Hello my amazing friend! In today's video we're going to be talking about how to find a
girlfriend, crazy effective tips that get results fast. I have so many of you reaching out to me and
asking "okay, where do I meet good women? Where do I find good women?" And I'm filming this in 2020,
so let's be honest, it's a little bit of a challenge right now. But in reality this is a
question no matter what is going on in the world. How do you find a girlfriend? In this video you're
going to learn how to find a girlfriend quickly and easily. And the best part is there are no
mind games. So if you're looking for a happy and healthy relationship, a lifelong relationship,
make sure you watch to the end because each of these things is so important. It's time to say
goodbye to wasted time on awkwardness rejection and loneliness. Now before we dive in, if this
is your first time watching one of my videos, my name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach
for men and I teach you the skills you need to get your dream girl so you can stop wasting time
and stop being lonely and rejected. The best part is I'm a certified coach and what I teach comes
from science which is the best way to learn how to have your dream relationship. So make
sure you subscribe, ring that notification bell, and give me a big thumbs up. Okay,
how do you find a girlfriend? But you don't want just any girlfriend, right?
You want a girlfriend who's going to treat you right, you want a woman who's ultimately going
to want to spend her entire life with you, right? As I mentioned, I am filming this in 2020 and
there are some real challenges right now, right? However, this is a question that people had before
covid and that they will have after. And the answers are always the same and they
are especially important during covid. First, I'm going to share with you the big mistake that keeps
so many men from finding a girlfriend. And then I'm gonna share with you what to do instead so
that you know how you can move forward and find that adorable dream girl. Does that sound good?
The reason I'm starting with the mistake first is if you don't know what the mistake is and if you
keep making this mistake nothing else I teach you in this video is going to matter. You have to know
what the mistake is and you have to stop making it if you're going to find your ideal girlfriend. So
we're going to start with that and move on to what to do instead. Sound good? Let's dive in. Okay,
when it comes to how to find a girlfriend the biggest mistake men make is they are not prepared.
Have you ever been in that situation where maybe you're in a grocery store or you're at the dentist
or you're at work or you're walking down the street and you see this really gorgeous gal.
And she gives you butterflies in your stomach and your eyes meet and you think "wow, that's the kind
of gal I really want to get to know. That's the kind of girl I would want to spend my life with."
But you don't know what to do or you've been rejected in the past and so you just kind of keep
walking because you don't really know what else to do. It's not a fun situation to find yourself in,
is it? Here's the important part about finding a girlfriend, guys, please pay attention to this:
You can literally meet her at any moment, but if you're not prepared it's not going to matter,
is it? You can meet her at the grocery store, someone new could start working where you work,
or maybe a client. You could meet a friend of a friend, someone new could move in next door,
or someone who's already in your neighborhood that you just haven't had the opportunity to meet yet.
There are so many possibilities. But if you're not prepared it's not going to matter,
is it? Think of it this way: Each week you probably pass by a hundred maybe a couple hundred
women, right? At the grocery store, on your way to work, etc. But only a few of those women actually
catch your attention, right? Only a very select few of those women turn your head and make you
think "wow, she is so attractive." What's the difference? What's the difference between those
who catch your attention and those women who just don't, who you kind of don't even notice?
Here's the difference: The women you notice are a 10 out of 10. Those women have learned
the right skills. And because they have the right skills they turn heads everywhere. They are what
every man wants. The other women, they haven't learned those skills, and so sadly they do not
get noticed. The same is true for men. The men who have solid dating and relationship skills,
they're the ones who turn everyone's head. The men who do not learn those skills, they do not
turn heads, just like the women who don't learn those skills don't turn heads either. The secret
is to learn the skills first and then finding a girlfriend is really simple and really easy.
