- In this video, I'm gonna show you how the universe
cannot actually give you what you want
if certain energies aren't activated.
I'm gonna show you the three energies,
how to completely change it around
to finally start receiving the blessings
and the good that could come into your life.
Now, the first one I want to share with you
is a representation of the universe
and how it reflects back to us
what we believe to be true.
So the funny thing, and the interesting thing,
and we're gonna take this a step deeper as well,
because the way we see reality
and the way we believe the universe is
is in many times in direct proportion
to what we believe about either our parents or God.
Now, interestingly enough, a lot of times
when we're growing up, the way we view our parents
is in a form of we really put them on a pedestal
and we, in some ways,
glorify who they are
as kids when we're toddlers.
Now, what happens when it comes to
us growing up is we have certain experiences
growing up, maybe childhood trauma,
and certain beliefs that are wired in,
maybe from just hand me downs from our parents,
where we then believe that either the universe
is a hostile place,
the universe is not an abundant place,
there's a lot of scarcity,
and other beliefs that have us create a box
where the universe isn't abundant
or the universe doesn't give us that which we so desire.
Now, the thing to become aware with this though is
is our beliefs are constantly being reflected back to us.
So it's very important to become aware
of what we believe to be true about ourselves,
and what we believe to be true about the universe.
Because if we believe that the universe
there's scarcity, there's no abundance,
we believe we're not worthy of love,
we're not worthy of money,
we're not worthy of these things,
then we will stay inside our little box
because the universe is like a mirror.
It's simply reflecting back to us that
which we believed to be true.
I remember when I started my spiritual awakening in 2012,
I had this belief that people just don't get me.
People don't understand me, I felt like a lone wolf.
And I can so clearly see now that literally
I would go out into the world
and I would just get more and more
representations of people not getting me.
It's a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I've also, at certain times in my life,
had the belief from the ex-stepmom stuff
from 7 to 16-years-old,
that woman just tried to control me.
And from that, I would either attract girlfriends
or managers or women into my life
that were trying to control me
because that's how I related to the feminine,
what we could call the feminine, from 7 to 16-years-old.
So it's just literally
a direct reflection
of a self-fulfilling prophecy of what I believe to be true.
Now, realize this, I learned this from Bashar,
the universe, and reality in general,
there is only abundance.
There's only abundance.
If we believe in scarcity
and lack,
what we are getting
is an abundance of scarcity and lack
because we believe in it.
It's an interesting perspective,
but it really helps us look at what are the stories
and the beliefs that are keeping us in scarcity
because scarcity itself, there's an abundance of.
So whatever we focus on,
whatever we believe we are worthy of,
we are projecting out then we will experience
an abundance of that.
So that's something to become aware of,
and that I had to become aware of that.
I remember working that nine-to-five job
selling women's shoes and if I went
into work like scarcity
that I had to compete with my other coworkers
in order to make money, then that was my reality.
And I would literally feel like,
oh, they just got a customer.
They took away from my paycheck
because I could have had that customer.
That was scarcity.
But if I went in and I was like grateful
that somebody else was having a good day
because that didn't affect the kind of money
I was able to make, then it was very different.
It was literally just a self-fulfilling prophecy.
And the universe would reflect back to me more abundance
the more I chose the abundance state,
the more I looked at that.
So the first one with this is realizing
that abundance is everywhere,
the universe wants to give you what you want
but it needs you to align with it
and to allow it
to let go of the limiting beliefs
that are keeping scarcity alive
and to let go of the belief
that the universe is an abundance.
Now, a couple minutes ago, I was talking about how,
in a way, our beliefs about God
and our beliefs about our parents affect
how we're able to receive from the universe.
And in a way, think about it.
If you had parents that were very frugal,
you may have adopted some of those beliefs.
I had to hold on to what I have
which is like a belief, hand me down belief.
Maybe if your parents were very criticizing
and maybe they were very strict with you,
you may believe that in order for you to be loved
you have to be a certain way,
maybe you're somewhat of a perfectionist,
used to be a certain way to receive love.
