How to get a woman to think about you nonstop. So in this episode, I'm going to give you
five powerful ways that you can get girls to think about you when you are not in their presence. So
let's just begin. The first way of getting a woman to think about you is by understanding
the difference between attraction and seduction. So attraction is when you are physically with
someone. So you can be on a night out with a girl that you like, you can be talking to each other,
she can be attracted to you in that moment. And then you can exchange details, and then you text
her the following day and you don't hear back from her. Now, the reason for that isn't because she
didn't like you, the reason is you didn't seduce her. Now, the difference between attraction and
seduction, a seduction is when the girl thinks about you after you have left the interaction.
Now they're similar, but they're different. So the aim, if you are looking at getting a
girl to think about you nonstop when you're not there, is to seduce her
and not to attract her. And that's the first thing that you really need to understand
if you are looking at getting women to think about you more. Now, the second part of this equation,
about getting women to think about you more, is understanding what seductive moments are. Now,
I hosted a course called The Art of Seduction. It is available on my YouTube channel for free,
where you can watch an hour and a half of me going into detail of exactly what a seduction
is and what seductive moments are. In essence, a seductive moment is when the barriers in a woman's
mind melt away. That is a seductive moment. If you give a woman or a lady a series of seductive
moments, it will lead to a seduction. And this is exactly what you want to happen if you want
a girl to be thinking about you when you're not physically with her. Very, very powerful skill.
Now, the third way in which you can get a woman to think about you nonstop is by utilising a strategy
called intermittent texting. And again, I've got a whole course about this available online. But in
essence, intermittent texting is when you have set hours during the day when you can reply to
women's messages. So let's just say, for example, you have two windows between 12:00 and 1:00 PM,
8:00 PM and 9:00 PM. Now, during these two hours, you can message as much as you want. You can send
50 messages if you're going back and forward. But as soon as the hour ends and you don't
tell a girl what you're doing, as soon as that hour ends, you do not text at all. Radio silence
until your next window. Now, this is powerful for many different reasons. First of all,
it allows you to get your life in order where you're not on your phone all day long. So you
have set windows, it saves you time. Second of all, it creates a spontaneous
moment where the girl will be thinking about you outside of your zones, because someone's
who's readily available, now you've gone off the radar. And this is very, very powerful if you're
looking at seducing women, because it gets them to think about you while you're not there. And with
regards to what messages and stuff to send, again, there's a whole course about this on my YouTube
channel where you can watch for free, where I go through all the best ways of texting women and how
you should go about it. Now, this brings me on to how to get a woman to think about you number four,
which is when you're messaging women, text messages, online dating, is to use statements
instead of questions. So a question is a request for information. So if you say, "Where are you
from?" You want to know something from that person. They have to give you something. Whereas a
statement is value that you put out to the world. So rather than asking someone where they're from,
if you take a guess, "I bet you're from Russia," you are adding value into the
interactions. On my dating confidence courses, this is one of the main things that I teach.
Question asking should be changed into statement making as often as you can. I would go as far as
to say the only time you really should be asking questions are if your mind goes completely blank,
or you're asking a question to create an emotional connection, which is questions like,
"How does that make you feel?" That's a very good question to ask because it's emotionally based.
But ultimately when you're messaging, if you want to know how a girl's day's been,
rather than saying, "How was your day?" You could make it a statement. "Let me guess,
you had a lie in and you're hungover and you've been eating junk food all day."
That's an example of a statement that adds value. If you just say, "How was your day?" That can
be a really boring message that she's probably read a thousand times. So making statements
makes you way more seductive and also it allows you to just add value into that interaction.
Now, the final way, how to get a woman to think about you nonstop.
Now, this way will save you so much time, I cannot even begin to tell you. And it is so
seductive in its very nature that only someone who is very confident would go about organising
dates in this way. Say, for example, you wanted to see a girl on a Wednesday evening. You would send
her a message that says something like, "I'm busy on Tuesday and Thursday, but I'm free Wednesday
evening around 7:00." That is the first part of the message. So you genuinely say, "I'm busy on
these two days and I'm free here." That puts a bit more value on your time. And if you are an
attractive guy leading an attractive lifestyle, you would be busy most of the time anyway.
Now here's the kicker, you want to add in, "Let me know by midday tomorrow, as if not, I'll make
other plans." One of the biggest mistakes that men make when they're trying to be more seductive as a
character or as a man is they leave things open for someone to get back to them. It's the worst
thing you can do. So you say, "I'm busy Tuesday and Thursday, but I'm free Wednesday at 7:00.
Let me know by midday tomorrow, as if not, I'll make other plans." And this is a completely
reasonable thing to text someone because your time is valuable. And by midday tomorrow is
easily enough time for them to get back to you. If you don't put a deadline in that message, you'll
be waiting and you'll be putting off other plans, and you'll be giving the other person or the girl
the power in that interaction. And that is the antithesis of being seductive. So you
want to be having limited time that you allow someone that window to spend with each other.
And to be fair, this isn't just about strategies that get women to think about you nonstop, which
is the title. It's also about using strategies that genuinely make you more confident as a man.
So everything I've articulated in this episode are behaviours that an attractive man uses or does
because they have a busy lifestyle, because they have an attractive lifestyle. So you're really
getting to look through the lens to see how that life looks, and then you're taking the best tools
about how to make that happen in your life. So let's just round this up, five powerful ways to
get women to think about you nonstop. Number one is understanding that attraction is in the moment
and seduction is when a girl thinks about you when you're not there. How to get women to think
about you number two was to give her seductive moments, and these are when her barriers melt
away and you get to spend more time together. The third way is by using intermittent texting
to keep it mysterious, where you text women during set hours during your day and you do
not text them at all outside of that window. Very powerful. The fourth way was to message
in statements and not asking questions. Any question that you've written out, how can
you rephrase that as a statement that will make a massive difference to how often women reply to you
and actually about organising to see them again. And the final away was when you organise a day,
"I'm busy on these two dates, I'm free on this time, but let me know by midday tomorrow, as
if not, I will make other plans." When you add in the time window to let you know at the end, very,
very seductive and powerful thing to do that only someone who is really confident would do.
So I hope you've enjoyed this. And as I say, if you want to watch any of the videos that I spoke
about, just go onto my YouTube channel. Just type in, "Gary Gunn, Art of Seduction," or, "Gary Gunn,
Intermittent Texting," and you can watch the full videos where I really go into detail about those
areas of your life. So I hope you've enjoyed this episode and I will catch you next time.