A lot of people try to put the cart before the horse, so to speak. They think "well, if I just
find her, well then I'll learn the skills." It's kind of like trying to get your own cooking show
when you only know one recipe and thinking "well, if I just had the cooking show then I'd learn the
recipes." That doesn't make any sense, does it? So if instead you learn the skills first
then your dating pool literally becomes unlimited, guys, your dating pool is huge. And so finding
that dream girl is really simple and it can happen so fast. Is this making sense so far? Do you
see how learning the skills first is so important and really so helpful? If this is making sense and
if you would like more videos on how to find a girlfriend be sure to comment "BOSS!" to let me
know. And as always if you have any suggestions for future videos also leave those in the
comments. I love hearing from you guys. It helps me so much, so keep those comments full. So now
that you understand the big mistake, which is not having the right skills, not being prepared, and
you know what to do instead, learn those skills, let's talk about some of the most important skills
now. I have to be honest, guys, I love teaching these skills to my clients in my program because
they are so powerful, they are so effective, and this is how you see results and see them fast.
We're going to be going over four of the skills you need now, I also want to mention though
if you really want to learn about the skills you need and if you want to get results quickly
I've put together a free masterclass for you that's going to teach you more about this
so that you can avoid disaster and get those results quickly. There's a link to watch this
free masterclass in the description below. I will also put a link in the pinned comment.
If you are committed to getting your ideal gal and getting that dream girl without mind games
and it being super overwhelming and confusing do make sure you watch that free masterclass. You're
going to learn tons there. Again there's a link in the description below. Okay, the first skill we're
going to talk about about how to find a girlfriend is confidence. If you want to make sure you find
her and that it's simple and fun and that you attract her easily confidence is something you
really need to know how to do. Now the best part about confidence is confidence is based around
habits, okay? Science tells us specific things we can do to become confident. And the best part is
they're actually really simple. So please don't feel like "well, I just wasn't born confident,
so I'm never going to be confident." It's totally normal to feel that way. It really is.
But in reality confidence is something we learn. And as long as we keep up confident habits
we become confident people. Isn't that exciting? If you want a healthy relationship, if you want
to attract her and keep her attracted to you, you need to be confident. That's what helps you create
a healthy relationship, and it's what keeps you from being needy. Do you ever struggle being
needy? If you do, confidence is something you must work on. One of the reasons confidence is so
important is when you do bump into her in the grocery store, or when your eyes meet
when you're at the dentist office, you will have the confidence to make a move. That's going to
attract her and it's going to help you actually talk to her, actually get her number. All right,
the second skill you need to know if you're gonna find your dream girl is you need to know
how to interact with women. What do I mean by this? I mean you need to know how to talk to her,
how to approach her, how to get her number, how to flirt with her. Men and women think differently,
right? That just makes sense. But even though we know that sometimes we expect each other
to think the same way we do. I'm going to let you in on some of the secrets of girl world.
Women see the world differently than you do. Women have to kind of protect ourselves, especially
when we are talking to a man. Frankly, we know you're stronger than we are,
and we're afraid of being hurt, we're afraid of being taken advantage of. And for that
reason there are things that to you would not bother you at all and they wouldn't matter to
your guy friends either. And there's nothing wrong with that, but when you're talking to a woman,
that matters to her, because it freaks her out or it makes her scared or it makes her think "this is
a little bit creepy. I feel a little bit awkward, I'm afraid, so I'm going to get out of this
situation." So so often when you're interacting with women, guys, she's not trying to be mean,
she's not trying to be a jerk. Most women are not jerks. Yes, there are some toxic women out there,
there are, but most women are not trying to be jerks. This is the way God made us. And so I'm
going to be perfectly honest here, guys, this is one of the benefits of having a female coach. This
is one of the reasons why it is so important to have a woman's perspective. Because something that
means absolutely nothing to you and would mean absolutely nothing to any guy you could talk to,
it does mean something to a woman. So it's very important that you do know how to interact with
her, that you do understand how to interact with her. It is literally the difference between
talking to her and having her think you're creepy or needy or awkward or scary, or
completely sweeping her off her feet and her thinking you are the coolest guy on
the planet and becoming her superhero and having her be very very attracted to you.
