Hey ladies, Amy here.
Just like no two fingerprints are the same, neither are any two men.
I’ve taken the time to break down each stereotype and explain the pros, cons and things to consider
when dating each kind of man.
That said, it’s important to keep in mind that your man can be a combo of any number
of these things.
For instance, he could be a artistic, intelligent nerd, or a romantic party boy.
Also remember that not all of these traits are necessarily true for each type.
One size doesn’t fit all, so you may be dating a Man’s Man who isn’t a huge sports
fan, or a bad boy who doesn’t resist commitment.
Anyways, to give you a better idea of each type of man, I’ll break it down further.
Mr. Romantic is the Jerry Maguire type, the kind of guy to bust out phrases like “You
complete me.”
He may pull it off, but it may also come across as incredibly cheesy, it kind of depends on
what you’re into.
These kind of guys are sensitive or your feelings and careful with their words.
They think before they act and will put hours of thought into how they’ll show up at your
door or what kind of cologne they’ll wear.
If you’re looking for a man to take care of you, then this could be him.
At the same time you may find his romantic view suffocating, especially when you just
want to let it all out.
Keep in mind that if he’s used to using his charm then you may not be the only women
getting to hear it.
On the other end of the spectrum, Macho Man is your Rocky or Mr. T kind of guy.
He’s super masculine, afraid of nothing and has a huge ego when it comes thinking
that women want him.
He loves masculine things like cigars and steaks, and he doesn’t take shit from noone.
A bonus of dating this kind of guy is that everything will always run smoothly, so after
spending a few hours with them you’ll feel mellow and carefree.
When it comes to sex Macho Men always bring their A game and there’s nothing they won’t
try.
They’ll choose actions over words, and if you love the idea of a personal bodyguard
then you’ve met your match.
Keep in mind though that Macho Men don’t fall in love easy you may be fighting to keep
your place with him.
Next on the list is the Party Boy, and who better to compare than Steve-O or Charlie
Sheen.
These kind of guys are the life of the party, know loads of people and are always up for
a night out.
They’re the rockstars of beer funnels and VIPS at most clubs.
Since they’re so used to being sociable you won’t have to worry about forcing conversations,
but at the same time you may have a hard time getting him to really open up to you.
Also, since they’re used to such an exciting lifestyle you may have a hard time getting
him to commit to anything serious.
If you’re the jealous type then you may not be able to handle all the women surrounding
him.
You’d have to be spontaneous to make this one work because a structured relationship
isn’t their style.
Then there’s the Exotic Guy, think Fez from That 70’s Show or Antonio Banderas.
These kind of guys have sexy accents, exotic looks and a unique way of seeing the world.
Their social customs and ways of doing things are charming and they perfect if you’re
interested in getting a worldly perspective on dating.
If you’ve seen any romantic foreign films that you’ll have an idea of what I’m talking
about - the kisses on the hand or cultural courting traditions; it’s actually adorable.
That said, language barriers can be tough with Exotic Guys, and there is the possibility
of you finding their behaviours weird.
All that aside, if you want to start something serious with your Exotic Guy consider talking
about their visa status before you get in too deep.
You don’t want to feel obligated to marry the guy just to keep him around.
Now we get to the Nerd, and who doesn’t love someone like Michael Sera or Jason Segel.
These kind of guys are awkwardly adorable and super quirky.
They can be shy around the ladies and aren’t always the smoothest of talkers, but still,
they’re charming.
If you’re looking for a geeky guy for your little weirdo heart then this may be him.
An extra bonus is that he’ll be able to do things like set up your surround sound
or debug your laptop.
And if you’re into the same sort of nerdy things then you’ll have someone to talk
about the Marvel Universe with or play World of Warcraft with.
Since Nerds aren’t exactly known for beings ladies men he may not have a lot of experience
between the sheets, but you can bet that he’ll be quick to learn and eager to please.
Also, he’ll listen when you tell him that his sweater vest has gotta go.
Otherwise it’s what you see is what you get from these guys.
Next is the dreaded Control Freak, and since these kind of men are hard to pinpoint, think
the character Christian Grey from 50 Shades of Grey.
The trouble with Control Freaks is that they’re incredibly charming when you first meet them,
so their controlling behaviour goes unnoticed.
They’ll be the ones to plan your dates and pay the bills.
Then slowly but surely you’ll notice that his alpha male personality isn’t what you
think.
He’ll try to decide what’s best for you, and may tell you how to dress or act.
It can be tricky not to fall for his confidence, but if he starts putting down your friends,
family or interests then it’s time to get out.
So many women think that they’ll never fall for one of these jerks but you’d be surprised
how cunning they can be.
If you’re the kind of lady who appreciates being looked after then you may enjoy dating
a Control Freak.
On the other hand if you’re an independent woman, this kind of guy will probably drive
you crazy.
Either way, know when to walk away.
Now, the Peter Pan Man, the boy who never grew up.
You see these kind of guys in college movies and comedy shows.
They’re not serious about anything except playing video games and Friday night drinks,
which is why they need a woman who will mother them along the way.
These guys are childish, so even if you are in a relationship, which may be a challenge
in itself, he’ll continue to flirt with and befriend other women.
