my name is Marnie and from here on out I'm going to be your very own personal
win girl it's my job to give you the no BS honest truth about what women want
versus what they say they want and I put up new videos every Tuesday so please
keep an eye out for my videos and please please please make sure to subscribe to
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video of mine gets posted alright has this ever happened to you you've been
hanging out with a girl you like her and you think she likes you then one day you
make a move and she tells you she views your relationship as friendly rather
than a romantic one you're blindsided your ego is bruised
you wonder how you could have gotten it wrong you thought she was totally into
you but sadly she wasn't what happened what happened was you misread the signs
she was giving to you and in this video I'm going to give you two tools that
will stop you from making this mistake ever again these tools will make it
super simple for you to decode if she likes you or if she's just being
friendly and trust me when I tell you that these little tools have saved many
a man from wasting time energy money and emotions over a girl that wasn't in town
the tools are called noticing the extras and understanding her baseline so keep
watching before I dive in and give you access to those wonderful tools of mine
I wanted to tell you a couple of things about women and flirting all right
number one women can and will flirt with you even if they're not interested in
anything more from you meaning women can flirt for fun not to hurt you or lead
you on but because being playful and flirty and feminine it feels good I'm a
very flirty playful person I touch people I get close I tease but all of my
flirty behavior is not sexually charged in any way it's my way of connecting
number two just because a woman is nice to you does not mean she's interested in
anything more believe it or not women can be friends with men and like a man
without being attractive talent you can enjoy hanging out with him talking to
him on the phone even hugging and touching him without feeling any kind of
attraction all right now with these two things being said
how are you to tell if the woman is into you versus just being friendly with you
and that's where my tools come in to decode her behavior you have to start
noticing the extras and understanding her baseline so I'll explain noticing
the extras first when a girl likes you she gives me extras extra long eye
contact extra touches she'll try to get extra long conversations with you or
find extra excuses to hang out with you for extra time her giving you extras is
showing you she is more open to something
for example agreeing to your suggested plans or responding to your texts and
calls promptly with more than an lol or a ha or a simple one-line response if
she's just being friendly and not flirty she won't give you the extras she'll
give you the basics she'll be nice even physically affectionate she'll hang out
with you on her terms but that's it no extras now to fully understand the
concept of noticing the extras you first have to notice a little more about this
woman because every woman's extras look a little bit different which is why you
need to understand a woman's baseline to really decode and decide if what you are
getting is basic versus extras so as I mentioned before I'm super chatty and
touchy and flirty with everyone I'm charming that way so my baseline is
going to be very different then another girl who you've been exchanging eye
contact with for weeks so if she's super affectionate with others a big hug from
her is not an indication that she wants you likes you or is even flirting with
you it just means she's a friendly girl so the extras to look for are a little
different with her another girl may be really outgoing in comfort with others
but when she's with you she gets extra shy and extra blushy
decoding whether a girl is into you is going to require you to do a little
observation and recon work while also making sure to keep your observations on
influenced by your own laws once you find out her baseline you can see where
you fall on the spectrum compared to how she acts with others one of my wing
girls recently had a guy friend reveal his feelings for her and tell her that
he likes her in fact she was kind of surprised that he did this
he could totally tell by her signs that she was not into him and wasn't flirting
with him she had even suspected that he was attracted to her so she tried extra
hard to get the message across that she didn't like him and recently started
giving him less than the basics but still he told her he likes her because
he was sure there was something between them and that she felt the same he could
feel it from her I will always applaud a guy for putting it out there and going
after what he wants because he had just never fully know but in this case with
my wing girl he totally misread her actions didn't see that she had dropped
below her baseline and was now giving him less than Basics in her interactions
and here's the thing if he could have noticed these signs earlier and if he
knew how to look for her extras in her baseline all of this embarrassment for
him could have been avoided and even reversed at the first sign of change he
could have adjusted his approach an approach that will almost always result
in women giving you all the extras but instead he continued on thinking they
were both on the same page in reading all her actions as attraction rather
than just seeing friendly behavior and luckily for this guy he has one of my
wing girls as his friends which means she can now teach him where he went
wrong and how he can improve things in the future with other women and I
wouldn't say this in my wind girl but I'm guessing that after he learns a few
things from her she'll be feeling a little differently about her friend did
you know that there is a formula you can follow to not only get out of the
friendzone but avoid getting there in the first place getting out of the
friendzone is actually really easy when you know what to do about it that's why
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