So as long as you know how to interact with women the right way you can completely attract her. And
that's how you make sure finding her is really easy. Because if you do approach, if you do flirt,
if you do try to contact her online, and all of those things, but you don't know how to interact
with her the right way it's going to tank every single time. But if you know how to do it the
right way that's how you get the girl. Now speaking of online dating, a lot of people
turn to online dating to find a girlfriend. And the truth is there's nothing wrong with that. A
lot of people meet online. It's not something you have to do if it's not something you want to do,
but do make sure you watch this video to learn more about how to be successful in
online dating. Because again you got to know how to do it right if you're going to be successful,
and that video is going to help you a lot. And also, whether you're looking for online dating
or in-person dating that free masterclass is going to help you tons as well. So do make
sure you check that out through the link in the description below as well. Okay, when it comes
to how to find a girlfriend the third skill you need to know is you need to understand healthy
relationships. If you're gonna have a healthy relationship you gotta know what it even means,
right? And again, if she's a 10 out of 10, if she has those dating and relationship skills,
it's very important that you do too or it won't turn her head. But if you do have those skills
she's gonna think you're super super hot because that's the type of man she's looking for.
So basically, you need to know some of the dating basics that set your relationship up for success.
Like how long to date, how to pursue her, when you should hold her hand, when you should kiss her,
how to act on a date. All of these things, these dating basics, are critical to finding your
ideal girlfriend. If she has those skills then the only kind of guy who will turn her head
is the kind of guy who has those skills. This also helps you know how to interact with her,
because you do have those skills, so interacting with her is very simple and natural. Next up,
you need to know the basics of attraction. And I'm going to let you in on a secret:
There's more to attraction than how you look. Yes, how you look is important and it's something
to be proactively working on. But there are other things that are way more important to women than
how you look. And science actually tells us this. Women care far less about physical appearance than
most men think. I tell my clients this all the time: The entire secret to getting your dream girl
is to be her dream guy. It's as simple as that. So when you understand the basics of attraction,
when you know what it is women want and you turn those things into habits, that's how you become
absolutely irresistible to her. That makes finding your dream girl easy because you're a magnet for
her, you are irresistible to her. That's how you find a girlfriend, find her fast, and find her
easy. That makes sense, doesn't it? Okay, let's sum up what you have learned so far about how to
find a girlfriend. First, the biggest mistake you can make is not being prepared, not learning the
skills you need. If you have those skills you can find her at any moment. If you do not have those
skills it's not going to matter. Do make sure you watch that free masterclass to learn more about
these skills, how to get these skills fast, so you can start seeing results fast. There's a link
to that masterclass in the description below. So if the secret then is to learn the right skills,
what skills do you need? Well, first we talked about confidence. If you're not confident how are
you ever going to meet that girl. And confidence is one of the most attractive things you can have.
So make sure you have confidence. Next up, know how to interact with her, how to talk to her,
how to approach her, how to flirt with her. Women think differently than men, so if you expect her
to think the same way you do you're going to be very frustrated and you're not going to
have success. Remember that it's important to have that female perspective, and that's what
makes interacting with her very simple. Next up, understand the basics of a healthy relationship.
Know how to move at the right pace, how to pursue her, all of those basics are what helps you be
completely irresistible to her, because she's looking for someone who has serious and solid
dating and relationship skills. A mature woman is looking for a mature relationship. Also,
make sure you understand the basics of attraction. I said it before and I'll say it again: The key to
getting your dream girl is to make sure you are her dream guy. When you have the traits she is
looking for then it's a no-brainer, of course she's going to be attracted to you, of course
she's going to want to be your girlfriend, and of course she's going to want to love you forever.
Thank you so much for watching my amazing friend! If you enjoyed what you saw be sure to give
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