hey everybody Adrienne Everheart your feminine energy dating a relationship
coach I am super super stoked because today I
wrapped day one of course in feminine energy which is a great compliment to
any program you may have of mine and if you're watching this and it's April you
know 18th you can still join for Sunday's class but if it's past that
date I just want to talk a little bit about what the process is when you take
a course with me or you decide that you're gonna invest in a learn at home a
self-study program and so often girls ask me they say well it's is this just
like your other course is there gonna be new material is there gonna be something
new I'm going to learn and they're looking for redundancy you know they
don't want to pay for something they've already invested in and I don't blame
them so learning feminine energy and learning how to be in your body and know
your boundaries and not just know what you're angry about or where the man is
going wrong but being able to know what you're feeling past I'm angry I'm mad he
should be doing this I know I really messed up but or why won't he
why won't he just you know do whatever it is he's supposed to be doing so we'll
go through that process in masculine mind because masculine mine is a plus B
equals C it's linear and feminine energy is not linear it's this process that we
have to kind of go through a couple of times and we have to practice it and so
whatever what anyone asked me is this redundant
my answer to them is always no it doesn't mean I might not talk about a
concept or a tool that I teach you but you have to hear this so many different
times and so many times over again before you really get it because it is a
lot like learning a new language and it takes so much practice so not only is
this a new language for you but it's something you actually naturally know
how to do but you're constantly going to be interrupted by your inner boy wanting
to either hog-tie a man for misbehaving and not doing it right because your
inner boy is is probably pretty powerful a guy it's strong and he can notice when
a guy isn't stepping up so you have that obstacle
you also have years and years of conditioning that you have learnt if I
want something I have to just go out and get it and make it happen you got that
then you have the feminist movement which has you know it's well-meaning I'm
all for equal pay and and all of this wonderful benefits of this however in a
relationship and in our DNA the sperm versus the egg we are not the
same and that's why I have such a large following of women powerful dynamite
women who can do anything and they currently are yet they're having great
difficulty with their relationships you see so you have all of that stacked
against you so it takes so much redundancy it takes
hearing this over and over again and today in class big thing we spoke about
is boundaries and not only understanding how to speak them because I can teach
you how to speak your boundaries 500 ways to talk to a man I give you at
least probably 50 examples of how to speak a boundary about sex about food
you eat about you know sleeping at his house about all these things and someone
said I love boundaries I do too but you know what I'm not the best at them and
boundaries catch up with me and I've been able to identify there's a feeling
I get it's a very particular feeling I get when I'm ignoring a boundary it's
like a feeling it's kind of FOMO a little bit that fear of missing out but
it's mixed with just this this this not anxiety but restlessness and that's
usually when a boundary so so in in studying today we studied boundaries we
just talked about it organically your boy your inner boy is going to have a
different way to express those boundaries than your inner girl because
your inner girl has been stuffed down since around age five or six maybe
younger maybe a little older right so not only does she have trouble
articulating let you know in language because give yourself a break girls yet
you haven't been using her to speak with for years so it's not gonna be just like
I got this feminine energy thing you can memorize a million things but you have
to hear this over and over again so one of the things I told people in class
today was that how do I do this how can I hear what
you're saying and kind of hear what you need and give you this great advice or
direction that's going to get you in the right place with your guy and yourself
so how do I do that so you begin to hear this in a very particular way and you
start to hear your problem is not so unique and this is one of the handouts I
give which is about that pursuer and distance distance er the more you pursue
the more he has distance more you're in masculine energy the more he's going to
go in a feminine energy and we get stuck in that cycle because we're lonely and
we want to fix it and we want love that's inner boy and so it's a very
complicated sounding isn't it and then where do you start how do you
start doing this you have to pick a starting place sometimes it starts with
just when the man walks in you know into the day of work or how he finds you in
the house how you're on him all the time I'm on my husband way too much and I
know I am I'm like manager and I have to really really you know curtail how much
I'm wanting to talk to him and speak to him what it is I want to say and why I
