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much more about how NLP works to help you get what it is that you want before
I get into this I just want to let you know next week I will be having a
three-part coaching and training with a special guest and it is for free spots
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you'll you can find out more information about it and how to enroll most people
would like to think that we experience life objectively or it's possible to
experience life objectively and to hold an objective position or perception of
people and things but that's just absolutely not true because all the
information that is coming in through your five senses is being filtered and
you're representing it or representing it you're putting it all together inside
and creating a representation of all that your all the information that
you're taking in and the reason for this is we could not possibly take in all of
the information that is hitting us all at once in fact there Mitton there may
be more information and I would think that they're probably most likely is
that our five senses can't even pick up what we're picking up as reality first
has to pass through our five senses then we code that experience internally
through internal representational systems by seeing images in our mind
movies in our mind by hearing voices by hearing sounds by feeling emotions and
creating evaluations and judgments this is all happening at lightning speed and
most of it is happening unconsciously so as this happens we evaluate all this
information and we have to have something to do with it in most cases
we're deleting a lot of this information out we're also distorting this
information and we're also generalizing information because there's so many
unknowns in this world that we take information that we're familiar with and
we project it on to the unknown so we can sort of navigate in the dark now
this isn't a bad thing this is not something to judge ourselves by this is
something that is happening will always happen it's happening so there's no
point in trying to fight it what you can do and Woody nope you can help you do is
navigate that understand it understand how you're creating creating the
subjective experience that you call your life your reality your identity this is
all the things that NLP was created for and if you think about it
every system that has been created is an attempt to map reality and it might not
even be an attempt to map all of reality but at least a part of reality so think
about it like this language every language is an attempt to map reality
it's an attempt to give tonal or you know sounds to things that happen so
that we can point them out so that we can communicate them and there are many
many languages so there's many many maps of reality just in language alone and
language is not the only map and by the way this is one of the reasons that we
have an L in NLP linguistic the founders of NLP realize how important languages
for mapping reality and influencing reality because the language you speak
the words you use is in indication of your thoughts and how you
perceive the world and likewise by changing those words by noticing the
limitations in your language you can then change that and by changing that it
actually influences your perception of reality but that's just one language
probably your native language you can learn I don't even know how many
languages there are but each one is an attempt to map reality so that we can
navigate reality and we can communicate it so that we can point it out to other
people and so that we can even think about it in our own minds just think
about there was a time when we did not have language as human beings imagine
what our thoughts were like sure we had thoughts for sure and we probably saw
images and movies just like we do now but what we didn't have is that
evaluative process that's what language really helps us do is evaluate on an
abstract level what is happening and create categories and create
generalizations and beliefs and it doesn't just stop with language math is
also another attempt at mapping reality actually it's a very successful attempt
and mapping reality giving symbols and creating formulas about how reality
itself works like physics then you have science which mouth kind of runs into
science with physics science is again another map of reality trying to take as
much information as we can and look at it objectively however we cannot deny
that the looker us or each individual is still looking through that lens of
subjectivity even when we're dealing with science but in science we try to
reduce that as much as possible and once again it does not end with science yoga
and dance the the physical movements once again that's another way that we
try to map reality it's another way that we try to make meaning of physical
sensations try to make meaning of the world around us so there are endless
maps of reality we do this constantly this it seems to be almost our great
contribution to the world or what our intelligence contributes to the world
that is we are constant as human beings looking for ways to map
reality and with those maps we can then communicate reality to other people and
I don't want to leave art now art is another wonderful way of mapping a
reality and art is unique because it's not an attempt to be a literal mapping
of reality sort of like science tries to do art is a metaphorical or analogical
way of trying to map reality trying to make meaning of the world around us so
it does it through metaphor instead one of the most powerful things is to bring
science and art together this used to actually be a normal thing in fact there
used to not be science and art it used to be one thing and you can think of
people like Leonardo da Vinci who was an artist and a scientist and that's how it
was commonly thought of and over the years they decided to separate the two
what I what I really love about NLP is in a sense it's about bringing those two
back together creating a new system out of both science and art so you can use
metaphor while at the same time gathering very good scientific
information to create an all-encompassing map of reality so you
might be thinking okay Damon I get it what you're saying is is that NLP is
another map of reality and not only that it's like a really good one mmm yes but
not quite NLP neuro-linguistic programming is a map for creating maps
