Now I never in my life thought that I, Adam Lodolce, would even make a video how to touch
a man to spark his interest, but you sexy single ladies asked for it, so here we are,
and here you are, and here's Steve, who I will be violating in order to teach this concept.
Let's have a little fun today.
Shall we?
Now I spent the past eight years of my life lecturing and traveling across the country,
speaking to people about dating, love, and attraction.
One of the most typical questions I get from women is, "How do I show interest in a guy?
How do I show him that, yeah, I'm interested in seeing where this goes, rather getting
stuck in the friend zone."
I always come back to this one point.
It's all about the touch, breaking the touch barrier.
Getting comfortable with touching someone that you're attracted to and don't know that
well can be very, very scary.
It can be very uncomfortable, so this, my friends, is where my buddy Steve comes into
this equation.
I'm going to walk you through a few different parts of talking to guys and where it is that
you can touch him and exactly what it is communicating.
Let's start with number one, and we're going to start with the arms and the shoulders.
Basically, by touching a guy in the arms and shoulders, you're going to be communicating,
"Yes, I'm considering whether or not I like you."
I remember one time I met a woman at a networking event, and we were talking, and we were just
having kind of a normal conversation, but I remember, she left her hand on my arm for
just like one second longer than most people would do, and just by leaving that hand on
the arm, you are actually communicating to him, "Yes, I'm interested in seeing where
this goes.
This is not just like a friendship type conversation, or even a business conversation.
This could be something more."
Notice how just like the lightest touch on the shoulder can mean that to a guy.
Number two is lightly brushing the hand.
I remember when I used to go on a date, a lot of times when you are sitting across from
a one, you see it time and time again, or I would see it, you would slowly be moving
your hands closer and closer together.
In the moment, you probably had this happen, certainly in your teenage years, but even
beyond, when your hands lightly start touching, that is a very strong indicator that "I'm
no longer considering whether or not I like you.
I actually am very interested in you."
Number three is touching the hair and the neck.
By touching someone in the hair or the neck, basically, you're communicating that you trust
them, and you're seeing whether or not they trust you.
For thousands of years, back when we had a lot of safety concerns as humans.
You know, for hundreds of thousands of years when we were roaming in tribes and we'd meet
other tribes, one of the most sacred places on our bodies, our neck and most certainly
our head.
The only people that we would allow to touch us there are people who we truly trust.
It's a very intimate place, and it can be a very vulnerable place to touch someone.
If he's comfortable with you touching his face or his neck, and vice versa, then suddenly
you are opening the whole relationship up to a whole new level of intimacy.
A lot of times, that's the place where a man will touch you right before he kisses you.
That's the type of advice that I would give a man back when I was coaching men is "Look.
If you want to kiss a woman, then first, and it's looking like the stars are aligning and
it's about to happen, you can lightly touch her neck and if she's comfortable with that,
she's almost always going to be comfortable kissing you."
Make sense?
Number four is the thigh.
This is basically the "I'm thinking about having sex with you."
I think this goes without saying that if you're touching a man's inner thigh, you're communicating
that you're interested in a little bit more.
Number five, there is one other place that you can touch a man to indicate some type
of interest, and no, I'm not taking out the doll for that one.
So I hope you girls had fun with this video.
I did.
Myself and my buddy, Steve, and if you want more videos like this about finding relationships,
and love, and dating, make sure you click that link right there below, that link up
there, take you over to SexyConfidence.com where we have a ton of amazing resources finding
love and relationships, and also if you enjoyed this video and you want to see Steve in upcoming
videos, leave a comment right there below and let me know that this works or not, 'cause
I have not freaking idea if this is weird or not.
Thank you so much for watching, and I'll speak to you, you sexy lady, next Thursday.
Buh-bye.