- Imagine that you are a magnet.
You look at a machine gun magnet, you're Prrr!
and you've got all this energy going out of you.
And you're a fricking magnet
but you forgot you're a magnet, okay?
And actually what you're doing
is the magnets polarity is flipped
and what's happening, is you're actually blocking love
from coming into your life.
You're blocking it, okay?
It could come in, but you block it.
And the key to this,
is when you change these blocks
and you let them go
and you realize why the blocks are there too.
The reason those blocks are there,
is they were keeping you safe.
You see, you think you want love,
you think you want to attract a deep intimate relationship
but it might be the unknown.
It could be a little bit scary
getting that intimate with someone.
And what happens is,
you then say, "What are these blocks that I have
and how can I get rid of them
to then be a machine gun, to love, a machine gun magnet."
To love and have loved coming to you
which a love actually chases you.
And I'm telling you,
if you remove these blocks
that I'm sharing with you in this video,
they will completely transform your life
and you will find that love comes to you easier than ever.
And it's been absolutely life-changing
what I'm about to share with you.
So let's get into it right now.
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Welcome back to another video.
My name is Aaron
and I help people expand their consciousness.
Now, I've made a lot of videos on attracting love,
many of them.
Some of my top viewed videos
on how to stop chasing love
and have loved chase you.
Why do people want people to chase them?
Doesn't that sound a little creepy?
Isn't it a little creepy
if you're walking down the street
and someone's just chasing you?
You probably don't want that kind of love dynamic, okay?
And if you find that you're chasing someone else,
you're probably also have a love block
where you are projecting
or you're maybe pushing your energy onto them,
that then has them running away.
Think about that.
If you are chasing someone, they're gonna run away.
Imagine you chasing a dog,
it's like, "I'm gonna get you," the dog, boom!
The dog just starts running
or starts playing with you
because it's playing on that energy dynamic.
Well, in the same way,
we all have these blocks to love
that has other people in our life
doing different energy to dynamics
depending on the energy we're putting out.
So this episode, this video,
is about removing those blocks, okay?
So my whole entire life has changed,
in this department of my life,
in relationships and connecting to other people.
And it all started back in 1980, I'm just kidding.
It actually it did though,
it started when I was a kid
and there was certain childhood wounding there
that didn't had me believing certain things about myself
to where then I would in a way not be authentic
or I would think that I had to change myself
to receive love, okay?
So here's the number one block by the way,
to attracting love
and the number one block that blocks, literally blocks,
love from coming into your life.
You're ready for it?
If you're ready for it,
can you guys push the light button below?
If I see enough light buttons
then I'll keep doing the video, I'm just kidding.
So that's a form of also looking for validation.
I mean, we do it for the YouTube algorithm
and it helps us feel,
like it helps the video get out there
but in actuality, do we need likes to feel validated?
That's like needing someone, needing your crush
to like your photo for you to feel worthy.
Do you ever get like a rush of energy when that happens?
Well, it's an outside source
that you're looking for approval from
that probably stems from some childhood trauma
where maybe one of your parents
wasn't giving you the attention that you wanted
and you thought, well, maybe if I changed myself,
maybe if I was a certain way,
then I'd finally be good enough
and I get their attention or love.
So now we're looking through Instagram comments,
there's Instagram messages
like where's the light from my crush.
Oh! My God, they still haven't liked it yet.
That's how we think,
and it stems from childhood trauma.
So the biggest block we have with attracting love is this.
We have shame around love.
Shame, means there's something wrong with our identity.
If we believe that we are unworthy,
we will attract people
that reflect back our own unworthiness back to us.
Maybe they can't treat us right,
maybe we stay in abusive relationships
longer than we need to be.
And part of the reason
is we think there's something wrong with me,
there's something broken with me
and if I could fix my partner, I could fix myself.
If I could fix my partner,
then I could get them to actually love me.
You wanna know where this stems from?
Childhood, child, this is where it really stems from.
I realized recently that in some of my past love dynamics,
I was attracting people
that I felt like I had to fix.
And it was very clear to me,
that is was a similar dynamic
from when I was a kid.
Because when I was a kid,
I had my parents going through their own stuff.
And from them going through their own stuff,
there was a feeling
that I had where I felt alone
or I felt like my needs were getting met
so I thought there's something wrong with me.
You see, we're a little narcissists when we are kids,
everything revolves around us.
And what happens is, if our parents divorce,
it's because of us,
we're not worthy and holding complete, we're broken.
If our parents are giving us the attention we want,
it's because we're not good enough.
That's what we make decisions of when we're a kid.
That's the block that has it
so that love literally can't come into our life.
Now here's the key.
Are you guys ready for the secret?
If you're ready for the secret,
can you like the video below?
And I'll do the bit more in this video.
I'm just kidding, again, you see repetition.
So that's the key to this,
is realizing that what your mama or your dad
wasn't giving you as a kid,
had nothing to do with you, had nothing to do with you.
It was their own stuff.
It wasn't cause you weren't worthy,
they did not divorce
because you were such a crazy kid,
they divorced cause they got their own going on,
they couldn't figure it out.
And probably their parents may have gone
through the same stuff.
They just seem to trickle this stuff down
until we take it, we claim it
and we let it go.
And that's the key to this.
Now, if your boyfriend or girlfriend
that you broke up with, find someone new,
it doesn't mean you ain't worthy.
