hey everybody I am so happy to go live with you today I was almost in a panic
to share this message with you this morning
my husband said aren't we gonna go walk the dogs and I said yes we are but not
until I can get this message out and share with you three very important
things you need to know about manifesting the desired partner you want
in your life I cannot stress these three tips enough if you really want to
manifest and call forth the person that you are meant to be with the person that
you desire these are the three tips that you're gonna want to follow there are a
lot of other great resources out there but again I was almost in a panic to
bring you this message I can't help but think there is either someone right now
this moment who needs to hear this message from me or maybe maybe I just
got triggered by a post that was in my iheartLoveAcademy which is my online
school for women and the person had written and said you know I practice so
tip number one she said I practiced something you teach have taught me which
is to really visualize the outcome visualize my wedding visualize saying I
do standing before your partner and saying I do she says but I find myself
getting lost in that fog I get lost in a fog of thinking about him non-stop and I
can't get myself out of it and I told her so tip number one is I want you to
limit the amount of time you spend manifesting because it can switch over
into obsession and just constantly being in this place of I want this person in
my life and I missed this person and I'm thinking about this person because that
is masculine energy that's when you are in your masculine energy you're solving
fixing doing so that's an action oriented so your brain is going to
constantly work on something until you can solve it so that becomes obsession
so number I want you to spend time you know each
day visualize your wedding visualize your wedding march you guys all know
about my story of it was the dead of winter yet I was marching up this hill
seeing my the man who would become my husband seeing him standing at the top
of that hill and I would walk to the top of that hill look him in the eye see him
say I do and then I too would say I do and it happened
it not only happened but it happened in that exact spot and it happened without
me doing anything to make you know to organize that so that's a wonderful
thing about the universe is that when you tell the universe what you want and
you feel good and you can add to it it makes it supercharged it's so much more
powerful now you can learn more about this process in the ABCs to get him back
that is a program over at my website Everhart coaching com I teach you how to
get you to this place where you can call forth the man you really want to be with
and want to marry so let's continue with tip number two so tip number one I want
you to meditate on it I want you to visualize it but don't stay there
forever set aside you know four to five minutes
a day where you do this and you connect with it and it feels good okay
so tip number two this is a really important one and this is what really
triggered me over at I heart love Academy yesterday my group so often the
man that you want back the person that you want back right now is in a really
bad place and they haven't been treating you very well so how can you want that
person back what you're really wanting as a person from the past to come back
to you because when you first met him here's how he treated you this is what
he did it was a wonderful in the beginning so that creates this problem
this block because if the man isn't calling you and he's not pursuing you
and he's not there for you and showing up ask
yourself this question is this my dream relationship as he is right now is this
my dream relationship I cannot stress this question enough okay is this man my
dream the relationship the way he's showing up right now
get very clear on that in most cases your answer is going to be no when that
happens a very powerful thing happens to your energy when you can go no this is
this man is not my dream relationship the way he's showing up you get a shift
inside of you and maybe some of you can feel that right now you feel that shift
this guy is not my dream relationship and then the next thing that happens is
what is what does it feel like now you can use your grab bag of men and pull
from that men from your past your first boyfriend the one that got away the guy
you're chasing now what felt good and what's not wonderful about them that's
where you want to start creating your new man and I teach you this in new man
manifesto which is a program over on my website I have as well you can download
it study it and begin working it so now that you're on track with this is not my
dream relationship as he is right now and you're clear you aren't gonna
attract that man to you anymore because that is what we want to do we don't want
to attract him the way he is now because it doesn't work so for all of you girls
out there that are like so in love with the guy who's not calling not texting
not coming forth not claiming you treating you wrong
the more that you're like what I love him and I want this one the more you're
telling the universe this is what I want and you'll keep getting it I want a
joker that doesn't call I want a Joker who's not there for me you see what I
mean so the first that number to ask yourself is
this man the way he's showing up right now my dream relationship no feel that
