Tripp Kramer here from Trippadvice.com.
In just a second here, you're going to hear from one of my good friends, Caitlin V and she is
our resident sex expert at Tripp Advice.
You might have seen her from many videos.
She'll be talking about the art of fingering.
There is an art to it, there is a way to be able to pleasure a woman in the bedroom using
your fingers and she is going to teach you all about that.
Before we get into that, if you're having trouble even getting to the point where you
have a woman in your bedroom, or you're able to get sexually intimate with a woman, I want
you to check out my program called "Hooked".
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This program teaches you my proven system to be able to go out, meet and attract the
women that you desire.
If you are at the point where you don't even have a woman to be able to try out some of
the stuff that you're going to learn in this video, I urge you to check out Hooked.
For now, here is Caitlin V. talking about the art of pleasuring a woman in the bedroom
with your fingers.
Hey Tripp, I am so glad that you called me.
Fingering is one of my favorite subjects because it's so powerful, but few men know exactly
how to do it right.
If you get really good at using your fingers, guess what?
She's going to be calling you back again and again and again!
Honestly, it's pretty rare.
Not a lot of guys know exactly how to finger a woman.
The techniques that I'm about to share with you are pretty life changing if you apply
them correctly.
Number one, all fingering starts with your fingers.
You don't have to get a manicure like me, but you need to make sure that your fingers
are in good shape.
That means trimming your nails, making sure there's no hanging nails and things that are
generally not smooth.
Try taking your fingers and rubbing them on your delicate skin like your lips or across
your face.
If there's anything on your finger that's rough on your lip, that is going to feel rough
on her body.
Remember that this is the most soft, delicate part of her body.
Anything that feels scratchy on you is going to feel scratchy to her and may even cause
irritation and infection in a worst case scenario.
First things first, take good care of your hands and fingers.
Make sure that they're smooth and filed.
There are two mistakes I see almost all guys make when it comes to fingering.
Number one is thinking that more is better and number two is thinking that more is better,
more in terms of number and movement of fingers.
The best case scenario is for you to start with just one finger.
Most importantly, make sure that it's lubricated.
Never ever touch a vagina or a vulva or a woman’s part without spit, lube or something
that makes your fingers smooth.
This is sort of like sticking a dry finger in your eye and it feels awful.
You want to make sure that your fingers are lubricated before they go anywhere near her
vulva.
Once they are, start with one finger.
Just because one finger is smaller than what you know that she's capable of receiving,
doesn't mean that she's ready yet.
She might only be ready for one, even if she's had children, still start with one finger.
Put one finger insert it inside of her slowly and then make
little come here movements.
Maybe explore a little bit, rotate to the left to the right or push down and push up.
Notice when you are doing in and out, none of those sensations feel very good.
Just because that's how your body goes in and out of hers doesn't mean that's how you
should use your fingers.
They're so different and the fact that you can bend your fingers is your greatest advantage.
My next tip is to forget about the seesaw motion, no song, no in and out, not like that.
When she's ready, you can add a second finger.
One of the coolest ways to add your second finger is by putting one finger under the
other. Inserting them and spreading them apart then you return to that come here motion.
Stacking your fingers one on top of each other in order to insert them within her is a way
more comfortable feeling for her than putting them side by side.
Once you've achieved insertion, then you can put them side by side.
You can keep going with this wider base.
Ideally, you'll do a bit of a come here motion and maybe explore as a professional opening
as a clock.
Start with 12 o'clock, one o'clock, two o'clock, three o'clock and see which parts of her body
respond to some pressure and a little stimulation.
You don't need a whole lot of motion.
Remember that stillness is your greatest asset.
It is your strength because it is going to make her want more.
If you confuse her by giving her a lot of motion, feeling and movement, she is going
to react by not being able to really focus on any one sensation, especially when you
first start with one finger, exploring, expand two fingers and you go back to exploring.
Ultimately what you want to do is focus on that come here motion You'll feel her G spot
right on your fingertips.
It's usually located between one and two inches inside of her body and it feels like a fleshy
little bean or a sponge.
You'll be able to keep that come here motion on her G spot for a little bit until she gets
close to orgasm, then you can pull harder and put more direct pressure on it and pull.
That's the only time that you'll make that seesaw motion, when you're pulling against
the G spot.
That's everything you need to know exactly how to finger a woman.
Plenty of lube, start with one finger, don't use a ton of motion, stillness is your friend
and don't forget to continue to explore the outside of her body as you're going.
Start with your one finger, exploring her vaginal area, gently touch her clitoral hood
and the shaft underneath the clip.
You can even explore by gently pulling the whole outer vagina, squeezing it together
with your fingertips, gripping it and giving it a little squeeze.
After you've done that and you've excited it, then you can get more specific.
Finger it with one finger, head up to the top and feel around for the G spot.
Go left, right and down and feeling wherever she's sensitive in those areas.
Had your second finger stacked, then side by side and move up to the top with a come
here motion.
The motion where you’re moving back and forth will feel the best.
As she's getting closer to orgasm, make stronger pull against her G spot.
Don't forget you can also explore with your fingers, delicately touching her vagina, clitoral
hood, depending on how sensitive she is . She may even be able to see it and touch her clitoris
itself.
Or if she's very sensitive stay around the area, touch the shaft of the clitoris or the
sides of it which is so really pleasurable and better on her
if she's too sensitive.
That is the art of fingering.