- Can your eyes send subtle, subliminal, seductive signals
to any man that you want him and only him?
Absolutely.
Keep watching.
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Hey there, Adam LoDolce from SexyConfidence.com
where I help the 21st century woman create a love life
that she absolutely freaking loves,
and this video is all about you ladies
seducing men with your eyes.
And believe it or not, your eyes tell their own story.
And believe it or not, there's been actually a lot
of studies that back this up.
In 1998, a psychologist named Art Aaron
brought dozens of couples,
both men and women, who had never met before,
they put them together in a room at a lab at NYU.
Then he asked them to look at each other
into their eyes for two minutes
without saying a single word,
and the results were freaking insane.
At the end of this, both test subjects reported
feeling extremely attracted to their test partner.
Believe it or not, one of the couples
even got married a year later.
Since then, there have been hundreds
if not maybe even thousands of YouTube videos
showing this effect,
and it's all because of this study,
and it goes to show the power of eye contact.
So there are ways that you can use your eyes
to be able to really subtly seduce a man.
I'm gonna talk about the three core ways
you can make it happen.
The first way is to use your eyes
to get him to approach you.
All you gotta do is when you're out at night
and you see a guy that you're interested in,
look at him, give him quick eye contact, then look away.
In 2001, an English scientist named Chris Finch
showed hundreds of people pictures
of faces staring directly at them.
He then took brain scans of the subjects,
and every single scan registered activity
of the regions of the subject's brain
that normally produces dopamine when rewarded for something.
In layman's terms, when someone made eye contact with them,
it would almost feel like they were getting a gift.
And I'll tell you this much, back when I was single
and I was just at a bar hanging out with one of my buddies,
if I got eye contact like that,
it felt like a (bleep) gift.
So go ahead, try this,
or if you've done this before,
leave a comment letting me know how it went.
Number two is when you're talking to him,
maintaining eye contact about 70% of the time.
There is a Harvard psychologist named Zick Rubin,
and in the 1970s, Rubin created what's called a love scale
by which couples who have been together
for, you know, several years reported how intense
and exciting and loving the relationship was.
And then after giving each couple a score
based on their responses,
Rubin then sent the couples to a room
where cameras monitored their eye movements.
Rubin found, and this is insane,
that couples who are still deeply in love with each other
looked at each other about 75% of the time while talking.
As a side note, in normal conversation,
people only look each other in the eye
about 30% to 60% of the time.
What most people do is they say something,
then they look away, they say something,
then they look away, and they think about it,
and they say something.
On the other hand, when people are really connecting
and there's chemistry, what do they do?
They look each other directly in the eyes
for about 75% of the time.
And the couples in this experiment
who made the least eye contact
basically seemed, and many times literally,
to be looking elsewhere for their excitement.
They were bored as (bleep) with their relationship.
Finally, number three is express yourself with your eyes.
Body language is such an enormous component
of communication,
and many times when you're talking to somebody,
even look what I'm doing right now,
you can look in shock,
or you can have a little bit of suspicion
as someone's talking to you,
or even like playfully winking a little.
Like, don't do it in a serious way,
you never actually wink at someone in a serious way,
but doing it in a playful way,
these are all ways that you can really express
your emotion with your eyes.
I know it sounds cheesy and it sounds corny,
but really when someone says something
that is really shocking,
show it with your eyes,
not just your smile, not your body language.
It's an incredible way
of building a real connection with someone,
and many times this is more important
than the the words that are actually being said
between the two of you.
So I'd love to hear from you.
Have you ever seduced a man with your eyes?
How'd it go?
Leave a comment right there below.
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And finally, if you really want to learn
how to be able to get out there and attract
the man that you truly deserve,
go ahead and click the link in the description,
or you can click the link,
we'll put it in the video right there,
and it's going to send you to a webinar
that's going to teach you the three ways
to get our there and find love.
Thank you so much for watching,
I'll speak to you next week, you sexy, single lady.
Bye bye.