a week ago today meghan markle accused the british royal family of being racist
but as more allegations are now being fired back and forth in today's video i'm going to be sharing
my thoughts on harry and megan's version of events and also the validity of oprah's role
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there are so many damning revelations that have been made during the harry and beggan interview
and i believe that if you're going to stand up and make accusations about somebody else
then you need to be both able and prepared for them to give their side of events because we
all know that we all see things from a different perspective so once you've had the ability to have
your say you have to be willing to let the other side have theirs and this for me is point number
one because harry will know more than anybody else that when it comes to the royal family
being able and prepared to respond i believe that their expectation was that only one side
of the story would ever be heard which in itself i think is very sad and a very erroneous place to be
so if harry and megan felt that they were going to be able to discuss what they see as their side
of events and that that would be the end of it as nothing would be challenged then it looks as they
as though they have severely underestimated the people who stand firmly by the institution that
is currently on trial i said on my last video that i watched the interview with really mixed feelings
because i started out with all these feelings of compassion for the terrible treatment at the
hands of the wicked royal family but after days have gone by i've begun to have these
nagging doubts because i've started to question so much of what i and probably everybody else heard
but the thing is that when people and especially close friends i told a bit about i don't know
let's call it juicy gossip the first thing that we naturally do is to believe it because why else
would they be saying it so what we start to do is give out all these agreeing comments of really no
way they did what which is exactly what oprah was doing and it was therefore so easy for all
of us to fall for what i now see is a staged or a very well rehearsed set of questions and answers
and remember that the skill of any actor lies in their ability to learn their lines and deliver
them with ease and here's where all changes because now we've all had time to reflect we're
starting to question the validity of the narrative that we heard unlike any good detective you begin
to piece the bits together and it's only when they don't fit that elements of doubt enter your mind
and this is what's happening now because the more we start to review what we've been told the more
we begin to say hang on a minute you said this but that can't be the case because when somebody
starts mixing the truth with a conflicting set of events they create inconsistencies in their
story and once these holes begin to merge the rest of what has been said carries very little weight
but now as more people are beginning to drip feed alternative views of what happened
more holes are beginning to appear and with that i think it's safe to say
that the interview has caused the sussex brand more harm than good
above everything else i wholeheartedly believe that harry's priority was always to protect his
wife and family he is genuinely terrified of megan being hounded like his mother was so i
applaud him for being strong enough to make the break from the institution that they believe was
causing the negative feelings so for marx to harry for standing up to the very people that megan
claimed were making her life so miserable and there's no doubt that megan was having a bad
time and for whatever the reasons there's also no doubt that she received negative
press so revealing that she had suicidal thoughts isn't something we could or ever should dispute
but what i would like to question is how those feelings were dealt with
harry was strong enough to literally leave queen a country and all that he had ever known
yet he was unable to find the help that megan so desperately needed
when we talk about mental health the immediate dangers are to those suffering in silence
once someone has found the strength to say that they need help any rational person
would be then a flash to find somebody who is qualified to offer this right level of
support so in my mind i want to ask what went so terribly wrong and why did this never happen
megan said that she was at her lowest whilst pregnant with archie so she would have been having
regular checkups with some of the best medical staff around now i've got two children myself
and i remember the regular visit to the health center what i was always being asked how i was
feeling now i'm sure that megan wouldn't have been sat in the waiting room at her local health center
but whoever's care she was under that would have been the perfect opportunity for her
to discuss both in confidence and in private that she was struggling but instead of telling
the midwifery team that were looking after her she went to the palace hr department
what we know is that during her pregnancy megan didn't want any of the usual medical team used
by the royals she wanted her own team but who they were will never be revealed but the whole
pregnancy and birth of archie is surrounded by mystery and conspiracy theories that megan wasn't
actually pregnant and the archie was born to a surrogate which is a wonderful solution for so
many amazing families and i applaud all parties who enable couples to become families this way
so why they never would talk about it i don't know if that was the case but let's just say
totally hypothetically and i'm not saying this is the case it is just an alternative thought
and an alternative idea but let's just say that megan won't have the royal medical team because
she isn't actually pregnant because that obviously is the first thing they're going to discover
so under the disguise of privacy they not only never need to reveal the names of her
new medical team they never need to attend any of the standard pregnancy checkups
now this doesn't dispute how she feels but what it does do is question her or harry's ability to
seek the help that would have been available by the royal family or her own medical team
i have no idea whether archie was born to a surrogate or not and to be perfectly honest
i really don't care but if megan had a medical team while she was pregnant she would have been
able to seek the help without any questions as to why she was going to a hospital so why did
they both say that whilst megan was pregnant her only option was to go to the palace hr department
the next area that doesn't quite sit right with me relates to oprah and her revelation
that nothing was off limits and that she had no idea what the answers to her questions would be
oprah wanted an interview with megan way before the wedding but in the interview it came across
that megan was actually quite disappointed that that didn't happen but prior to the wedding hadn't
harry already issued a statement to the press to leave her alone because she was struggling
so again it's back to the we want privacy whilst remaining in the headlines
megan and harry come from opposing worlds you know megan and oprah come from this world of hollywood
where they will do anything to gain the exposure and be in the headlines but harry on the other
hand comes from an institution that was built on privacy and an understanding with the press that
the queen will always stay silent and protect her family no matter what the allegations
to me it looks as though this interview had been planned for a very long time and i don't believe
that oprah would have risked the scoop of the century on an interview that may reveal nothing
more than how the queen likes or tea or i don't know what the family talk about over breakfast
surely oprah would have had full content control knowing that somewhere there had to be those
bombs dropped because without them it's just any regular chat show but with them it was making tv
history and we also know that megan is a very independent and strong minded woman so i really
can't see her agreeing to anything that doesn't allow her to have control over the questions
the big question is whether this was a genuine tell-all interview to set the record straight
or was this all planned to perfection to ensure that those exact allegations were made
in hope that harry and megan would gain public support and be cleared of all blame
we all have own our own opinions and we've all got our own suspicions but for nine million
dollars you don't go into an interview without a lot of prior conversations and knowing exactly
what questions you need to ask to get the exact content that you need to stay in the headlines
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