Let's talk about some easy techniques that you'll be able to use today to be able to
make conversation simple and go on for a very long time. When you get better at conversation
this is not only going to help with women, but it's going to help with networking with business
with friendship with family gatherings with anything. It's going to make conversation
more fun and interesting for you when you learn these techniques. It's going to be huge. If you
want to get a real deep dive into conversation real quick, don't forget to check out my Hooked
program which is a complete online course that teaches you everything about attraction, flirting,
what to say to women, how to meet women, and all that good stuff. There is a link down below. Check
it out. Get Her Hooked dot dom. There's a whole module dedicated to it. Let me give you a few tips
that you can use here today. First understand that conversation is crucial because it's the way to
display your personality which women are attracted to. They're very attracted to a man's personality,
his charisma, the way he's able to communicate with a woman. You want to be able to keep
conversation going for as long as you can and not stale out. Understanding these tips and
implementing these tips are going to help with that. You want to make sure that there's enough
time there for you to display your personality. One of the first things that you could do, which
I've taught many times in the channel is this idea of word association. This is one of your basic
improvisational skills. Meaning, you hear a word from when they say when they're talking and you do
a word association to take that word and then say a question or a statement based off of that word.
For example, if they're talking about their work and they use the word "boss". Just as an example,
you can use the word "boss" and relate it back to yourself. By the way, whether you have a boss or
don't have a boss. That's the beauty of it. It's not something you have to directly relate to. Just
because they're saying it. You just relate to the word. If they say something about "oh yeah,
work's crazy and I just got a new boss", you could say "oh man, that's interesting. I don't even have
a boss. I wonder what's that? What's that like for you?" Or you can say "yeah, you know what,
I have a great relationship with my boss and I'm so glad that it works out for me".
I'm not saying you interrupt them, but you're just able to do this word association that helps you
actively listen. Everyone's doing this anyway. We're all doing word association whether we
like it or not, but I'm just breaking it down for you into an actual technique. But understand that
a lot of guys, and you probably know this, can't do word association as well when they're nervous,
when they're flustered, when they're scared. When you're talking to a woman try to get back into the
mindset of oh. yeah, I want to be listening here. I want to listen, my goal is to listen to what
she's saying so I can grab a word and then relate it back with a question or a statement. That's
word association. That's a pretty simple one. It does take practice. I'm going to give you a little
technique and a little exercise on how you can get better at that in just a little bit here. But
understand this is the first way to be able to make conversation go on for a very long time. Just
by listening and associating with words. Next is this, and a lot of guys don't know this. This taps
into my formula for attraction which I talk about in the Hooked program. One of the parts of this
formula is about entertainment or self amusement where you're having a good time and entertaining
yourself. What I always say in this concept of entertainment is you want to talk about the things
once in a while, that you like to talk about. That you enjoy. One of the easiest ways to keep
conversation going on for a long time is talking about the things that you know about and enjoy.
If you're ever able to latch on to something based off of maybe a word association and then
continue based on that topic that you know, fantastic. Be careful here though, warning...
don't do this too much. Because then you're just going to be not very charismatic because you're
only going to be talking about the things that you're talking about and you're not going to be
necessarily involving her in the conversation. Unless there's a way you could do that by asking
her questions and getting her involved in it. But if you talk about one topic for too long,
obviously that's going to be very boring and very one sided. However, most guys I noticed don't do
that enough. They're way more focused on what she has to say and asking her questions and going into
interview mode where you're just asking her, asking her and then you don't get to say anything.
Make it a point to talk about the things that you want to talk about and that you know best
based on any topic. Anything that you like, whether it's music or something with work
or a hobby. And by the way, you don't even need to use word association. You can just say it. This.
brings me to my next technique. It's this idea of just saying what you're thinking or feeling.
It can be related to that. This is the opposite of word association. Saying anything you're thinking
or feeling. It could be a topic that you know about, that you want to start talking about.
Obviously with social grace. Meaning, don't just blurt things completely out of nowhere where she's
like "we were just talking about this and now he's talking about that". There is a time and
a place for this. But you could just bring it up in conversation. Let me give you an example.
Let's say she starts bringing up food for some reason. What you could do is you could say to her
"oh man, you know what? I am starving right now. I am so hungry. You know what I wish?
I wish right now I had a big hot dog with a ton of mustard and relish" or whatever. Or maybe you can
say how you're feeling like "oh man, it is so cold out here. Isn't it freezing right now? It's just
like freezing. Let's go somewhere else where it's a little bit warmer". You can even say "you know
what, I think you're a very interesting person. This has been an interesting conversation. I've
haven't had an interesting conversation in a long time. I feel like everyone I talked to is really
boring." Again, this is something you're thinking or feeling. It's a little bit more advanced. I
think it's a little bit easier for a guy who's more comfortable in conversation. But still,
I think this is a great way to keep conversation going. Not being afraid to express how you think
or feel in that moment, something that's going on in that moment that you can bring up. The
reason why I'm giving you this tip is because I don't want you to be so robotic and only use
something like word association. Word association is great and you can use it for a while. But it's
a little bit better if you're also able to improv in the sense where you can just bring up things
on your own. I'm going to give you this little exercise in just a second here. But remember
that I go deeper into this idea and how to incorporate flirting into some of this when
you are talking to a girl in my Hooked program, which again is at www.getherhooked. com. Link is
in the description below. Thousands of people have gotten this course. I talk about it quite
a bit on my YouTube channel because it's amazing. I even got a testimonial just recently from a guy
who said he got the program and now he's going to propose to his girlfriend and that it actually
works. It's pretty incredible what it can do. Now for you, what can we do with this information? A
great way to practice word association, and this is something I talk about in the Hooked program
is what I call conversation cards. Or a simple way of doing this without doing it with index cards
is you can go on a search engine, type into the search engine,
word generator or noun generator. Then you go to a website where you click a button and it generates
a word. Then when you see the word, you come up with a sentence, either a statement or a question
based on that word and then click the generate button again. It will bring up a new word and then
again you come up with a sentence or a question. Now you're practicing improvisational skills by
coming up with something to say based off of a word which will then be something you
can use in conversation itself. I call it conversation cards because another
way to do this is just do it on your own. Get a bunch of index cards, write down a word, boom,
write down another word. And then after you've written down 50 different words on an index cards,
pick one up and then come up with a sentence which is either a question or a statement.
Either way it works great. It's a great way to try word association.
Try that out. See how it goes. Hope this helps. And of course, I'll see you on the next video.