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hey guys it's practical psychology here
and after my video on how to tell if a
girl likes you a lot got a lot of great
feedback I decided to make a video on
ten psychological ways to get a girl to
like you first off I want to say that
these are ethical and aren't
manipulative but will in the end make a
girl subconsciously be attracted to and
want to be around you more so number one
have your own life this is like
literally the foundation of starting a
great relationship and will give you the
starting base to make her like you think
of it like this if someone tries to sell
you this amazing new book with all kinds
of secret life formulas that will make
you rich happy get a six pack in 3 days
and become a new world leader in the
marketing and packaging of the book
looks great but then you open it and
read it and all it says is life is short
you don't need these things buy more
books for better advice when you were
trying to get in a relationship or make
a girl like you and you have a boring
life this is literally what you're doing
imagine having amazing life and doing
awesome things that you say hey girl I
really like having you around you want
to stick around and that's all it hey
make your own personal life interesting
and girls will flock tip number 2 have
an interesting hobby or passion
here's another super interesting tip
that is hard to find elsewhere on the
internet literally having just one
passion will make you see more
interesting plus it adds respect to tip
number 1 you're starting your own life
your hobby can be anything that you're
passionate about just make sure it's
true passion and not faked if I said I
love chainsaws and carving chainsaw art
in my free time but I actually didn't
the sparkle wouldn't be there and the
girl won't see it when you are actually
passionate about something your girl
will notice there's something infinitely
sexy about a guy with an intense passion
towards something it could be
programming motorcycling cooking drawing
reading playing an instrument and
anything else that suits your fancy just
put in the time bonus points if you
create something in the process tip
number three have great hygiene
okay guys number one tip to instantly
make a girl attracted smell good I don't
even mean smell amazing you just have to
smell decent go take a shower
rub body soap all over you twice now
shampoo your hair dry yourself off apply
good deodorant put clean clothes on in
your set no need to douse yourself with
half a gallon of Axe body spray
you just have to smell presentable you
can though buy some cologne and spray
one squirt two squirts max I recommend
one on the wrist and one near your
neckline this is all it takes to smell
great and girls fall for great smelling
guys
all the time tip number four ask her to
do things for you so this is definitely
a secret tip and maybe even a bit
manipulative but definitely not anything
evil or negative just ask her to do
something for you there's a
psychological effect called the Benjamin
Franklin effect that goes like this you
ask a girl to do something for you she
does it and in the end she
subconsciously likes you just a bit more
you might be asking why though well when
we do stuff for people our brain thinks
since we're doing something for them
we must like them now Benjamin Franklin
uses techniques on his rivals and
political opponents to get him to like
him more also there's something called
the consistency bias after someone has
done something for you a couple of times
they're more likely to do more just
because they don't want to look
inconsistent tip ask for things like
picking up a pencil for notes in class
giving someone a paper or even small
errands but don't overdo it though where
she'll feel like you're using her tip
number five make her laugh this is a
great tip and you may not think you're
funny but the truth is everyone can be
funny if they try you have to put
yourself in enough situations to get
used to the awkwardness of telling an
unfunny joke enough that you have the
confidence to tell more jokes around
people the more you tell the better you
will get girls love laughing and the
more that you can make them laugh the
higher up in their social chain you will
seem it proves that you're
intellectually strong and humorous which
is a desirable trait and a future mate
also this will give you the chance to
see where her eyes are going whenever
she laughs to see if she's interested in
you at all tip number six be her friend
and there's a big difference between
being her friend and being friend-zoned
also I want to note it's been proven and
totally acceptable to be in the friend
zone for months at a time and then move
in and start dating so go the extra mile
and do stuff that makes her smile do
things that other guys wouldn't do stuff
like leave little notes in her car send
her good morning text talk her through
problems and sympathize with her in fact
in doing these you're practically
halfway already dating her you just have
to tell her that you want her for the
rest of your life and you're basically
set right tip number seven break the
touch barrier here's a good subconscious
psychological tip that works amazingly
well in many situations touch your
shoulder ask her for something and grab
it out of her hand or make up some game
that requires the touch and play it with
her like rock paper scissors come up
with a cool handshake if you have to the
idea is to make her know that you're
willing to touch her in a non-sexual way
because you feel comfortable around her
and to get her reaction if she seems
disgusted or scared don't
anymore number eight tell her secrets
tell her a secret about you something
personal that not very many people know
this will open the door for trust and as
you tell her more things about you she
will notice that you trust her and in
turn she will trust you more
psychologically we like and trust people
who trust us first because we have a
natural instinct to be wary of new
people and not to trust them so when you
prove that you trust her she will start
to reciprocate in the same fashion now I
recommend telling your secrets that
you'd be okay with if other people knew
just in case she tells someone but make
sure they're personal and make sure they
would be considered a secret bonus
points if they're things that are
slightly embarrassing something like you
have 11 toes or you're voting for Trump
should do fine tip number 9 give her all
of your attention in a world where your
attention can go anywhere it is one of
the most valuable things you can give a
girl if you want her pay attention to
her and not just for a couple minutes
look her in the eyes when she's talking
to you and make mental note of all the
stuff she's talking about if you can
mention it in later conversations she'll
feel special and start to enjoy your
presence this works with anyone the last
tip is to beef up your confidence game
I'll be making a video soon on some
amazing secret tips that you can do each
day to boost your confidence game this
is a lot to do with being self-aware and
knowing what makes you awkward and
insecure and working on yourself and
improving this to become more secure and
confident who you are as a person the
best general advice I can give you to
become more confident and to make a girl
like you is to work out regularly if
you're in middle school or high school I
suggest three days a week arms legs and
core / cardio now near the end of high
school and during college you can get
into more advanced schedule and
supplements and I might go into that
kind of stuff in topics in future videos
thanks for watching guys and click the
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