It's been a while since I did a video on texting, so I thought today was the time to reinvigorate
this important area of dating and relationships, unfortunately, it is important in the modern
world. And to celebrate the two new chapters of my book, Messaging Magic, which is now available.
You can check out the link in the description. I'm going to give you seven opening texts that
men love to receive. If you want to light up a man's day, these are seven texts you can
use to do it. Check out messaging magic from the description below a whole bunch of bonuses there
as well. And I'll see you right after this.
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Okay. I'm excited to share these texts with you today. Before we get into them, a point of note
about these texts. These texts, especially opening texts, given you're initiating conversation,
taking a little bit of the masculine role here. These texts are designed
to light up a guy's day. Okay? They are designed to be, "Oh, I'm having a great day. Oh my God.
She just texted me. My day is 10 times better now." So these texts are designed as rewards
for the guy. That is a guy who has been behaving well, a guy who you like, a guy
who's been treating you well, who you know is into you. So these texts are for a little bit further
along. Think of these as attraction-booming texts, rather than attraction-building from the ground.
If you're looking for attraction-building texts, check out the whole messaging magic
guide or download the 12 free texts to make him yours. Those are both in a description. So again,
think of these texts as rewards for a guy who's really behaving himself. Text number one. Okay.
This text was one of my favorites to receive when dating, from a woman that I liked. Now,
this text is going to seem overly simple and you might think, "Oh, that's a bit weird when I first
put it down," but this is the text, it's really this easy. "Hey! How's your day?? Blush emoji and
an X. This is honestly one of the best initiation texts you can use when the guy likes you,
when he's been coming towards you, and when he's even a little off-balanced and he's had a
little space and maybe even wondering if you like him. And I'll tell you why this text is so good,
because as a guy, if we've been dating, putting in the work to you and kind of we're winning,
but working to win your interest, if you initiate with this text on a day where we haven't done it,
let's say, we've texted you a few days in a row, or we've asked you out, just had a really good
weekend. What this text really sub communicates is "I'm thinking about you, Hey guy, you're on my
mind." And that's a fantastic feeling as the guy. It's a sign that we're doing well, as I say, it's
a reward for good behavior. And the coolest thing about this text is it's not trying to be something
fancy. It's not trying to create interest. It's really a feminine reward for the interest
up to that point. Now, notice that if you take out the exclamation mark, you take out the question marks,
you take out of the emoji. You take out the X, it's just a boring, "Hey. How's your day?"
Okay, the text has to have energy with it. And this is a good general rule for these texts. All of the
time anyway is send them when you're in a really good energy state, send them when you're feeling
super grateful, send them when you're having a great day, send them when you almost don't
even care if he responds, because you're just, "I'm having such a great day. Hey, you! Thinking
about you. How's your day? Bum! Throw the phone away, back to my day." When you're coming from
that place, and when the guy has been behaving well, a good "Hey, how's your day?" communicates
confidence. It communicates interest and it communicates that you are thinking about him.
And that is why it's a fantastic text. Text number two, this was one I received from two different
women during the time I was dating. And I thought it was hilarious every time I received it. Now,
again, this is not an out of nowhere text. I don't know you. This is, "Oh, I've been dating
you. I've been kind of wining and dining, chasing you." And then I get this text back as the reward.
The text is, and it's very important the entire text is in capitals. It has to be all caps or it
doesn't work. "HIIIIII I'D LIKE ATTENTION PLEASE" I bloody love this text. I love this text because
it's showing ridiculous confidence that you're not needy, right? Only someone incredibly not needy
could send a text in all caps saying how they want attention. It shows that you're not afraid to
speak your needs and say, "Hey, I want attention. Give me attention. And it's just fricking funny,
right? It's conveying again, this message of, "Hey, I like you I'm into you. I'm kind
of owning that." And as the guy receiving it, it was like, "Cool. She's appreciating my attention.
She actually wants it." The undertone of the text is that "I like you. And I like your attention."
And because I like her already, that's why that text is a golden golden text. It shows
such craziness. It's such a needy text when you read it that only the least needy people would be
confident enough to send it. And he might respond to this text. He might say something like, "Ahhh,
haha" or "Okay. What would you like? Haha" in which case, you can just respond, "That was
great. Thank you." And put a blush emoji on it. So it's funny. It's impactful. It's not needy.