have to ask myself what does that take it takes practice and it takes awareness
so when you attend a class and you hear this is a QA class specifically when you
hear all of this QA you just go over it over and over and over again and another
part of you that is hearing this will slowly begin to to jump on board once in
a while women write me and they go Adrian today I used a feeling statement
I didn't have to think about it you know my guy asked me something and I said oh
I feel and it just happened super organically it's gonna happen for you
it's gonna happen for you everybody's got one problem that's
bigger than another for some people its expectations you probably had a parent
that was very rigid with you very on you and you had big expectations
of yourself and you got it done my assistants in here hey I see her look
she's a powerful dynamite woman military she works in the medical field now she
owns multiple properties I mean this girl is doing it all how many guys you
know doing that so uh right so you know you have all this power and you have all
this you know ability to do stuff and so you bring that level of expectation in
with the man oh I'm so happy you're doing that I don't talk about fertility
as half as much as I want to but someone just mentioned that they're going to
begin freezing their eggs and then it takes all the stress off of finding a
guy and getting pregnant and you know whatever I wish I would have done it I
think I still have some eggs there's a chance but um I wish I would have done
it like when I was 30 so I could have taken a different route you know because
you miss out and then you miss out and you're bitter because you don't have
children and you don't have a guy I don't want that to happen to you so
that's where your boy comes in and your boy finds a way but in the relationship
you get to be a girl and if you do not have a man in your
life I want you to practice with men on line who are not your type veteran you
know you me no match or bumble or whatever it is and you can also practice
with a man in your mind just different scenarios yes yeah so chat is really
good a lot of you guys are connecting so someone said do you think in past times
100 years ago women had feminine energy always it's always been here look if you
look back on you know in anthropological evidence
it wasn't women out there hunting I mean don't get me wrong I think some women
did hunt but women were making bowls we were making utensils we were making life
good we had Gardens Gardens would provide I
think about 70 to 80 percent of food you look at the Victorian era and you know
women were you had to play the piano and you had to sew and you had to have a
talent and and that could be used for wrong things but it was still you're
bringing this pleasure and warmth to people around you that only in a way
women can do you see it's how women can do it and we have
this gift to the world of warmth and sweetness and kindness but
we don't have to give anything to make that happen
we just have to be ourselves and in our feminine energy and so when we stop
directing a person and managing the person and in getting the outcome that
we want that's when the magic starts to happen yes
all right you guys so there's still time if you want to join this course in
feminine energy classes tomorrow at 4 o'clock Eastern Time but if you are in
the future and you're seeing this from the past it might be available on my
website it comes with my primer book
diamond girl guide so diamond girls guide is eventually a full-length book
but diamond girls guide is a primer my publisher said I could release like like
a couple of hodgepodge chapters all good stuff all good stuff you get that the
VIP library you get my pursuer distance or handout Oh someone said diamond girl
guide is amazing she will thank you thank you
I think she was in class today and you guys are so welcome thank you for all
the wonderful compliments after class I went out in my garden so um I got a
little sweaty but it gives a good clue I could and the Sun is setting and I think
everybody's probably pretty and in Sunset you got a little shot of my my
Lysol wipes here I hope everybody's doing ok I've got my lifestyle wipes
right next to some heavy-duty hand cream cuz I don't know about you but my hands
are taking a beating with all this hand washing and I've like always wash my
hands but way now it's like triple that so I hope you guys are all
staying well staying safe go to my website Everhart coaching comm if you
still want to take this class there's still time
it's a Q&A class and it's some theory but it's a lot of fun too we have a good
time okay and if you have any trouble if you have saw class today and you have
any trouble or questions you just shoot them an email over at help at ever heart
coaching com all right gorgeous ladies take a nice big deep breath with me and
sink back in your seat make sure your bottoms all the way in the back of your
seat raise your shoulders up drop them down just see how that feels in your
body just even see how those things alone shift your energy to receiving
just notice that how it slows down that energy it slows it down see how long you
can stay there all right everybody much love to you I
love to hear from you in the comments if you have any questions and I'll talk to
you soon
now how do I turn it off right there it is
bye ladies much love bye-bye