So it's hard for you to be abundance
or hard for the universe to give you what you want
because you don't think you're worthy of it.
You don't think you deserve it.
So 90% of all transformation is just becoming aware
of these limiting beliefs
and then choosing to let them go.
Once you become aware of them as beliefs,
you can then say, oh,
this isn't the way reality is,
this is what I believe.
You then separate identity from belief,
and then you're able to see that this is a story
that maybe doesn't serve me anymore.
And as we become aware of that, it changes everything.
Now the second thing the universe can give you
and how it can actually give you more
is something that I learned once I started
following my purpose and being in my passion
and I started making videos and I realized,
and it goes even back to selling woman shoes,
because if I went into work and my goal
was like getting something from someone else,
like getting their money into my paycheck
and then giving them a shoe,
then that was an energy that was very constrictive
because it was more so,
it was more so focused on the outcome
and it wasn't aligned to what was beneficial for all.
So if I went into work and I wanted to add value to people,
I wanted to connect with people and have fun,
very different energy.
And the same way, when I started making videos
I had this intention to add value out into the world.
I had this intention to make content that could help people
and in the way, because our reality, we are all connected,
we're all one consciousness,
what we do that is best for the all
gives us a different level of energy access.
I heard this at Tony Robbins Conference as well,
he was talking about how, you know,
if you're just thinking about for you,
how much power is available to you?
But then if you have kids and a family
and you're doing it for them, you have even more power
and ability to channel that energy.
He didn't wanna use the word channel,
but that's kind of an idea.
And then imagine you do it for the community.
Then you have a different energy
because you're standing for a mission,
you're standing for more than just you and your family.
You're standing for a community.
And then imagine beyond your community,
imagine you do it for all of humanity.
And in a way, I think the way Tony Robbins has gotten
as much impact as he has is because
that's what drives him.
And in the same way, when I started trying to add value
and intending to add value onto the world,
it was like the universe came
and flew through in a different way.
It was like, people would say,
how do you have all these video ideas?
And it was literally like,
well, because I stepped into this part of my myself,
it's like, the ideas just came
because when we're willing to put ourselves
as a vessel of a higher power, of a higher energy,
it can flow through in a very unique way.
So doing what is the best for all
has been a game changer in my life.
And the one other piece of advice I'll give
that I've had to learn and is like a balancing act for me
is learning how to do this in the most integrity way
because I've seen this happen with many people
either in that do kind of what I do for a living
or other people in different niches
but when you start doing things for the whole
and you start impacting people in that way,
it comes with great responsibility.
And if people start to believe
it's their own ego that's doing it,
like, look at me, look at how many subscribers I have,
look how cool and special I am
and then sometimes people abuse that power
and use it to manipulate people,
their followers or whatever
When people do that, the universe will slap them
very hard on their hands
and say, no, that's not okay, because it's out of integrity.
So one of the things with this
is when you're stepping into that role,
you really have to remain a pure channel to the energy
and not get too hung up and you have to remain humble
because otherwise you'll think, I'm so amazing,
look at all these things I did
but you have to be very pure with it.
And that's what I've had to learn how to do.
Now, the third thing, and the third way
the universe will give you what you want
and for a long time, I felt blocked
with this because I was reading all the books,
I was listening to the YouTube videos,
I was doing what Abraham Hicks said,
which is like, think it, think the better thoughts
and all of that, but I still felt blocked.
And that's because the universe wants you
to know this one thing that will change everything for you.
There's a difference between thinking it
and being it.
And for a long time, I'll tell you what,
I thought about being a YouTuber.
I thought about making videos.
I thought about how bad I wanted out of my nine-to-five job.
I thought about how slow it was at work.
I thought about all these things.
And I thought about how I wanted,
I had this white hot burning desire that I want
to live in a reality where I do what I love
and I help people and I make videos,
but nothing actually happened
until I started being it, until I chose to embody it,
until I chose to commit to that reality.
And the universe wants you to know
that a big component of reality is action.