It's actually so needy that it's not needy because it's confident. And it, I mean, I'm talking about
this text. I received these texts. It's sort of a similar versions of this twice. And this was two,
three years ago. I still remember receiving this text. I still smile about that text. So it's not a
conversation starter. It's not designed to get you into a long thread of potential boringness. It's
big impact. I'm awesome and confident. I like you, mister. And then cool. I'm going off on my day.
And that really brightens the guy's day. And that's why it's a fantastic text. Text takes
number three, this one's kind of cute. "You just popped into my head. So I thought,
I'd say hi. Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii x" Again, similar to the last one, but it's just cute. And the best
part about this one is, it's not, you don't need to respond to this at all, whatever he says back,
no further text required. It's just a dopamine (ding sound), has the impact,
says, "I'm thinking about you." And then it allows you to get back to your day. It's a very cute,
very flirty text. It gives the guy all the right signals. It shows your own confidence again.
And it's a nice, nice reward for us as men to receive for putting the work into. Again, don't
forget to check out messaging magic. That's where I talk about all of this building attraction,
booming attraction, all the texts, a hundred plus pages, all of it plus a whole heap of other
bonuses that is available in the description. So the last four texts, let's quick fire them because
these are more specific texts, but they're just fun initiation texts again for a guy who is into
you and you want to brighten his day. Number four, "Out of all the (first name, last name) I know,
you're my favorite" and put a kiss emoji. It's a cute text because if his name is really common,
if he has Steve Smith, whatever it is, right? Then it's, it's a cute text. It's an "I like you" text.
The guy receives it, he's like, "Oh, she likes me." And it's a good feeling for the guy. Now,
if the guy's name is really unusual, you can turn it into a teasing text as well. So change
the kiss emoji to a laughing emoji at the end and "Out of all the Demetrius McCoids that I know,
you're my favorite" and put a laughing emoji. It has the cute effect of, of like,
"Oh, she really likes me, but damn her. She's fricking messy with me." Just a really cute text again.
Lightens the guy's day, fun for him to receive, doesn't need any follow up. Number five is quite
playful. And it's specifically designed for when you've either just gotten back with someone,
say, an ex or a past lover, or when you've just gotten with a new guy. So you've become
exclusive. You're in a relationship now. Super cute text. It is, "Hi, excuse me,
I've been stalking your Facebook and you're quite cute. Are you single? x" Cute text.
Lights up his day. No follow-up needed. Number six, if you want to reward him again,
this time for his sexual performance, for his, just boost up his sexual ego, for his
assets. "Hi! The dullest guy was just hitting on me. Teleport here? I need my man and his...
assets" and then throw an eggplant and some water emojis on there and the guy would get the hint.
Number seven. This is just a great overall good morning text. "Morning, handsome man!
What are you kicking butt at today?" This is a cute text. Again, this is an initiation text,
so it's not something you would do continuously. You want him coming to you as well, him initiating
as well. But if you're going to form an even normal relationship where you can text each
other, and it's not weird, this is a great text. It's asking him about his day. And the best part
is he can respond. He'll probably ask, say what he's doing and then ask you about your day. You
can respond back and again, the thread can end there. So you'll notice a lot of these are about
giving a great energy and then getting back to what you were doing. After all, text is really
only a bridge to better communication forms. You want to be building attraction over the phone.
You want to be building attraction in person. You want to be using your voice in real time.
So text is an attraction bridge, and thus, if you stay in text conversations long, it, they tend to
mellow out and get boring. And frankly, it's just not very helpful. These are all nice little hits
in this case. "Morning, handsome, man! How's your day? What do you got on today?"
He tells you, you tell him back. That's the end of the thread
and you go and live your amazing life. I think the biggest point that I want you to take home
from all of this is that texting really can be used to build attraction, to boom attraction,
to brighten a guy's day and to interact as humans. You know, you're going to have couple of ships
in the future where you've got to text each other throughout the day, but texting is a hit,
have an impact, share a great energy. And this is why texting in a good headspace is very important.
And then after that, let it go. Texting is not a long-term attraction builder. It's a great hit.
I remember some of these texts from years ago, but it's not something to be relied on. So get to your
voice messages, put the next feather in your cap of your attraction, confidence. Get to meeting men
in person, get them to call you and use everything you've learned today as a bridge and a reward for
guys that are behaving well. This has been Mark for Make Him Yours. Download Messaging Magic. It
gives all the secrets on how to get that bridge, right, share your beautiful emotions over text
so the guys can feel it and want to connect with you on a real and deeper level. I don't
know what else I'm gonna say here, but that's the end of the video. Don't forget to hit the
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