Looking for a perfect partner is not that easy bro.
Ladies are more complicated creatures than men.
Understanding them can be a tad strenuous because, unlike guys, their personality is
covered in layers.
A woman's expression of love comes in different ways that are non-verbal such that, often
it is through this means that you will discover that she secretly loves you but is afraid
of showing it.
The signs she will show you might vary from that of another woman, some are more obvious
than the others.
But once you are familiar with each of them, you can easily decipher the message she is
trying to pass along.
However, before diving right into these signs, let's examine the reason why a lady might
be afraid to admit her love interest to a man.
First, we are shaped by our experiences and this might at times affect our trust for others
especially when it comes to matters of the heart.
With love comes vulnerabilities, and this might stir up fears in a woman.
Therefore, they build up a wall to keep out all the hurt that comes with love.
This hurt varies from, a history of rejection, lack of confidence in one's self, failed relationships
in the past, and fear of being vulnerable to another.
Irrespective of all this, when a lady comes across a guy that is different from the rest
and fits her kind of guy, she might not be able to admit her love but would use other
means in expressing herself.
Now, let's examine the signs that show she secretly loves you but is afraid to admit
it.
Her bodily expressions.
A woman's body gestures give so much away without her saying anything.
How does she behave when she's close to you?
You need to pay utmost attention to this as well as how she responds to your body gestures.
A lot can be said about just changing one's body language.
Does she have her arms outstretched and at ease while sitting near to you?
If you stare at her, does she move around without hiding?
If so, she feels at ease being around you.
She wants to be near to you but is unsure of whether she's ready to pursue it further
if her arm brushes yours and she leans in while you're speaking.
She responds to your body language, which is the opposite side of the coin.
Few guys pay enough attention to their body language, while the majority of guys concentrate
on what they're saying to a girl.
This is a serious error because women have heightened sensitivity to the messages a man's
body sends.
And if you're communicating with her effectively through your body language, she'll almost
certainly say "yes" to you.
What you signal to them is much more crucial.
Because if you're short, obese, bald, or stupid, it doesn't matter how you appear or how affluent
you are.
Any man may pick up some basic body language tricks that make women want to be more than
just their friends.
She gets entirely inquisitive about you.
The next sign she gives is asking questions and more questions.
The questions she asks will be aimed at knowing the real you.
When.
I mean the "real you," I don't mean the persona you portray to every other person, no.
She asks questions to know what few people know about you.
A girl will only be genuinely interested in finding out who you are if she loves you.
She'll be curious to know your favorite genre of music, dish, and early years.
She wants to get to know you better than anybody else, and she will sense a closer bond between
the two of you every time you share.
She'll remember and use these little nuggets of knowledge in the future in addition to
being interested in learning them.
She'll use this to show you that she's paying attention and is interested in getting to
know you.
She questions what you feel towards her.
Some girls are so scared of unreciprocated love, such that they desire to know your thoughts
about them.
A girl who is in love yet terrified will seek additional reassurance that her feelings are
being shared.
She will want to know how you truly feel about her, even if she is trying to hide her feelings
from you.
This could take the shape of inquiries about your emotions or previous relationships or
it might take the form of observing your behavior.
She will feel much more comfortable telling you how she feels if you are dependable and
shows up when you say you will.
You become her advisor.
When humans need to be advised, we ask from people we trust because we believe their decision
will help us greatly.
In essence, it shows that a woman likes you but is hesitant to tell you how she feels
if she asks your opinion and advice on both personal and professional concerns.
She certainly fits the description of an independent woman who doesn't allow anyone to influence
her decisions.
But she's usually a little more forgiving with you.
She doesn't give you full control over her life, but she does want you to be a part of
it.
She consults with you before making a crucial call.
Or she might just ask you for advice even if she feels confident in her position.
And it's not because she lacks confidence in herself—never will a woman who dares
to love be.
It's just that she cares about you enough to consider what you have to say.
Although she might not be willing to say it out loud, it's her method of making you feel
like family.
And nothing will ever seem like love to you if that does not.
She makes her vulnerability known to you.
Vulnerabilities aren’t what we easily show to others because they can be used against
us.
Hence, we always tend to keep this weakness hidden.
However, when you see that a lady is showing you her weakness, bro, it's quite simple-
she secretly has feelings for you.
She may be hesitant to share her sentiments with you, yet she nevertheless reveals her
frailty to you.
She might open up to you about her worries and concerns, proving that she trusts you
enough to be herself.
In all her strength, a woman is capable of so many things.
She has her weaknesses though because she is a human first and a lady second.
Her protective mechanism occasionally might give through, such as when she is reprimanded
by her father who does not believe in her enough, or when, on rare occasions, she tends
to lose sight of her individuality due to how difficult life can be.
And more frequently if you are the person she confides in with all of her profound vulnerabilities,
there's a high probability that she's in love with you.
She has enough faith in you to know that you won't ever take advantage of her flaws.
She opens herself for you to be able to look into her soul because of the assurance you
give her.
She lets herself unwind in your presence because she knows she can unwind there.
She completely loses all restraints around you.
When you are by her side, she will deal with any weakness.
She simply holds you in trust, awe, and of course, love, so she regards you more than
enough.
She has learned to read your mood.