The action that we take
is a way of embodying the energy
of what we desire, what we want,
and when we embody that energy
then the universe has different ways
of bringing opportunities through to us.
But the universe cannot bring things to us
if we remain in our heads
and remain thinking about it.
I think many of us, we may have forgotten
or maybe we came from higher dimensional states
of consciousness where all you had to do was think it
and it just appeared
and everything was in the thought realms.
And then we come to this 3D physical planet
where there's thought and emotion and action
and we're like, wait, there's something missing.
Why is it things happening?
Normally, I just think it,
normally I just think it, come on,
(tongue trilling)
machine gun thought form manifestations,
(tongue trilling)
and it doesn't come and we're like,
what's going on?
It's not like in 5D like I remember.
I don't wanna be here anymore.
I wanna go up and ascend.
But that's not the key.
The key is to actually embody it here.
And when you do it more and more,
I'll tell you as well, you will enjoy it.
You will love the action of it.
Making this video right now for me,
I'm having fun, and it's enjoyable.
And it's because I'm embodying that energy.
So don't focus on thinking it,
and even just feeling it, but be it.
I took the identity of being a full-time YouTuber.
I just decided this is who I am now.
And then recently I did my first ever live event.
I just decided, this is who I am now.
And I started to be this full,
this version of me that does live public speaking.
I did a three day seminar
and it was very powerful and I had a lot of fun.
And it was because of that energy.
Another thing the universe wants you to know too
a little extra, as I look at said, one, two, three, four,
on the timing, is to enjoy the process,
let go of the outcome and have fun
because if we're doing everything
and it's a means to an end, it's like, I'm gonna do this,
as long as I get this.
I'm gonna do this in order to get,
okay, I'm gonna do this thing in order to attract love.
I'm gonna do this thing in order to attract money.
But what we end up doing
is we end up creating for ourselves
a
reality where it's like we're trying
to manipulate reality instead of just be with it.
And also things become very serious.
And when it's serious, it's heavy
and there's a lot of resistance that's impacted in it.
But everything changes when we begin to change that energy
and we begin to have more fun.
Now something that will really help you
to allow the universe, to give you that what you want
is to really embody your purpose with confidence.
Confidence literally means to trust.
And the more we trust ourselves,
the more that the universe can then allow it
to reflect back to us that which we trust.
So it's about trusting ourselves and trusting the universe.
Now there's something new coming up
on July 1st to the 21st,
it's called the 21-Day Confidence Love Challenge.
This is for feeling self-confidence
and self love and learning to attract love
by removing emotional unavailability,
taking down the masculine or feminine shield,
how to feel safe in your own frame,
how to release codependent patterns.
I wanted to read you this from a past challenge
just to give you an idea
of the kind of transformation to expect.
This is from the Magnetic Love Challenge
that we did last year.
This is from Tia.
She said the 21 Day Magnetic Love Challenge was amazing.
Thank you so much Aaron.
Helped me to heal my past wounds
to replace old beliefs and stories with new ones,
to learn self-love that I have love and safety within me.
Taught me to be vulnerable and authentic
and how to actively choose who I want to be
and what stories I tell myself and pushed
to consciously take action towards
the new identity shift and maintain it.
Feel so light, happy and in love with life.
So grateful, highly recommend.
So if you wanna join the 21 Day Confidence Love Challenge,
now is the best time to join.
To get lifetime access to all the videos,
even if you can't make it to the live sessions,
there will be replays.
This is a 21-day process.
What makes it different from YouTube
is that this isn't just passive videos you watch.
There's a group accountability action to it.
There's live coaching, live Zoom calls.
And this is something that is just always very powerful
whenever we do these challenges.
So if you wanna join, go to www.confidencelovechallenge.com.
Click the link at the top of the description box.
And if you want a video that will help you
to really trust the universe more,
check this video out, it will help you so much.
The energy of control creates resistance
and many people that have controlling tendencies
end up not only resisting them actually manifesting
what they want but also they end up repelling
either love, they repel abundance, they repel new-