There's something really cool I want to talk to you about today that I haven't talked about
for a long time I believe on the channel and I haven't really described it in the way that
I'll be describing it to you today.
And what we're talking about is the idea of qualifying.
Getting a girl to qualify herself when you're talking to her in an interaction.
You can even use this a little bit if you're doing some online dating.
You can use this when you're on the phone with a girl if you're doing a virtual date.
It's a way to get her even more invested in you.
It goes like this.
First, you're going to get a woman engaging with you, then you're going to get her attracted.
And then you're going to get her invested.
That's how it's all going to pan out here.
Engagement is you guys are talking, she's engaging with you.
Attraction, meaning she's showing a little bit of interest.
And invested is she's invested, she wants to see you, she wants to continue this relationship
or whatever you guys have going.
If you learn how to do this right and you do this when she's already somewhat interested
and you've already been engaging with her, what you're going to do is you're going to
get her to chase you a little bit and start to get more invested in you.
If you don't use this, you may come off like you don't really care in terms of what kind
of girl you want.
You may show her that "you know what, I'll just go for anything".
It's possible.
Really, you're killing two birds with one stone here because you're going to make her
more invested.
Which again, I'm gonna be explaining to you how this all works.
Get her invested, and then you're also simultaneously figuring out if this is a girl that's going
to be good for you.
If it's someone that you actually want to be with.
If it's someone who has the qualities that you're looking for.
How you're going to do this is you're going to get her to qualify herself.
She's going to, it's like an interview.
If you're interviewing someone, you want to see if they're qualified for the position.
What they're doing is they're qualifying themselves.
They're trying to make you know, hey listen, I'm qualified for this.
And so you're going to say something, there's a little formula that I have that you're going
to say to her that is gonna get her to qualify.
Here's the formula.
It's going to be like this, you seem... and then blank.
You seem cool or some sort of positive thing about her but... blank.
You seem... blank but... blank.
And you can fill those blanks in with whatever is going on in this situation.
I'll give you a few examples.
You can say this, you can say, you seem cool... but are you really adventurous?
You can say, you know what, you seem really interesting... but do you read books on a
frequent basis?
I'm curious, do you read books on a frequent basis?
You can say it like that?
You seem, like again, you're saying like you seem interesting, you seem cool, I'm into
this.
You're saying I'm into this... but I'm not sure about you yet.
So it's I'm into this... but I'm not sure about you yet.
You're not going to literally say those words but this is how you're giving off the idea.
It's like you seem cool, you seem interesting, you seem like a good person... but are you
going to be able to handle crazy adventures with me.
Something like that.
Again, it can be whatever you want.
Those are just a few examples.
But when you're saying this to her, she is going to start qualifying herself like, no
I am.
Yeah I'm adventurous or well I try to read as much as I can.
Or you can say you seem cool... but do you like going to concerts?
Do you like to see live music?
You're saying to her that's what you like to do and she might say oh yeah I like to
do that or yes sometimes.
This is you getting to know her, but also making her realize that you're not going to
just go for anybody and this is what makes her chase you because you're showing her that
you're not desperate.
And when you're showing yourself as not desperate and not needy, this is going to up your value
as a guy.
She's going to see you as a valuable guy because she's going to see oh this guy won't just
be with any girl.
Therefore this is someone that I want to be with.
Here's the thing, this is only really powerful after there's some initial interest.
If you do this too soon in an interaction, they're gonna be like I don't really care
to qualify myself to you.
They're not gonna care to want to do that because there's not much initial interest.
Don't use this with the girl that you've only been talking to maybe for a few minutes or
maybe you guys just met on the dating app so you guys haven't been getting to know each
other too much.
This is something you want to do when the initial attraction is already there.
It's going to make it that much more powerful.
The formula is you seem or you are, you seem.... but blank.
You can do whatever you want.
How about let's do this?
I know there's gonna be a lot of people joking around and jokey responses and that's fine.
But let's try to take this seriously, it'll be good for everyone.
Why don't you come up with your own and write in the comments so we can all see those.
You can write down "You seem whatever.... but blank."
Again, I know a lot of you guys are going to not take it seriously but try to so we
can just see some good examples and it gives us an idea and I feel like there'll be some
good ones in there.
Write those down below.
Another thing you can do, and this is just a way of teasing her, this is not qualifying.
This is teasing her but also kind of qualifying but it's more in a jokey way.
You can say you definitely seem like my type or I can definitely see you as my type, I
think you're my type, however... or but....
I'm really into and then say the exact opposite of what they are.
For example, you can say you're kind of my type and you're really cute, but... sorry,
I really go for like completely jet black haired girls, I'm just not into blondes.
And you say with a smile on your face.
You're saying the opposite of what they are.
Or you say, if they're kind of short, say I just go for super tall girls like taller
than me, that's what I'm looking for.
This is when you guys have already gotten to know each other.
It's obviously a joke.
And you're just basically disqualifying her with that statement as a joke.
You're making her disqualified because you like the exact opposite, but you're doing
it with a smile on your face so she knows that you're joking around.
So let's say that she doesn't have any tattoos, you can say you seem my type, you seem to
be my type.... but I really like girls who have like crazy tattoo sleeves and tattoos
on their face and everything, that's just what I'm really into.
Again, you're joking around, you're disqualifying her.
And she might say something like well, I guess I'm not your type.
And you can say I guess not, I wish this would have worked out and just laugh it off and
then continue the conversation and talk about something else.
That's what makes it fun, engaging and flirty.
I give you a lot more flirty, little techniques like this in my Hooked program which a lot
of guys are using.
They're getting great results, they're actually using these techniques just like the one I
taught you today and getting girls way more invested in them.
I want you to check that out.
You can check that out at Get Her Hooked dot com.
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