Your boi Matt Artisan here and i'm going to show you how i got 100 first dates from tinder
without actually opening tinder. Not even once - that's right. I didn't have to swipe endlessly, i
didn't have to message girls or text girls or call girls.. and no i'm not talking about blind dates or
anything like that i literally did zero work no effort to go on 100 dates with women that i was
actually really excited about women that were significantly attractive and you can do it too
because it's actually really easy again my name is matt artisan from the attractive man coaching team
coming at you from beautiful philippines manila and in this video i'm going to show you a secret
way to get more dates than you can even handle without lifting a finger by completely automating
and outsourcing your dating life now i want you to think about this for a second is your time worth
under five dollars an hour if it is then this video is not for you you can stop watching it
i'm sorry this method is just not gonna work for you but if you get paid more than minimum wage
at your job then why are you spending time messaging and swiping girls on dating apps
when this is about a four dollar an hour activity not worth your time you can get somebody else
to do it for you you can get somebody else to message girls and even set up dates for you now
i need to give credit where credit is due i did not invent outsourcing or dating i first heard
about this about 10 years ago in tim ferriss's book 4 hour work week and i had already started
using a virtual assistant by that time helping me in my coaching business but i had never thought
about outsourcing my dating and yeah there were a bunch of roadblocks along the way you know i
didn't know what kind of messages to have them send like should i have my virtual assistant
pretend to be me or like just say hey i'm matt's virtual assistant i'm messaging him on his behalf
so i became like a mad scientist trying out all these different messages and different methods
i tried really long messages i tried really short messages but the cool thing is i wasn't sending
out any of the messages i had somebody else doing it for me and of course my virtual assistant from
the philippines was really excited about helping with this one time i got on a call with him i
was like hey what's your favorite part about helping me with my business and you know all
the different tasks that you do and he's like i like doing your tinder the best can't blame him
but eventually he became pretty good at it he figured out you know which messages worked the
best which ones got the best responses and then we just doubled down with those messages and the best
part is anytime i traveled to a different city or a different country i would just tell him a
week or so ahead of time and he would change the location and i would literally sometimes
have dates as soon as i landed so let me explain exactly how it worked my assistant of course had
my login information for tinder he would log in he would you know do all the swiping i would tell him
and show him some examples of what kind of girls i was attracted to and he would try to swipe right
on those girls and then when there was a match he would send them a certain amount of messages
just cookie cutter copy and paste messages which is basically what i did anyway when i was doing
my own online dating i didn't like spending a lot of time looking at their profile trying to come up
with something unique i'm not saying that's a bad strategy it absolutely is you're more likely to
get a message back but it just takes too much time i am all about optimization and doing things that
save me time so he would message back and forth and get their phone number for me and then all i
had to do is look at the spreadsheet that he would fill out every couple days and i would see their
name a link to their profile their age location and any relevant information and then of course
their phone number and then i would add them into my phone and send them a message and set up my
date but then i thought well maybe i could have him do all the setting up the date for me so then
instead of having him get their phone number he would just try to get them to follow me on
instagram and of course get their instagram handle and then start messaging back and forth through
my instagram and then instead of looking at a spreadsheet all the time all i had to do is look
at my calendar he would literally set up dates for me now that strategy was really good except
i honestly i didn't like having to cancel dates if i wasn't really feeling the girl you know i would
obviously look at their picture and look at their profile before i went on a date with them so then
i went to sort of a hybrid strategy of just having him send the first message on instagram for me
and then i would pick up from there and set up the dates myself which really only takes like you know
three or four messages back and forth that's it now i know what some of you are thinking
some of you are probably thinking oh my god this is genius this is gonna save me so much time
and i'm gonna get a lot more dates because i can have this guy doing it all the time for four
dollars five dollars an hour maybe you can even find cheaper than that yeah you can get tons of
dates this way but i know it takes the romance out of dating i get it but here's the deal man
online dating is not romantic anyway it's literally just marketing nothing romantic about it
leave the romance for when you actually call her or show up on the date and speaking of marketing
the only way that this is actually going to work is if you optimize your online dating profile if
your pictures suck then hiring somebody else to do a bunch of swiping is just going to get you
a lot more of what you've been getting previously which is nothing you got to stand out from the
herd that's the problem with online dating is you're competing against like every single guy
out there which is why of course on our boot camps we originally only helped guys with approaching
women in real life because there's virtually no competition yeah there's a lot of competition at
bars and clubs but walking down the street at the mall at the coffee shop or the park there's almost
zero competition but the downside of approaching women in real life is you don't know if she's
single or not and you know nothing about her when you walk up to her whereas with online dating
most likely she's gonna be single if she's looking for guys to go on dates with and you know a little
bit about her before you even start messaging her so they're both good strategies but online dating
you're not working on yourself at all you're just sitting there swiping and copying and pasting so
again get somebody else to do it for you so now what we decided to do is evolve our coaching
program not only do we help you with approaching and becoming the best most attractive version
of yourself so that you can walk up to any woman with confidence but we actually help you with your
pictures we'll either take the pictures for you or tell you what kind of pictures you need to take
and then give you feedback because if you want to date the really high quality women then you
need to have really high quality pictures doesn't mean you have to be the most naturally attractive
man on the planet but you do need good style and you do need good photos that imply attractive
qualities about you basically photos that either show you in a very confident light where you just
look really confident in them and pictures of you doing cool [ __ ] because if you don't do
that then you're just gonna go on a lot of dates with women that you're not really excited about
and i don't want that for you man but once you've optimized your profile you can hand it off to your
virtual assistant in the philippines or wherever and you can just sit back relax and let the phone
numbers and dates funnel in now i'm not going to try to persuade you to join our coaching program
so we can you know do all of this for you honestly we have a lot of applicants and we're very picky
who we work with so instead i'm going to tell you about my book the secret language of attraction
because think about it you can't outsource you going on dates you still have to show up to the
dates so you need to know how to talk to women the right way so that you can build attraction and
create a deep meaningful connection which is what the secret language of attraction is all about so
if you don't already have my book make sure to download it right now click the link down in the
description or to the right of the screen get the book man because if you're sick of always worrying
about running out of things to say this will solve that problem so the words just flow out naturally
and so that you can build sensual tension with a woman almost instantly so i hope you download the
book my name is Matt Artisan from The Attractive Man team and i'll see you in the next video.