- How to make a guy fall for you.
How to make him want you bad.
(gentle upbeat music)
In this video, I will share with you five tips
on how to make him want you bad.
But at the same time,
I don't want you to be someone that you're not.
Therefore, faking these tips short-term might work out,
but the long-term can cause a heartbreak.
So if you feel like some of these steps don't sound like you
either just don't do them
or work on becoming that person rather than playing a game.
Hello, my name is Greta Bereisaite.
I'm dating and relationship coach for women.
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how to make him want to bad,
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So, without further ado, the tip number one.
And by the way, guys, the tips get better as we go along.
So, the tip number one,
financial security and seeing your own value.
Just listen.
I came across so many controversial things about this.
Some men really admire women who have their life together.
Usually, these men are very confident
and very secure with themselves.
When we're looking for someone more serious,
we look for a partner
to also have intelligent conversations with.
Saying that, what is intelligent and not
can be quite subjective.
Others say that they do not care about your finances.
And yes, there are high value men
who do not care about this also.
Others say that they find it unattractive.
Usually, it is the insecure guys who say this
and even make fun of women who have successful careers.
Anyway, let me put it this way.
Your job doesn't define you.
It is your values and your heart that matters most.
I know lots of women who are successful
and I would never be friends with.
And I know lots of women who do not prioritize careers
and are the most trustworthy, loyal,
righteous and humble people.
The most important is to set your life in a way
that you in your heart feel valuable.
And that is when others will see you like this also,
as you will be carrying yourself like that.
How you feel about yourself on the inside
shows on the outside.
And if, for someone, it ain't good enough,
as ultimately you're looking for someone
with the same values and points of view.
Saying all of that, I would still really recommend
being financially independent,
as without this you are giving a man
way too much power over you
and you're putting yourself in a very vulnerable situation.
For example, when it comes to boundary setting,
it is practically impossible to set in boundaries with a guy
when you don't have any financial independence.
And if you would like to know
how to sit in boundaries with a guy,
please check out my video right here.
Number two, make him feel manly.
Let him sweep you off your feet.
Men like feminine women.
And usually women who run a business
forget how to be feminine
as they are constantly in the masculine state.
They get used to calling people out on their BS,
taking the lead and getting things done now.
They are pretty impatient and want things done their way.
This does not work with men at all,
unless they have a fetish for a bossy woman.
But guys, take a different approach.
Enjoy yourself and enjoy yourself feeling feminine.
Chill, relax, and let it flow.
Take your time, enjoy the moment,
let him take the lead and sweep you off your feet.
Life is hard and tense when you're always on the go,
getting things done,
therefore, enjoy yourself and let things flow.
Be playful, laugh at his silly jokes,
wear the dress, let him be the prince,
sweeping you off your feet, making an effort for you.
Use that wisdom that you have to assess that guy logically.
As Steve Harvey says, "Act like a lady, think like a man."
Number three, be a bit spontaneous.
Don't expect perfection.
The most important thing on this
is seeing that he's making an effort,
that he actually cares about you.
If you can see that he genuinely cares and is really trying,
who cares if things don't go to plan?
Men are not perfect, life is not perfect,
you are not perfect.
Men love things at the last minute,
they love being spontaneous.
Why? Because it's unpredictable.
But how can you be spontaneous,
you're busy having a life and, let's say,
running a business on top of that?
It is quite inappropriate
to meet up somebody spontaneously at the last minute,
as he does need to respect you by respecting your time.
Therefore, let him ask you out in advance
but be chilled and flexible when you're with him already.
If the date is set but plans change, so what?
Focus on gratitude, on the bright side,
and make the most of it.
Dating is about you both having fun
and enjoying each other's company.
It's about creating connection rather than the date itself.
Number four, when he starts calling you
all lovey-dovey words,
babe, love, sweetheart, gorgeous, beautiful, my love,
do not reciprocate.
You are a woman.
He is calling you babe, baby, darling,
gorgeous, beautiful, et cetera.
That's all lovely. Enjoy it.
He is a man though, you do not need to call him love,
baby, darling, gorgeous, beautiful, and all of that.
These lovely names are for women only,
do not use it for a man.
When you call a man these names,
you're marking your territory
and you're actually pursuing him.
You're mothering him and making him feel like a girl.
Instead, call him by his own name.
Give him a few fun nicknames, but do not mother him.
However, saying this,
if you have been doing this for a long time
and now you will cut all this sweet stuff off,
it can come across a bit intense, weird and suspicious.
So if you've been doing that,
you don't need to cut everything off, but just cut it down.
One of my friends was actually dating
this very handsome guy, she was always complimenting him.
After a while, she said, "I feel like things are a bit off,
like he's losing interest."
Anyway, one day he FaceTimed her
and he was showing off his muscles after gym.
He said, "I'm the king."
She replied, "Yes, the king of Burger King."
After the conversation, she called me and she said,
"Greta, I didn't expect, but his eyes literally sparkled
and he purposely prolonged conversation after."
Why? Because she stopped mothering him.
She gave him a bit of spice, a bit of banter,
a bit of uncertainty, a better unpredictability.
Ladies, women compliment each other,
men banter with one another.
Give him what he needs, not what you think he needs.
Check out my playlist right here
to find out about the differences between men and women
so you do not treat him like a girl.
Number five, have fun with him
but don't act obsessed over him.
Stay modest, especially if you just dating
and perhaps dating in a college or a work environment.
So, if he's making you laugh,
is going out of his way to help you,
you always have ridiculous laughs together,
do have fun and enjoy yourself,
but do not start obsessing over him.
For example, whenever he talks to another coworker,
giving him or her jealous looks,
looking grumpy or hurt
if he didn't pay attention to your bad day at work,
or sharing with your college friends or coworkers
that you guys are dating
and revealing everything that happens on those days.
All of this can come across as obsessive
and you marking your territory.
Men cannot stand this.
Instead, try and have more light-hearted, modest approach,
and don't put high expectations on this.
For example, if there is a man
that is showing you a lot of attention
in the work environment, take it light-hearted.
Enjoy it, but don't make a big deal out of it.
On the contrary, tame it down,
make it smaller than it actually is.
That way, you will not overthink it
and will not obsess over it.
And on top of it, you will come across as a challenge
as he won't be able to read you
and know for sure how you feel about him.
If you want to know how to be a challenge for a man,
check out my video right here.
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Kisses from Dorset.