of reality and you could even say that it might be an attempt to create the
ultimate map but I don't quite I don't quite go for that I mean maybe an
individual each individual practitioner can see it however they see it but I see
it more as giving you the tools to create the life experience that you want
to live it's a tool for understanding how you're creating your current
experience and if you don't like it or if you want more then it helps you
create another experience that the experience of life that you want to
experience and NLP techniques a lot of people think that NLP is about
techniques and learning techniques actually it's not NLP is about mapping
this this process of mapping and modeling modeling and mapping success
and when I mean success it's the success however you define it and in that
process in that process of learning to map the techniques are sort of like the
tools I were left behind as the founders of NLP were developing it and I don't
want to just limit it to the founders there were many developers who were
included and still developing NLP to this day the NLP techniques are sort of
like the tools that were created to learn how to do this mapping and because
the tools were created for that they're still around and they're they're very
they're very powerful and we can still use them for helping us create that life
that experience that we want to live and so we have to sort of learn the map that
we have to learn how to be map makers of our own lives in order to help us get
what we want and as an NLP coach what I help people do is help them create a map
of reality that helps them experience the life that they want to experience
now you might be saying but you know I don't I don't care about takes you know
creating the experience that you're talking about Damon I just want to make
more money or I just want to do better in sales or I want to get that house I
want to get that car I understand and no you don't so what do I mean yeah okay I
agree with you you probably want those things but more importantly if you go
deeper with this you want the experience you think those things are going to give
you and in some cases you might be right you might be right but you get that nice
brand-new car and it gives you exactly the experience you were expecting
however it doesn't usually last that long you have the experience but what
happens to all experiences they evolve they fade they move they grow they
devolve without understanding this we go chasing a lot of these things that we
think will give us the life experience they want to have
I want to have and I think that I think if I can gather enough toys and I can
achieve enough goals and I can create as you know the success that I want if I
can put all these things into place then I will live the life experience that I
want to live we know that's not true why because we see so many people who do
exactly that and they're not happy they're not fulfilled they're not
satisfied now I don't mean to say that these things make you unsatisfied and
make you unfulfilled no they don't they're just objects and in some cases
they're just achievements so they there's they're just sitting
there doing their thing they're not making you unhappy they're certain it
but they can't make you happy it's about understanding the experience you're
going after objects and achievements don't have inherent value they only have
the value that you project onto them and this is what we recognized in an LP that
I'm projecting a state onto this goal onto this object whatever it is that I
want and what I need to realize is that if I'm projecting it onto this thing
that it must be something that I already have inside of me so it's about
achieving that state so if I can achieve that state now before I even have the
objects before I even have before I've even achieved the goals it will make
achieving it and getting it so much easier because I'm coming from a place
of abundance and I'm coming from a place of already being fulfilled
rather than desperate and rather than being mired in scarcity in NLP we
understand this and we understand the techniques and the processes it takes to
create those states create those experiences that experience that we
already want inside of us first and then we go after whatever it is that we want
and this is why most people have it backwards they think oh if I go and get
that then that means I'm somebody if I go and achieve that or I get that car or
whatever then that means my life is great good luck with that because I've
gone down that path many times and I know many people who have and if you're
not happy before you have something if you don't feel successful before
you can check all those boxes you're not going to feel successful or happy
afterward I can't emphasize enough learning NLP learning to map your
reality so that you can make the reality that you want to live this is what life
is all about you want to make this a lifelong practice don't you want to make
living the best life you possibly could live a lifelong pursuit a lifelong
practice something that you are always doing that is always getting better as
you evolve and as you actualize more and more potential that you're always
stepping up and being your best self and create creating the best life that you
could possibly live and this is the importance of learning mapping and and
mapping your reality learning NLP to do that as I mentioned at the beginning of
this video if you want to take this deeper if you're ready to start learning
how to do this if you want to start working on a plan for your life to get
what you want to experience the life that you want to live next week well it
depends on when you're watching this video but if you're watching this video
when the day that has come out or shortly thereafter next week like I said
I'm hosting and teaching a three-part live training with a special guest where
we're going to help you work through this process and you will have a map to
take with you once we're done it's free and there's just absolutely no reason
why you wouldn't want to jump on this and take advantage of it right away
because it will fill up it is free I do these things sometimes and like I said
you will walk away with a map by the by the the last part of this but a third
part of it you will have documents to show your mapping to create the reality
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