Hey, it's Mark here, founder of Make Him Yours and creator of the Find Love
in Five Steps system. Today, we're talking about talking, how do you talk to a guy you
like and make a great impression?
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Hello and welcome to part one of how to talk to a guy you like. Now obviously,
it's really important that if you like a guy, you have to be able to talk to him, right?
So today, I've got five do's and don'ts when it comes to talking to a guy you like. So
number one is talk about your passions. So you can never go wrong with this conversation
topic. Literally never. There is nothing sexier than a passionate woman talking about the
things that she loves. So here's what NOT to do first and then what to do.
Mark: So tell me more about yourself. What do you do?
Jermia: There's not really much to tell, it's... you know, usual.
Mark: Do you...what, do you work? Do you, what do you...
Jermia: Yeah, yeah I work.
Mark: Yeah.
Mark: So tell me more about yourself.
Jermia: Well it's very exciting times for me at the moment cause I have a Pilates studio,
but we're just opening up a new location.
Mark: Ah how exciting. That's cool.
Jermia: I love it. Have you ever done Pilates before? I have to drag you along. It is amazing.
The feeling when you get out of a class is just, there's nothing like it. Nothing.
Mark: Yeah?
Jermia: Yeah!
Mark: Alright, you're dragging me along?
Jermia: Absolutely!
Mark: Alright, I'm in.
Jermia: Good.
Number two is be playful. If you can have a playful and fun vibe to you, you'll
be amazed at how well men will respond.
Mark: Alright, come on. I'm a whoop your ass at FIFA. Let's go.
Jermia: Uhm... I don't really play video games.
Mark: Ah okay.
Mark: Alright. Come on. It's whoop-your-ass at FIFA time. Let's go.
Jermia: Are you sure? You want to finally confirm that I'm out of your league?
Mark: Oh it is so on, it is so on.
Ladies, number three is ask questions from a place of genuine curiosity. So we're
all so used to the job interview style questioning these days that we forget to ask people things
that actually interest us. You know, you want to know what really makes him tick. So ask
him questions that relate to that. Not only are his answers going to be more meaningful,
but he's going to sense that you're being genuine and the conversation that you're giving
him is coming from the right place.
Jermia: So, um, where'd you go to school?
Mark: I went to Mountain Creek and I went to Emanuel for a bit as well.
Jermia: Okay, cool. Um, do you have any siblings?
Mark: Yeah, I have. I have two brothers actually. You?
Jermia: Only child
Jermia: Okay. I'm curious if there's one thing that you want to do before you're 30, what
is that?
Okay. So number four is speak with certainty. A man's going to pick up far more
from the way you speak than from what you actually say. So whatever you say, just say
it was certainly don't be afraid to put yourself out there and make a point.
Even if he disagrees, he'll respect the hell out of you for it.
Mark: All right. I have an important question for you right now, Red Rock or New and Improved
Shapes?
Jermia: Um, uh, I'm not really bothered. Whatever. Nope. Um, I like them both, so I don't know.
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Mark: All right. I have an important question for you right now, Red rock or New and Improved
Shapes.
Jermia: Red Rock, get those New and Improved Shapes out of this house. And if you choose
those New and Improved Shapes, you should get out too.
And so number five ladies is talk to him as your equal. So often, so, so often
I see women put a guy on a pedestal. The woman that stands out to us is the one that isn't
that impressed by his physical looks. So treat any guy the same way. See him for the goofball
that he is and let him prove himself to you over time.
Jermia: I just want to say thank you so much for taking me on this day today. It seems
so lovely and I never thought a guy like you would take a girl like me out on a date. I'm
so lucky,
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Jermia: So, you're really a lucky guy getting a quality girl like me on a date, huh?
So that gives you five great conversation tips, ladies, that you can use right now.
So you never have to worry about that, "How to," of talking to attractive guys again.
Don't forget there's a part two coming as well, which I'm very excited about. It'll
be out on Wednesday, so keep your eyes peeled for it as soon as it's available, I'll pop
it in the description of this video below. Do you have other tips for talking to guys?
I'd love to hear them. Post them in the comments below. Make sure you give the video a thumbs
up if you enjoyed. Subscribe to the channel with a button on my right here. I can't wait
to talk to all of you again very soon. Thanks ladies.
Jermia: Oh, that's actually a really exciting time for me at the moment because we've got
this [inaudible] [inaudible] more relaxed as well. I think hazing. It feels so tacky
doing that. Yeah. I don't know. Is it strange? Let me see. I like [inaudible]