It means maybe they're gonna find someone else
that continues their own childhood pattern dynamics,
and they're just, they're good
but it has nothing to do with you being worthy or not.
You see what I mean?
Shame is the biggest cap block, it's a cap block.
Shame is a cap block to love.
Here's the introduced shame and guilt.
Guilt is, I'm a good person,
but I did something wrong, it's action-based.
Shame is, there's something wrong with me,
I am not worthy.
Now, shame and I am broken, comes from childhood.
Many of us have these beliefs
that we're not worthy, we're not good enough
and that's what blocks love in our life.
Think about it,
if you attract narcissists in your life,
for people that take advantage of you, why is that?
Well, because you tolerate that shit, you tolerate it.
No one else that's securely centered in themselves
will tolerate somebody
that's taken advantage of them.
But you may have that codependent tendency
because of the childhood pattern
where you were looking for external validation,
looking for the external,
like, yeah, validation really,
since the significance, attention and love.
Instead of realizing it within yourself,
bringing the frame back in here, inside the body.
And then say, what do I want?
How can I be more vulnerable?
How can I, by the way, the cure to shame, is vulnerability.
It's it's also realizing,
for me it was realizing
that my mom's stuff, my dad's stuff
had nothing to do with me.
My ex's stuff had nothing to do with me.
I mean, my responsibility was taking my power back
and stop allowing it
but it was not to internalize it
as a part of my identity.
As I started to do that,
I realized that I had a higher sense
of self worth for myself.
But then it was honestly sharing this, vulnerability.
Vulnerability brings the stuff in the dark
cause if you're shameful of it,
you don't want to share it into the light
and guess what?
Then what happens is it dissolves.
When you share this stuff,
it's crazy how much it transforms.
So if you guys didn't know as well,
you may have not known this.
There is a 21 day Magnetic Love Challenge
that is going to start on July 1st, July 21st.
And this Magnetic Love Challenge
is 21 days in a row
of us wiring in a more magnetic us,
releasing codependent patterns,
releasing that of the attachment styles we have
whether we're anxious or avoidant,
becoming more secure.
Understanding masculine and feminine energy dynamics
and polarity within ourselves,
if you find you're attracting feminine men
or masculine woman or whatever the dynamic is,
then you can heal this energy
and polarize this from the inside out.
We're gonna be doing a 21 day challenge
for healing and removing love blocks
and wiring in a more magnetic you,
no matter your sexual orientation,
no matter if you're in a relationship or not relationship,
it's really about the relationship with the self.
As you do that, you will become more magnetic
and you'll either deepen your relationship
or you'll attract more love.
And what we're gonna do
is we're gonna go through 21 days
where I'm going to be going live
helping you guys get these awesome results.
This is a process
where you didn't have some type of homework,
maybe a vulnerability challenge,
maybe different things you do
that you then post in a high vibe tribe group
and that vulnerability helps you heal.
There's also two bonuses
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So that's the biggest cap block
to attract attracting love.
It's understanding shame
that we believe that we're broken.
And one of the biggest cures to this,
is vulnerability, is sharing yourself.
Now think about it.
Someone that's codependent, a nice guy, a people pleaser,
they're afraid of expressing their true feelings.
So they may like someone
but pretend like they don't like them
or somebody who was asking me a question earlier
on a live that I was doing
and said, "How do I pretend to not be so needy
so that then they'll like me more
and it'll prolong the relationship?"
You don't do that, that's manipulation.
You instead, bring the awareness back into your body.
You feel inside of your body
and you feel safe there.
And then you start realizing
that you don't need the validation from outside sources.
And when you do that, you can actually express how you feel
and as you do that,
as you put yourself out there, maybe even to be rejected
but you're putting your authentic expression out there.
You'll find that a lot of times
that energy begins to dissolve,
the anxiety begins to dissolve.
So the key to removing the love blocks,
is becoming aware
of what you believe about love too,
your beliefs are literally creating your reality.
What are your beliefs about love?
What are your beliefs about the kind of people you attract?
What's your beliefs about masculine energy, feminine energy?
What are your beliefs
and your stories about your mom and your dad?
These are powerfully affecting your relationships.
And until you become aware of what those beliefs are,
they will be on autopilot.
I had a woman trying to control me
for the first, like after my dad divorced my ex step-mom
for like five or 10 years,
because that was a belief that I had,
women are trying to control me
and I have to retain my freedom.
And then after I healed that
and I became aware of it,
it didn't my whole life changed,
I never longer had that.
But I also had to realize
what are my beliefs about masculine energy?
What are my beliefs about feminine energy?
I realized that when I was attracting emotionally
unavailable people into my life,
is because I at a certain level
was emotionally unavailable.
Then as I started opening myself up
and start to stop being so judgmental
the people I was dating,
it was like all these opportunities started flying in to me.
And the reason being is once you change your energy,
you then allow new opportunities in.
So if you guys want to join
the 21 Day Magnetic Love Challenge,
click the link below, join.
The cheapest price you'll see it
with those two bonuses at that link.
We start July 1st to the 21st,
the videos will be recorded, put back in there
so you can watch it afterwards as well.
So even if you're not able
to make the lives every day, is okay.
And yeah, I'm super excited for this.
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say, "I'm in,"
just say that I'm in
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about for it as well.
Other than that helps you guys on the side.
As always peace, much love, and namaste.