energy change in you immediately all
right then from there what is it that I want
what about this guy feels so good that I'm taking my time to watch a YouTube
video to learn how to manifest him into my life you see get in touch with that
right the third tip you got to feel good you got to feel good law of attraction
manifestation all works this way and by the way I've been studying a lot of
attraction and manifesting before the secret before Abraham Hicks who I love
Esther Hicks very much and I've had the honor to see her several times I started
studying it actually animal church I attended and Charles and myrtle Fillmore
were the founders of that if you ever want to learn more about the foundations
of law of attraction so you have to feel good now how do you feel good when
you're fighting back the tears all day long because I've been there and you're
walking around like you're in a haze and you're feeling so alone and lonely and
like no one understands how do you start to feel good so this is where I want you
to start with a smallest slice of time you can and visualize feeling better it
could be something as small as this these muscles in your face right here
make you smile when you smile you actually make other chemicals in your
brain kick off all right so set your timer on your phone
one minute non-stop smile listen to as much videos TV shows comedians that make
you laugh laughs laughs laughs as much as you can
as loud as you can especially if you're in your car alone
laughs dance dance is very important to women turn on your music shut the blinds
in the windows dance your butt off dance it all out dance it out it's really
going to help you and you can begin to then also create these little capsules
of memories that feel good so you have a thought oh my god hasn't called it's
been three months I haven't heard from him have a capsule on hand that you can
reach for you might have to write these down at first I teach you how to do this
a new man manifesto have that memory it could not even be an actual memory it
could be a memory you're creating that's going to happen in the future of the day
that you and him walked along the edge of the lake and held hands and kissed
and looked into each other's eyes and the wind was blowing your hair and you
could tell the way he was looking at you how beautiful you looked boom memory
have a bad thought go to that memory have a bad thought go to that memory
when you have the memory when you have any intrusive thinking pop into your
head how is this serving me how is this thought right now serving me ask
yourself that question because all your brain is doing is is it just firing you
these things trying to get you to solve it so I want you to get in touch with
this way way before the intrusive memories start happening okay go ahead
and line yourself up with some positive thoughts before the intrusive memories
start happening now someone asked me about the history of law of attraction
Charles and myrtle Fillmore started they you know I don't want to say they
started it because someone started it way before them but that's who I studied
with and they began you know gosh 19 birdies
I believe 1930s or 40s so I started reading their material at a young age
abraham-hicks I first heard about them when asking it is given I believe it was
2005 or so and I'm a lot older than I look so I've been around a while all
right everybody I hope that these three tips will help you to really manifest
the desired relationship you want you got to feel good how do you go from
driving a beater to driving a Porsche you've got to imagine what it feels like
to drive a Porsche you got to imagine how good it feels if you want a Porsche
same with your man you got to go from the negative thinking to the positive
and switch it quickly learn to switch it quickly before it dominates your
thinking and you align with that sort of energy all right
ask yourself seriously is this the man of my dreams yes or no the way he is
right now man of my dreams yes or no get solid get firm get stable and what you
want the man of your dreams to be and the first one is practice visualization
practice manifesting but only for a certain amount of time every day because
otherwise it goes into obsession okay now I mentioned two programs I have one
is new man manifesto it is my most thorough program that I have
and then there's also the ABCs to get him back which teaches you a process
that I have created to get your partner back nine times out of ten you don't
even have to do the he'll marry pass if you follow the steps and ABCs to get him
back and it works all the time if you don't believe me go to my website or
sorry go to I heart love Academy and check it out there every day I have
women talking about it so I love making love happen in your life that's what
that's why I do this I love saving marriages I love saving relationships
and I love saving women from this terrible place known as heartbreak
because I was once there and I have never felt pain the way I felt during
heartbreak so I want to help you get out of it and realize you can have this
wonderful amazing rich juicy full life with the man of your dreams I promise
you you can all right everybody I'm gonna sign off much love to you all I
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stay strong and your feminine energy and have a beautiful glorious day wherever
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