How you feeling?
I'm used to the battlefield.
I slay as many people as I can on the battlefield.
But same time, I know what I know, and it is what it is.
People just mainly want just a clear, better understanding.
Y'all haven't given me no clear understanding.
Why y'all going against how I feel?
I told you--
You sayin' that you want to celebrate Christmas
cause it's this and that.
That's not a good enough reason.
To you.
No, it's not good enough to me.
Me telling you why I want to celebrate is not good enough?
If you don't understand that energy is everything--
OK, so snowmen bring you bad energy?
So another female bring you bad energy?
Yes.
Another woman bring you bad energy?
Because that's another person's energy.
It don't matter. Why?
Bringing another person into our relationship
is bringing her energy into our relationship.
It can be positive energy.
A whole human being.
It can be positive energy.
OK.
All right.
Well.
I can't do a polygamous relationship at all, period.
I just don't want to.
And that's my choice.
[ENERGETIC MUSIC PLAYING]
Well, what y'all thought about last night at dinner?
The things that y'all found out.
I was really taken aback about the aggressiveness in his,
you know.
And that's what I didn't like.
Yeah, I think he felt ganged up on and like nobody
had his back.
And that was just frustrating to him.
We don't have a problem with listening to anybody's idea.
You know how I am.
I open the door for everyone.
But till you come with some foolishness,
I'm not going to participate in any of that there.
So when he got extra loud at the table,
you know I'm a calm person.
We don't have to do all of that.
You're upset because nobody is buying
into what you're selling.
It's more so that he's so passionate
when he's trying to explain his views and thoughts.
He get frustrated and now he yelling.
If he really knew what his plan and things were,
he wouldn't get frustrated.
Because he would have an answer for any question that we had.
But just because you get loud, you think that's going
to cause people to back off?
To me, is that why his family backed off from him?
I think that he has a dream as to what
he thinks family is supposed to be, based on his ideology.
If you don't come along with what he says,
does he then leave you and Jordan?
I don't ever want him to feel like I'm against him.
So I just feel like if I have an issue,
and I want to know why are you trying
to convince me to do it this way,
and you don't give me an answer.
So how can you lead me to believe in your system
that you have going on If you can't give me one reason, when
I gave you multiple reasons?
Right.
He talks about common law in another state.
Y'all in Michigan.
Michigan don't recognize common law.
Would you be OK with just living together and not
having a wedding?
No.
I wouldn't be OK with that.
That's not what I want.
Why wouldn't you want to be with someone
that's on the same level as you, that's
into the same thing as you?
Why would you want to take someone whose lifestyle
is totally different from yours and then change you to his way?
Because even the sexuality.
He thought y'all was on the same page sexuality, based on things
he saw on social media.
And the whole threesome idea?
I looked him in his eyes and told
him that's not gonna happen.
Something new to me was having a child
born with no type of identity.
I don't want to shelter my child from the outside world
because that's unfair.
But he can't even acknowledge that if it was not
for a government job, he would not have the sense of security
that he has.
He's all over the place.
He really, really is.
All right, so we halfway through.
All right.
Where your head's at?
I don't think you guys are there yet.
So I'm not with the blessing.
Y'all got a lot of work to do.
You know I've always supported you and everything,
and decisions that you make.
I'm just not 100% on board with his tactics.
I don't know--
He appears to be a very good person and sweet and lovable.
But now, for me, is he doing that so he
can warm you up and slowly begin to convert you?
You to-- That's the word.
Brainwash you.
There's still a lot of unanswered questions,
that I'm just not there yet.
I'm sorry, but I'm not.