this video I'm gonna be sharing with you the truth on desire with the law of
attraction and something that a lot of people don't talk about in the law of
attraction community this is something that I think will change the way you see
the process and also help you to resonate more with what you want to
experience in a completely new way welcome back to another video my name is
Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness now in this video I'm
gonna be sharing with you the truth on understanding desire in the law of
attraction process and a new way for looking at it so that you really start
to create what you want from a place of resonance now the reason I say resonance
is because when you look at the law of attraction in general a underlying
consensus of the law of attraction is that desire is one of the keys to
success now at a certain level desire gets the energy moving so when you hear
people like Tony Robbins talk about how you have to be hungry it will move
energy and even the book Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill where he talks
about having the white-hot burning desire now these are certain ways for
going about the process and they will still get you results but that's if
certain things come into play and many times it creates blocks that then people
have to jump over and sometimes those blocks can make it so that it takes a
lot longer than it has to so basically what I'm saying is there's a better way
of going about it that comes from a higher level of
consciousness a higher vibrational state of being to where things happen in a
much easier way last night I was reading a book before I went to bed and that
book was talking about the Tao Tao Tao teaching and I was talking about how
that means the way the balanced it's this certain way that we're going and it
talks about how there were these two extremes anything that
on either side of the extreme drains us of energy so sometimes if we have a
strong desire for something we may actually be draining our energy if we
become identified with it and if we base our internal state of being on whether
that thing happens or not you see this a lot and I see this a lot because I'm in
this community I make videos on YouTube about this and I get people that ask me
all the time how do I try to person into my life I really want to attract this
how do I go about it and I can tell many times that people feel drained of their
energy because they're putting so much into what they want to create in their
life however what I'm learning is there's actually the better way that I'm
talking about and it has to do with more of something that has with an
observation point of view it comes not so much from what you want but why you
want what you want what is the why underneath you why would you want what
you want well it's most likely because whatever you want you want the emotion
that it brings you you want the feeling that that thing will give you and the
key is tapping into the feeling knowing that you can generate the feeling of
whatever you want simply by deciding to do so now what does that mean well what
it means is a lot of times what we do what I do and what I used to do a lot
I'm getting better at it is I used to always say that when something happened
in the future then I'd be happy but that's deceiving because then when the
future gets here I've already been conditioned to not be happy with certain
things and then the mind always jumps in and it ups the ante so whether this is
something like achieving goals when it comes to a certain dollar amount you may
get to that dollar amount that you make per month or per year or whatever it is
and go hmm this is just normal for me this doesn't feel as I thought it would
so I'm gonna up the ante even more maybe even a 15% more on top of that then I'll
feel better but it's just an if-then thing in the mind if this happens then
I'll feel better and that's a rule that we place on ourselves and if that rule
comes to fruition or if we abide by that rule
then we'll feel good if we accomplish it but the key is to understand that we can
feel the emotion that we want right now and by doing so we then resonate more
with the reality that we want quicker than ever so when it comes to desire I
would say that normally what happens with people when they have a strong
desire is they remain in one of the first levels of law of attraction and
that is the being here wanting to be here desiring for being over here and
feeling unconsciously that you don't already have that what you want think
about it in terms of resonance if you are here saying I want that over there
you're also saying I really really want that you're also saying I really really
don't currently have that and the key and the secret to this whole process is
knowing that that over there whatever emotion that over there will bring you
you can feel that satisfaction that happiness that gratitude right now in
the present moment and by feeling that emotion now in the present moment you
will eventually get there but the key is to not need that thing in order to feel
happy because if you need it then you're also saying that you haven't changed you
see we always get a reflection in our life of what we believe to be true and
we always get a reflection or life of who we are being and if and as we know
if we look at a mirror we can't expect the reflection of change before we
change we must change first and the same way sometimes what we do is we're like
hey I've changed but then we're peaking to see if the reflection changes and
we're waiting for the reflection to change before will actually change but
we're like hey I think I'm changing and we'll look at the mirror and it hasn't
changed yet so the key is to regardless of what the mirror reflection is doing
to change anyways because there's the thing there's a gap in between what we
perceive on the mirror we have time-space reality that we live in and
of course I'm at a certain level is an illusion
but there's a certain momentum that we have built up from prior experience and
that momentum continues to play itself out sometimes you'll be looking at the
mirror you'll be getting the old reflection saying I know I've changed
but if you're not actually changed on the inside because you're waiting for
that to change then the change hasn't happened yet now it's a paradox because
when you don't base your internal state of being on what is externally happening
when you don't base it on that that's when everything will change and
paradoxically enough things will happen even easier but you have to learn to
generate the emotion from within because when you generate the emotion from win
within that's when you actually resonate with what you want to experience now
there's another process that I teach that's called reality Tran surfing
there's a book called reality Tran surfing written by a quantum physicist
named Vadim Zealand in Russia it's becoming more well-known because I'm
making a lot of videos about it as well so a lot of people are starting to learn
a lot more about reality Tran surfing and one of the part one of the things in
there has to do with understanding this balance of desire importance and
intention so normally what we do is if we say I really really want that like I
said we're saying I really really don't have that but what we also may doing is
be putting things on a pedestal saying this is very important I really hope
this happens I really hope this interaction with this person I have a
crush on goes really well I really hope it does and if we put them on a pedestal
we then create this resistance we create this potential for resistance everything
in life has a certain level of what could be called the yin yin yang if you
look at certain traditions there's this balance this polarity and any time we
push it to one side there's an either side that comes in to balance it so if
we're draining ourself of energy because we really desire something there's this
pull to come back to the middle and in order to come back to the middle
time's that thing gets taken away from us because that's what in reality Tran
surfing is called this balance of coordination anytime we put something on