Now, not everyone is inherently gifted with this.
The only person who can read your every mood is the one who is in love with you.
She is aware of when to leave you alone and when you need a drink.
She has even gone so far as to take it upon herself to protect your tranquility.
She shows her devotion to you by doing everything from alerting coworkers when you need some
time alone to giving you that time alone herself.
Even if you end up snapping at her, she won't become agitated.
She may be upset, but she cares about you enough to prevent your mood from being worsened.
This means that she won't leave you until you're feeling good about yourself.
She does this out of respect for you.
She wouldn't hurt you because she loves you; instead, she would choose to distance herself.
Even when she unknowingly gives out countless such indicators that she loves you, she still
won't accept it since she is, in fact, afraid of things.
She becomes the greatest supporter you have.
Life is difficult enough, and we all need someone to encourage us.
Our mothers served as both our first support system and biggest critic as we were growing
up.
This can be attributed to the fact that she loves you deeply enough to take pleasure in
both your accomplishments and your flaws.
Women become precisely that when they fall in love.
They become both your greatest asset and your most ruthless adversary because they are aware
of the techniques necessary to bring out your finest.
And since they care about you, they want you to put all of your efforts into being the
finest version of yourself.
They support your abilities, they restore your faith, and they maintain your commitment
even when it begins to waver.
It is now necessary to carefully consider how supportive that particular is.
If she is exactly like we described, there's a good probability that she secretly loves
you but is reluctant to acknowledge it.
She will always make time for you alone.
We all want to spend time alone with the people we care about, even though spending time with
friends is enjoyable.
One indication that a female likes you but is afraid to say so is when she finds excuses
to catch you alone.
No matter how busy she is, a girl who likes you but is too bashful to say it will find
time for you.
She will make time for you despite conflicts in her job.
If you need to take care of anything right now, but you're scared that you won't be able
to since you can't complete the duties.
No matter how busy she is, she will make sure to aid you, and if she is unable to complete
the task herself, she will assist you in finding a solution.
She stands by you through trying times.
At one point or the other we get into trying times, we need all the support we can get.
However, most people who claim to be friends or even some partners are fair-weather friends.
They are just there when the going is good.
One indication that a girl likes you but is hesitant to communicate her feelings is when
she pushes you to follow your goals and objectives.
She wants you to succeed in all of your activities, so she will make every effort to help and
encourage you along the way.
She is also always available to bolster your confidence and spirits at trying moments.
She won't leave you because you are going through difficult periods in your life; instead,
she will be there for you through terrible circumstances.
She enjoys conversations and your silly jokes.
A girl would always keep you close if she loves you.
There would be an indication that she wants more than simply being a casual friend by
wanting to spend time with you during the day.
If she likes you, she won't mind spending extra time with you.
But she will typically make an effort to continue communicating with you.
Maybe she's attempting to get to know you better because she's afraid of how she feels
about you.
Furthermore, a girl may like you but be afraid to say it if she smiles or laughs at your
ridiculous jokes.
She shows her delight for you by smiling at you, which is a clear sign that she loves
you.
Your friends become her friend.
A situation whereby a girl gets to be friends with your friends is another sign girls use
the show that she likes you.
She knows that your friends are dear to you and they are close to you, therefore she will
try and get into the equation by becoming close with your friends.
This doesn't mean she gets too close to them, no.
She will have a healthy distance from your friends and only get close to you.
She likes you more than a friend if she engages in pleasant conversation with your friends
and makes an attempt to learn more about you from them.
Although she claims she doesn't like you, you can also tell that she isn't amusing the
other men around her.
She makes you feel special when she goes out with you, but she doesn't do the same thing
with other guys!
She has a crush on you but won't say it.
She dresses more gorgeously than ever and gives you compliments.
Ladies always strive to look appealing to their men, so they dress beautifully always.
They don't ever want to be in a situation whereby you see them dressing shabbily or
unattractive.
Whether subtle or apparent, a change in her appearance or general behavior suggests she
loves you.
For instance, when she first meets you, you'll note that she wears a stylish outfit and cares
about how she looks.
When a female likes you but is hesitant to say so, she could frequently compliment you.
She will not overlook even the smallest things.
In addition to your physical beauty, she can also love your inner characteristics, skills,
or knowledge.
She gets jealous when you are with another.
No woman wants another lady to get the attention of their love interest.
Jealousy springs up once they notice another person getting your attention.
She behaves oddly when she notices another girl near you.
If a girl shows jealousy when you are with another woman that is a sign that she loves
you but is hesitant to admit it.
She gets all romantic with you.
Who doesn't like a romantic partner?
Romance makes us feel loved, and a lady who is into you but is scared of admitting might
resort to using this method to express herself.
If she treats you to lunch at a fancy eating establishment, buys you an unexpected gift,
or sends you attractive clothes without solicitation, she is in love with you but is reluctant to
confess it.
When a lady loves you, her love embraces all aspects of you, and not just who you are as
a person.
No matter if she admits it or not, her actions would portray the intentions she has for you.
If you are seeing these signs, then you should therefore be aware that she has a lot of feelings
for you.
Take note of all these actions and you will never be able to deduce if she's just taking
you as a friend or trying to pass a love message across to you.
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