What’s worse is they’re commitment-phobes so it can be a risky situation.
Peter Pan Men don’t have a weekly plan, yet alone a five year one.
That said, they are a lot of fun, so if you can’t stand the serious type, then you may
get a kick out of dating a Peter Pan Man.
Don’t try to put any responsibility on him though, it’s not his thing, and nothing
is ever his fault.
Ahh, now we reach Mr. Intelligent, think Brad Pitt or George Clooney if you will.
It doesn’t matter how good looking these he is, they’ll sweep you off your feet using
their brain.
He's brilliant, laid back and focused, and he knows how to instigate intellectual conversations.
That said, even though he listens attentively to you, he can forget to take turns in a conversation.
But if you’d like someone to keep your brain juices flowing then this is the kind of man
you’re looking for.
Even just being around this man can make you feel smarter, but if you’re not one for
thoughtful conversations then you may find yourself frustrated.
On to the Artistic Guy, the moody painter, sappy songwriter or other aspiring artist.
These kind of men are always bursting with creativity, whether it’s in the music the
write, the art the draw or even their acting rolls.
They have crazy sex appeal, love attention and know how to work a crowd.
He’s vocal, honest and upfront.
Sounds perfect right?
Sadly his daydreaming can be hard to deal with, his work schedule is based on when inspiration
strikes and he may very well be a “starving artists,” meaning broke!
Since he’s going to have to sell himself and work to buyers, if you have trust issues
or are the jealous type then you shouldn’t date this kind of man.
Then there’s the Bad Boy, every woman’s dream.
Think Tom Hardy or Jax from Sons of Anarchy.
These guys seem so dreamy because they don’t play by the rules.
They’re bold, tough and sexy as hell.
Dating one of these rebels will make you feel wild and free.
Not to mention safe because there’s no way he’s going to let anyone mess with you.
On the downside, they are known for being angry and being resistant to commitment.
If you hook up with one of these guys you should be ready for no rules, labels or strings
attached.
No matter what you do, don’t get into a relationship with a Bad Boy thinking you can
change him.
You can’t.
Ohhh the Damaged Man, the kind of guy most women mistaken for being sensitive or open
to their feelings, only to later find out that he’s in fact a broken mess.
These kind of guys can seem distant, but they wear their hearts on their sleeve.
They’re open about how they’ve been hurt before but they do have some trust issues.
Some of them are afraid of rejection, but it doesn’t mean that they can’t love again.
The key is to take things slowly with the Damaged Man.
And remember, as much as you may see this man as a sad, stray puppy that needs rescuing,
he’s not.
If you’re the compassionate type, then you may naturally be drawn to this kind of guy.
Don’t be fooled by their label, the Underachievers are much smarter than you may think.
That said, they don’t have the motivation to put their smarts to use.
A good example would be Bart Simpson.
Underachievers lack ambition but are easily satisfied with where they’re at…. even
if that’s their parent’s basement.
They have few worries, but no aspirations.
If you’re looking for a simple, uncomplicated life then this is your kind of guy.
That said, if your man isn’t interested in doing things or going places then you may
get bored in the relationship.
Not to mention that he’s content with working a minimum wage job then your dates may consist
of pizza pockets and Netflix.
If you’re an overachiever then this is a match made in HELL.
The Shy Guy.
Think Ben Stiller in the movie The Secret Life of Walter Mitty or Steve Carell in 40
Year Old Virgin.
These are the guys that aren’t always visible on the dating scene because they’d rather
not be in the spotlight.
Still, they’re out there.
These guys are soft-spoken and get nervous easily.
Unfortunately for them, it’s easy to mistake them for stalkers when they’re treading
closely behind, building up the courage to talk to you.
Once he does open up, Shy Guys can be wonderfully romantic and they’ll take their time with
you because they’re nervous.
Also, since he’s less experienced with flirting and picking up women you won’t have to worry
about him messing around on you.
If you are the impatient kind then a Shy Guys’ slow and cautious approach may drive you crazy.
Next up is the Pretty Boy, you know the type, they have swooning good looks.
Think David Beckham or Orlando Bloom.
But just because he looks good doesn’t mean he’s the complete package.
In fact, Pretty Boys are known for being high maintenance.
Since he’s used to having all eyes on him, he wants a queen who isn’t insecure about
the attention he’s getting.
If you’re into checking out the hottest new restaurants and clubs then the Pretty
Boy will be happy to join you.
Just make sure you have the self-confidence it takes to date one of these eye candies.
Last but certainly not least we have the Man’s Man.
The typical guy.
The Frank Sinatra if you will.
He’s well groomed, well dressed and well educated.
He likes to know what’s going on in the world, but more importantly how his sports
teams are doing.
He’s polite, will swear when he needs to but knows how to keep his temper in check.
He can handle his liquor, loves his meat and keeps himself in shape.
Most importantly, he will admit his faults and errors, because that is what real men
do.
Since the Man’s Man loves getting his hands dirty you can count on him to be your personal
handyman….
butttt you be sure to voice your appreciation - he thrives on it.
He’s a homebody at heart, so in order for a relationship to survive it’s important
that you give him space to do his own thing.
Thanks for watching, keep reading ahead and I'll see you soon!