Howdy Partners welcome to the Pattersons why are you laughing you just came on so strong and
scared if you hear in the background that's Sonny working on his peanut butter we a few months ago
did a video where we answered assumptions about a relationship now we're going to be answering
assumptions about our marriage so now that we're a married couple people may think things wait
we're married you know what's crazy and then mom's time we'll be married for a year that's so crazy
to me that went by so fast we made it baby longer than Kim Kardashian's second wedding really yeah
yeah we asked you guys on our Instagram if you're not following us already hello hello okay if one
of you goes to bed the other follows I feel like it's an accurate assumption that is very
much I like going to so Sam Sam's basically a grandpa Sam likes to go to bed early when she
says Sam's a grand party looks good but early I'll go it's about like a half ten eleven it's
not my fault you like staying up until four in the morning playing your freaking phone
games when Sam goes into bed I hang out in the bed but I'm not going to bed yet
she married him for his accents absolutely I did not marry him for his action however is that a
major plus I'm absolutely I love hearing him talk what actually you talking about I didn't marry him
solely because he's British are you sure no you always said you want to find a British husband
she said no I said are you sure yeah you're not no that you are always okay you don't fight or
argue that's true and false at the same time like we very rare like we're pretty much always okay 95
of the time the only time we really like get into any argument like we don't really fight the only
time we get in like a small argument is when one of us is hungry or we're both hungry and it's like
we can't even bear to look at each other until we eat I bet you both aren't ashamed so far with each
other I love you absolutely true uh yeah she has no issue trust me oh he has no issue either yeah
no it's just whatsoever yeah she loves following you have a healthy relationship yes honestly I'd
say and I'm not doing this to toot our own horn but of everybody we know minus your grandparents
we have the healthiest relationship I've personally ever seen unless my grandparents yeah
they're in their mid-80s they've been together decades upon decades I think about 60 years
they've been together there are role models and they still like even when we're going out to lunch
with us they'll hold each other's hands under the table they're the most in love people I've ever
seen and they're really like our inspiration for our own Love Story We work really hard on making
sure each other still feels really loved and cared for we still take each other on dates we
still surprise each other with gifts like flowers your earrings yes like my earrings which brings us
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obviously diamonds are super expensive yeah this is so much more affordable I noticed that when we
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absolutely beautiful ring but it doesn't hold as much sentimental value as the one that I propose
to you in and it's still shiny it looks like a diamond it's absolutely stunning I'm obsessed
and Sam actually surprised me with a ton of other things as well other earrings he got me one carat
earrings two carat earrings I'm like feeling spoiled I'm like yes if you want to check out
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as well so it makes a perfect gift for some buddy or even if you want to give it to yourself because
you deserve it costs of keeping a relationship healthy is always kind of keeping each other
not on edge but like increasing each other like you're still dating exactly yeah Monica is
obsessed with Sam more than Sam is obsessed with Monica no no chance no yes we can agree that we
are both very obsessed with each other which is disagreeing because I'm very very obsessed with
you okay I thought you were disagreeing because you think that you're more obsessed with me I am
but no you're not I am oh you're absolutely nice so um drop a comment below who do you think is
more obsessed with the other person mom is very dominant in the relationship I'm gonna disagree
only because I cannot make a decision for my life I don't like being the leader so I happily just
say sin you think whatever is best I will I trust you with all my heart let's do it I like making
decisions but I I'd say like power wise was pretty equal yeah you argue more now than when you were
dating the first year of dating the hours we had we had a lot more arguments then yeah it was an
entirely different relationship at that point but yeah at the end of the day we were teenagers at
that point I think once we ironed out all the differences and we figured out exactly what we
want in life it kind of calmed down a lot yeah I mean we've definitely got closer and Fallen
more in love and I'd say like the intensity of the arguments has actually gone down a lot you do it
multiple times a day I'm a grandpa that's all I'll say I mean I wouldn't be opposed multiple times a
day have we dude I'm not 18 years old anymore I get up and I go oh not multiple times a day
next secretly pregnant married couple thank you so much for insinuating that you think I
look pregnant within the next two years we're planning on starting a family and we will be
complete as we are with everything we'll be completely transparent of you and let
you know our thoughts on it once we decided to try and get pregnant and then once we manage it
yep Sam acts like he's fine with your Harry and Damon Obsession that's Harry Styles and
Dana Salvatore by the way but he's actually not fine I genuinely I'm fine with this you
know why he's fine with it because he also loves them too you equally love listening to Harry I
love listening to Harry but I don't care about going to visit the bakery he works in and stuff
you already did that so I took you that for you you think I'd want to visit that myself come on
is incredibly excited in my defense if Sam was not okay with it I wouldn't bring it up Damon
Salvatore Sam introduced me to he's obsessed with Damon as well so you know what it evens out dude's
a hunk what can I say I'm completely fine with it at the end of the day I don't think they're
gonna thrust in our relationship by any means you don't think they'd be interested you know what
dance parties are breakout dance sessions happen at least once a
day eventually twice literally last night I'm gonna insert a clip [Music]
we put on a show for Sonny last night he had
to wear a dance party and he's over here he's like guys are you dancing
how is the peanut butter Mister how is it peanut butter God I turned into such does
anybody else love the smell of dog paws that's all the questions we're gonna answer today we hope you
guys enjoyed this video and if you wanted to do a part two we're more than happy to do so because
there's a lot of questions we didn't get to thank you so much for sending in your questions yeah
watching this was really fun it was if you have any questions that you'd like us to answer then
drop a comment below and if anybody else wants to hear the answer as well then come back to them and
let's get a little threat going and yeah seeing what's going on we can do another video very soon
if you guys want yeah and make sure to like this video hit that subscribe button and that
notification Bell and we'll spoil Sonny if you do thank you guys I will see you in the next video
say bye Sonny you gotta buff it you gotta pop it buddy bye