that you are low status..
And if you’re subscribed to this channel then that means you’re Based, and we don’t
settle for jack shit.
You should only provide the best for yourself, after all, it’s YOU we’re talking about
here.
Why in the fuck would you settle for anything less for yourself?
This is common sense shit right here, but not nearly enough people treat themselves
this way.
If you don’t, start now.
Even if you fail, your life will still be 10 times better than the lives of people who
haven’t even tried pursuing those goals.
#2 Be proactive not reactive.
You are in the driver’s seat.
You are in control of your life and what happens to you.
And in the few times where you’re not in control of what happens to you, you are in
control of how you react to every situation you are put in.
Do you wanna be someone who lets life happen to them and is pushed around by the circumstances
in their life?
Or do you wanna be a fucking god-like force that bends reality to your will?
The choice is up to you.
So start being proactive and fuck all that reactive shit.
#3 Dress your best 24/7.
Now before you say, “Zeus all you do is talk about style”, hear me out.
The importance of style is immeasurable.
Literally, I cannot emphasize enough how much style matters, when it comes to being confident
and successful.
Your appearance is the outward, subconscious, and unspoken reflection of who you are to
the world, and if you’re projecting a shitty appearance, then people will assume you have
a shitty personality as well and that you’re of a lower status.
If someone walks into a room and he’s dressed to impress, people immediately assume he’s
of a higher status and that he’s a cool guy.
When you dress like shit people think less of you, AND you subconsciously program yourself
to think that you’re not worthy of looking and feeling your best 24/7.
And like I said before, fuck that because you are worthy.
So start fucking acting like it.
Once you know you’re worthy, then you should only treat yourself to the best belts on the
market, and I’m talking about our partner Anson belts.
These founders are badass, and they definitely don’t settle for lower quality belts.
They discovered the concept of hole-less belts while traveling overseas, and when they couldn’t
find it back here in the US, they said fuck it and decided to create and sell their own
version here in the states.
And now they sell a micro-adjustable, hole-less belt that allows for 30+ waist size options
instead of just 5 holes like most traditional belts.
These belts work with any outfit from super casual t-shirt and jeans, to super dapper
in a full suit.
Having all these options only a quarter inch apart allows you to always achieve the perfect
fit, because your pants deserve the best fit on your waist.
The Anson Belt has NO HOLES and instead has a tiny track system sewn into the back of
the strap, so you can adjust it and always have the perfect fit on your waist without
having to deal with making new holes and shit like that.
No holes also means no nasty belt crease that your belt gets from using the same hole over
and over again, and you can lose or gain weight and still keep the same Anson Belt, which
will stay looking clean and sleek for longer than normal belts.
Right now, they’re doing a crazy deal on their 3 strap and 2 buckle box, which allows
you to mix and match your belts and buckles for 6 different complete belt looks to help
you step up your belt game.
I’ll have them linked in the description for you guys to check out.
Shipping is free in the US and their customer service is handled by the founders, because
they know what it means to take pride and care in what they do.
Details like a belt can make all the difference and make people perceive you as more stylish
which can translate to people thinking you’re higher status at school and work.
And that increased perception can help you make more friends, close more business deals,
get a promotion at work, and so much more.
Imagine you just woke up, your hair is fucked up, you're wearing a t-shirt with potato chip
stains on it ... how do you feel?
Ready to go out and get it?
Fuck no.
It makes YOU feel like shit when YOU are the most important person that you should be taking
care of.
Now imagine you wake up, take a refreshing shower, shave yourself nicely, do your hair
perfectly, slip into a nice slim fitting shirt that hugs your body, put on some sleek boots,
and spray on a fresh, sophisticated fragrance.
How do you think you’ll be feeling then?
That difference, can make or break your day.
#4 Stop watching other people live their life.
Stop scrolling on Instagram watching other people live “their best life”, because
chances are, they’re no more happy than you are.
When you spend hours a day on social media watching other people do what YOU wanna be
doing, you’re inherently putting yourself beneath them by saying to yourself that you’re
not worthy of going out there and doing it yourself, because you’re not mentally strong
enough to get out of bed and start living the life you want.
If you spent the time you waste looking at Dan Bilzerian’s IG page actually doing something
productive, you could live the same fucking lifestyle.
Wouldn’t that be much better just looking at a bunch of pictures of hot bitches on a
yacht?
#5 Put your life and your goals first.
Now you think this may sound selfish, but it’s not.
You only get one life, and it’s YOURS to live.
Now this doesn’t mean that you should be a dick who doesn’t care about anyone else,
but it does mean that you need to stop putting your life and your goals in the backseat to
other people’s.
Start being the fucking driver.
Stop responding to emails and text messages before accomplishing your goals for the day.
Stop letting people take control of your time and sucking out all your value on what they
want from you, instead of what YOU want from you.
When someone calls, texts, or emails you, all it is, is a request for your time.
I’m not saying to totally reject people of your time, all I’m saying is that before
you give them that time, be mindful of what you, yourself need that time for.
Like one of my favorite philosophers Seneca said, “It is not that we have a short time
to live, but that we waste a lot of it”… and “Life is long if you know how to use
it.”
#6 Don’t fucking procrastinate.
This goes back to programming your mind.
Now I’m not gonna lie to you here and say that I NEVER procrastinate, because I’m
not a liar, and lying to myself and all of you guys would be a low status thing to do,
since it would mean I can’t be brutally honest with myself about my actions.
But, procrastination is a mood killer, a life waster, and the absolute cancer of productivity.
Procrastination subconsciously makes you think that your time is not valuable, and that you
are not in control of your actions, because if you were, you’d stop procrastinating
and just fucking do it.
Putting off the things you have to do in life is the same as telling yourself that you don’t
deserve the benefits of doing what you’re supposed to.
Even simple shit like procrastinating cleaning your room, programs you to think that you’re
not worthy of a clean room and that you’re not deserving of the best.
When you should know damn well, that you are deserving of the best.
In summary:
Never settle Be proactive not reactive
Dress your best 24/7 Stop watching other people live their life
Put your life and your goals first Don’t fucking procrastinate
Now I have more tips for you on this but I’m gonna shut up here and take this time to turn
the tables on you.
What is it that YOU are supposed to be doing right now?
Whatever it is, get to it.
And get to buying yourself an Anson belt, at a sweet deal, with the link in my description
to make sure you’re staying dressed to impress 24/7.
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Til next time.
Stay Based.