a pedestal balancing forces come into play because there's something called
excess potential balancing forces metaphorically speaking come into play
to balance that out so how does it balance it out we'll sometimes we just
won't get that which we want because we're also saying in the present moment
I don't currently have that which I want because I really really want it which
means I really really don't currently have it and because we're saying that
what happens is we must get to the middle way there's a very strong
correlation between the Tao Te Ching and that of reality transfer Feeny I was
realized in this last night when I was looking at the principles because it's
about this middle way this middle balance of going about things now here's
the thing and reality Tran serving desire isn't powerful desire is only
powerful if it is translated into intention now what's the difference
between intention and desire now desire is an energetic thing that can sometimes
move energy however it many times causes blocks but it's an emotion it is a
feeling that we have that then allows us to focus now intention the difference
between desire and intention is intention is something that we actualize
it's something that we move energy towards that we take action with or
something that we move energy with whereas desire is simply in a moat it's
a thought it is something that we think about but in the same way this is the
analogy they use in the reality Tran surfing book as I'm here right now if I
have a desire to put up my hand that desire is not powerful unless I
translate that desire into intention intention is the realization of that
desire so sometimes desire will to that intention designer will get us
to take action desire will get us to feel a certain emotion or to desire and
focus in a certain way but if we move our hand like this that's because we had
the intention to do so we have realized that desire so the key to this whole
process is understanding the movement from something that may be a desire into
that of intention now when it comes to the process of desire and the law of
attraction let's understand another aspect of getting results with what we
want with the law of attraction it's something that I really believe is the
most underrated one of the most underrated things when it comes to this
process and that is focus focus anything we focus on grows and in order
to become successful it requires quite a bit of focus but a lot of people will
focus for a little bit on something then move away from it therefore it just
grows a little bit think of it like you're watering something but you're
watering something that is able to continue to take in water so you're not
over watering it sometimes people might work a little bit too hard to create the
resistance but in general the more you water it the more it grows but some
people they'll just trickle a little bit of water on it and then run away and
then come back three weeks later and be like see you didn't work law of
attraction doesn't work I wanted to go full-time with my passion but just
didn't work well it doesn't work if you just trick the water on it every three
weeks now the more that you focus on anything the more it grows the reason
that Steve Jobs Warren Buffett a lot of success people have said that you have
to do what you're passionate about is because whatever you're passionate about
it is so easy for you to focus and that focus will then grow and then even when
it appears to be hard you'll still focus through it that's the key is focus
because in the process with desire and the law of attraction many people will
have a certain focus for a period of time but then shift the focus when a
little bit of distance comes up the key is to redefine
that resistance and to know that it's part of the process and that the more
you allow things to happen the easier things will be for you so when it comes
to desire and the law of attraction understand that desire is only powerful
if it's translated into intention which means that into the realization into the
energy movement of it and to being able to actualize that which you are desiring
and you can even just think to yourself right now
I intend dot dot dot what do you intend for in your life
I said intentions throughout my whole day when I'm going when I get up in the
morning I said in an intention that I have a great meditation in my meditation
I pre plan out my whole day and I set intentions for certain segments of my
day so I set intentions to have a great time
filming videos set intentions to enjoy editing the videos to getting work done
on my business I set intentions to enjoy going to the gym to getting things done
the rest of the day whatever I need to do or spending time with family or
whatever it is I set those intentions because then that
equals and that influences the rest of my day and I find it to be very powerful
but the key is to set those intentions because the intentions are going to help
you realize whatever your desires are so desires can be okay as long as it's
moved in a certain direction many people stay in phase one of manifestation which
is just the thought of it this isn't about thinking this is about
being this is about encompassing the whole dynamic how you think how you feel
and what you do all three of those make up who you are and we get a reflection
of who we are so the key is to know why we want what we want and then to break
that down into an emotion so for example if we want more money we could say how
do we how do we attract what we want and have desire for it without emphasizing
that what we want isn't already here the key to this
is understanding this is more about resonance and the key to this is
understanding whatever you want brings you a certain emotion so choose to feel
that emotion right now because you can choose the meaning you give to things in
your life and when you choose to feel whatever emotion that is so if it's
money for example money brings you what most people for me it brings freedom
freedom to do what what I want what I want to do it for some people it brings
security the feeling of feeling secure and safe for some people when it comes
to relationship that represents to them connection compassion love you can feel
that right now by focusing on things in your life that are already there that
allow you to feel that emotion and by doing that you will attract what you
want quicker than ever because you are more so resonating with that so this is
about understanding that you can choose and give yourself permission right now
to release what you want the serotonin the dopamine with your focus whatever
you focus on you feel start to focus on things you already have that have the
vibrational basis of what you want to experience and you will then be
translating that desire into intention make the choice that you're going to set
more intentions in your life you'll start to move the energy in a very
powerful way and understand that this goes beyond that of just what you think
this is about who you are and when you begin to see it from this point of view
things will happen easier than ever what I also encourage you to do is to go down
the middle way what they call the Tao the way go down and don't give it excess
importance excess meaning see it as a natural part of who you are see it as
something that doesn't have to drain your energy because you're going down
the middle way you're not really really really wanting it really really
literally thinking you don't have it you are just going through the process
observing your thoughts more than anything else and you'll find that
things happen easier than ever you have the power to do it you have the power to
move the energy with your focus and I'm confident that if you do you'll
experience more of what you want your life in a much faster way so
with this process something else I'm going to be doing is I'm going to be
doing more live Q&A s on Instagram so if you haven't followed me on Instagram
already go ahead and follow me I'll be doing live Q&A is there I also post
daily content there as well so if you want some additional content you'll see
that too and other than that I hope you enjoyed
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