What would you rate your marriage on a scale of 1 to 10,
10 being perfect?
One, I wouldn't know how to rate
a relationship that only exists as a series of staged events.
That's ridiculous.
Come on, man, you know?
I'm not going to trivialize something
as complex as interhuman relationships
by assigning a value to it.
That's so stupid.
What about you?
I'd say like a seven.
OK.
It's not quite perfect because I don't think anything's
perfect, but it's not bad.
7, 7 and 1/2.
I think we're progressing at a slow pace, but it's a marriage.
I want you to keep your eyes open.
Well, what do you mean?
I mean, saying to have my eyes open?
I don't know.
It's like I was seeing, like, little warning
signs that I've seen before, like, in things
that I've experienced.
Just the way that he answers questions,
you know, like, I've just dated guys like that before.
With Brett, I don't like to use a term like [BLEEP] boy,
but, like, that's kind of how it is--
just like an [BLEEP].
I'm not trying to, like, ambush anybody or hate.
I'm just like, if you see something,
say something, and that's the only thing
that I was doing here.
Anything that's bothering you, just tell me.
Or if you think I might have said something the wrong way,
then let's talk about it.
My biggest thing in all of this was communication.
I'm, like, kind of at a loss for words
because I don't know how to take it.
I just know I feel like I'm having
a conversation with myself.
I need you to talk to me because I'm trying.
I know.
And this is my life just as much as it is yours.
I don't want to do this again.
I know.
I don't want to get married again.
So if we can't have open communication now,
then we're not going to have it 20 years from now.
All I'm asking is when I ask you stuff and say stuff
just to give me something back.
Well, I find it extremely irritating when people don't
accept the answers you give them, so they continue to ask
you the same questions over and over again,
and that upset me earlier.
And that's OK.
There's going to be times where we're going to be asked
questions that make us uncomfortable,
but we just have to, like, muster through it.
Like, I'm always someone who says put your big-girl panties
on and go.
You just have to push through.
That's what I'm doing.
OK.
I'm frustrated because I feel like we started off
at a high point, and I feel like we may
be leaving here at a low point.
What are you looking forward to when we go home?
Like, what do you want to do first when we get home?
We've never been there together.
My cat.
Just my cat.
Want to cut my grass.
Like, what do you want to do with us?
BRETT: Oh.
Do you want to do anything with us?
Do you want to take me anywhere?
Like, where's your favorite spot?
What do you, like--
But, I mean, we have to go back to work.
We're not going to really have a lot of free time
to go do anything.
There's always free time.
There's always nights.
Yeah, I haven't really thought about it.
Well, we go home tomorrow.
Yeah.
What are we doing after that?
We haven't talked about that.
We have moving in.
[MUSIC PLAYING] (SINGING) Let it burn as it goes down.
It's a bitter pill to swallow, but you do it now.
BRETT: I'm very confused about what
you want me to say because that's what we're doing.
We're going, we're moving in, and then
we're going to be shooting every night,
so we won't be able to do anything.
So what am I supposed to say?
I just don't understand.
What are the things you want to do with me?
Do you want to watch movies?
Do you want to spend time at your house?
Like, we have a life outside of these people,
and I don't understand why you think
this is just a [BLEEP] show.
Like, we're going to go home, and we're going to have a life.
It's frustrating.
I can't, like, sit here and, like, throw my heart out there
or how I feel and then just like, yep, I'm fine.
There's just no conversation vibe to me.
[MUSIC PLAYING] (SINGING) Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So just answer the damn question.
So you just want me to lie and just
feel like I can't wait to go do this and this, but that--
I don't understand what you're--
Yeah, because those are things we're going to do.
We're going to go to the movie, or we're going to go to dinner.
I need a minute.