- Being a feminine woman
is not about the lipstick and perfume.
It goes much deeper than that.
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on how to be feminine in order to increase
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So let's be honest here being in touch
with our femininity for us ladies feels good.
Same as men feel good when they feel masculine.
The beautiful thing is that not only
we enjoy feeling feminine,
but when you are feminine,
this is when your guy loves it also.
So in this video, I will share with you five tips
on how to stay feminine in a relationship
and not only enjoy it yourself,
but also increase his attraction for you.
Tip number one, a feminine woman will let the man
initiate contact and plan the dates.
Men are attracted to a feminine woman
who lets him come to her first.
As one of the guy's love needs is uncertainty
which means he will enjoy chasing you.
As it's fun, challenging, and exciting for them
and makes them want to invest in you.
Why?
Because it's a man's job to do that
and he feels good doing what he was designed
to be doing.
The masculine man enjoys pursuing feminine woman
that is not hunting after him
because he is the hunter.
A woman who initiates contact and plans dates
for a man is behaving masculine herself
and automatically turns him off
or makes him fall out of love with her
as guys say.
And when we say like, "oh, I don't know
how it happened,"
but here is why.
He will then look for a feminine woman
who presents a challenge to him
so that he has the opportunity to be the hunter.
If you would like to find out what makes a man
to fall in love with a woman,
please watch my video right here.
Number two, a feminine woman
is receptive and grateful
with what a man offers her.
The man will only give to you
what he wants to give.
If you're making him to do something for you
without a free will, he will not do it.
He will play games with it,
or he might even resent you.
So, let him give free from his own free will
and be grateful for what a man gives,
even if it's not exactly what you wanted
and it's not exactly what you envisioned.
Make sure to be grateful for it
because by being receptive and grateful
to what a man is giving
you will likely get more and more
from him in the future.
And by the way, this is how things work
with everyone in life and not just men.
Whereas the ungrateful woman would voice her dislike
about what the man has offered her,
therefore turning that man off
and resulting in him taking away his token
of love or affection.
It is remember a feminine woman
is always grateful and receptive
when a man gives her something
because she understands that this is one of the ways
him showing her how much
she means to him.
And that is of course
always a beautiful thing.
Number three, a feminine woman
will always let the man fulfill
a manly role.
Men love to help women.
They love to feel needed.
It makes him feel masculine
when he can provide for you.
Feels like the man when he can do something for you,
even if you could have done it on your own.
A feminine woman will allow a man
to do things for her.
For example, open a jar, lift heavy boxes or furniture,
and he will do it gladly because he knows
he is the man and that is his job.
You might feel that you can do it yourself
because you are strong, independent,
and you don't need a man.
And ladies, yes, we are strong
and independent.
And we very well may be able to do these things
on our own.
And yes, we don't need a man to do it for us,
but we also can live without charms and complements,
but it surely makes us feel flattered, cared,
loved and appreciated
when he does.
Number four, a feminine woman
is modest.
She is not attention seeking for the purposes
of self validation.
Insecure and attention seeking woman
will want to make sure everyone
in the room knows exactly how she feels at any moment
and about everything.
A feminine woman is so secure in herself
that she is happy to observe
the actions of others and enjoy the moment as it comes
without the need to show it off,
impress or be the center of attention
in order to get validation from others.
Number five, and this one is very, very important
to understand.
A feminine woman is not submissive.
And at the same time, has strong boundaries.
She is not a people pleaser
or a woman who will bend over backwards
to make a man or anyone else happy
at her own expense.
A feminine woman is nurturing,
caring, loving, and giving
but she very well knows her worth
and has strong boundaries about others.
She knows who she is
and what she has to offer is more
than good enough.
She does not feel that she needs
to go the extra miles to please the man or anyone else.
She does not try to please others
or attempt to make her feel good enough.
And ladies, I want to share a very quick story,
which I heard from a friend.
So there was a wedding,
it was an Arab wedding where the groom was talking
about his mother.
And this is what he shared about his mother.
He said, "well, my mother was giving,
she was nurturing.
She was caring.
She did everything for us,
but also my mother had
a lot of respect from others.
She had boundaries and self-respect,
she was not a people pleaser.
So ladies, I want you to understand something.
You can be a housewife if that's your thing.
You can look after the family
and it's good to look after the family,
but do it in a way about you're showing boundaries,
self-love and self-respect.
And by showing that, not only you will
have your husband respecting and appreciating you,
but you will also be a perfect example
for the children that you're raising
on how not to be taken advantage of in life.
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