Hi everyone, Adrienne Everheart today I'm going to talk about what a man really
wants to hear from a woman what he's really longing to hear that just drives
him wild about you, makes him want to chase you, makes him feel crazy for you
these are all the things that I teach you with my feminine energy secrets. Now
as you know I am a feminine energy reconnection expert but I also help
women in dating and relationships. I hope you not only call forth the one you're
meant to be with but once you have him I want you to keep him and then of
course if you're in a situation where you're trying to get an ex love back
you're really trying to give it one more shot I also have a program about that
called the ABCs to Get Him Back. So I'm going to share with you in this video
some of the things that I talk about in these programs or my ebooks and these
are things that men really long to hear from a woman and some of these are
gonna surprise you some of them are not going to be very surprising but I'm
going to give them a new twist that will really change up how you're maybe doing
them and presenting them to the man because so often there are nuances lost
in communication with a man we feel like we're getting our point across we feel
like we're really coming from this honest place but often we're really
coming from a place of where we're wanting the man to be doing something
for us or be taking some sort of action for us or we have some expected outcome
so the first thing I want to share with you is yes I want you to express your
feelings to him. Now one of the fastest ways to get a guy in the opposite
direction of you is to have something called drama so this is not about drama
this is not about exploding and blowing up one day because you just can't take
another moment of how a man is treating you or how much respect he is or is
not giving you that is a boundary that you've set every day how much respect or
disrespect you accept every day as a feminine energy woman so I'm talking
about expressing your feelings about the things that are positive the things that
are feeling good in life and don't take one moment for granted
not too long ago I just got home my husband had taken me and the dogs to the
park he doesn't have to do this he doesn't have to drive the car he has
doesn't have to spend time with us at the park and play ball these aren't
necessarily masculine energy things for a guy to do so when he does these things
that he doesn't have to do I let him know it feels so good to spend time
together it feels so good to enjoy this sunshiny day together it feels so good
to be a family and play in the park and I don't put too much emphasis on what
we're doing or any sort of motive in it pushing any sort of agenda but just let
him know if this feels really good to me if he holds the door open for you if you
draw if you drop your napkin he picks it up if he messages you hi feel really
good to hear from you if he's smiling big at you oh it feels so good to see
that smile so these are the things that I go really in depth with in five
hundred ways to talk to a man which is my ebook and the two day class that you
can get with that another thing you can say to a man to really make him feel
just so comfortable and secure with you remember I want you to tie his heart up
and that has everything to do with building that connection now that's what
you're going to do through expressing how you feel you're going to be growing
that warmth of a feminine energy you have connecting to that masculine energy
that masculine drive to want to please a woman when they know they're giving us
pleasure now the next one is one that's going to just really build a lot of
trust in the relationship and that is I trust you can figure it out I trust you
know what's best I trust you know what to do and you just put it off in his
hands so if he comes to you with a long list of problems that are really more
his problems he's not coming to you and saying hey can you help me with these
because if he does that's a completely different scenario but if the man is
just going on and on about how he's unhappy at his job or he's just really
stuck and depression or something like this you just say
you listen for a little while because remember you don't want to listen for
too long because then you're gonna start to feel bored right so listen for a
little while let him know you're there you're a human you have a heart you're
connecting with him and then just look him in the eyes and say oh honey I trust
you're gonna figure this out oh I trust you're gonna know what's best to do here
and especially with depression or if he doesn't have a job we just want to keep
driving that one home and hitting repeat on that over and over again before you
offer him any sort of advice or suggestions so try that one out that one
is really magical how it affects a man when you can see it in his eyes when you
say that you just say oh honey I trust you're gonna figure this out I trust you
know what's right they're just like really and they they get a little boost
of that masculine confidence now if a man's coming to you and he's asking you
if you can help him and he's asking for your feedback that's a completely
different thing you would answer that a different way of course now this next
one is all about something that definitely we take for granted in our
world as women but it is the power of silence the power of silence is such a
wonderful thing for a man because I have been around my guy where I'm just going
from one topic to another topic to another topic and I'm having a wonderful
time but I look over at him and he's just like hmm you know and I want him to
enjoy the time that he's with me and I also want it to be about him so I've
learned to really train myself that I open up a little bit but then I step
back I step back and give the conversation some silence so that he'll
have some energy to move towards me because remember masculine feminine
energy it's all about here's your feminine energy you want masculine
energy coming towards you so in order for that energy to come towards you have
to actually lean back now you might be an introvert and you might not be much
of a talker and you might have the opposite problem with this but still
it's really about having conversation going and then when that
person stops speaking count to about five or six before you continue speaking
just try that out and just see how it begins to blossom from there okay I hope
this three tips have been very helpful for you okay I hope these three tips
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