Do you feel like you are too short, skinny, fat, poor, young, old, or bald to attract
women?
As men, we are plagued by limiting beliefs in our lives that prevent us from going out
and getting the success we really want.
First of all, you're WRONG!
Sure it would be best if we could all be tall, tanned, adonis's who are rich as Batman, but
in the real world, men of all shapes and sizes are perfectly capable of attracting amazing
women into their lives.
But I suspect you know that already, and thats why you're watching this video.
There's a technique that I've been sharing with my clients for almost a decade now that
is dead simple and yet super effective at destroying even the most stubborn limiting
beliefs.
And today, I'm going to share it with you so you now longer have to be held back by
your inner demons.
The best part is, you just need a hand clicker!
A Hand clicker?
How is that going to help?
Isn't that what bouncers use in club to keep track of how many people are inside?
Keep watching and find out!
To understand how to eliminate limiting beliefs, we need to understand how they start.
This usually takes place in 3 steps:
1.
We have an emotionally painful experience of some kind - This could be people making
fun of us in high school, it could be a girl rejecting you, or a long term partner breaking
up with you.
2.
We take that painful experience, and our brains look for reasons why we experienced such a
painful event - Often at this point, we fixate on the perceived weaknesses about ourselves
that we are most insecure about already, it feels like are greatest fears are confirmed.
3.
From that point on we attribute every failure in our dating lives to that negative belief
about ourselves because it's an easy scape goat.
This negative cycle of limiting beliefs is compounded by a psychological bias known as
confirmation bias - Where our attention gets directed to seek only evidence to support
the things we already suspect are true, OR the things we are most afraid of being true.
Have you ever spoken to someone with extreme political views?
Everywhere they look, all they see is evidence why their extreme viewpoint is warranted,
all they can see it the corruption in the opposing party to them, and the good that
their own political party does.
To them they see the truth in plain black and white.
and yet, from where you stand, they are clearly a bit insane!
This is confirmation bias at work - And when men tell me that they can't meet a woman because
they are too short, they are telling me that because everywhere they look, they only see
evidence why their view is correct.
And of course, you can easily see how a guy will feel that way..
We know that women generally prefer taller men, there's plenty of proof of that, and
rather than just seeing that as a slight disadvantage many guys can see that as an insurmountable
obstacle and settle to meeting women.
The key to overcoming these beliefs is to start to re-train what our brains pay attention
to because we have built some bad habits that need fixing.
This is where the hand clicker comes in - Your job is to start consciously looking for evidence
of men with your problem who are dating women.
Every time you spot an example, click the clicker so it goes up by one point.
The first thing I highly suggest you do is to hop onto google and look for examples there
- Searches like: "Why I only date older men"
"Why bald men are sexy" "Beautiful women dating short men"
Are fantastic because they'll provide lot of examples and stories of women defying your
limiting belief.
Secondly, you should carry that clicker with you everywhere you go, always be on the lookout
for evidence that contradicts what you believe.
Go to a bar, and make it your mission to spot balding guys with girlfriends, or older men
with younger girlfriends - You'll be amazed at how many you can spot in one night if you
put your mind to it.
When that clicker reaches 100, you'll already notice that your limiting belief is significantly
weakened.
But your ultimate goal is to get the clicker to reach 500.
When you have spotted 500 examples that contradict your limiting belief, you'll have broken the
spell it had over you.
Now I want to be clear - I'm not saying being short doesn't bring some disadvantage (I'm
a below average height guy myself) - I'm not saying that your limiting belief has no merit
whatsoever - What I am saying is that when you focus on your limitations, then you'll
always have a limited life.
There isn't a human alive without personal limitations of some description, but to get
the most out of your life the best thing you can do is move past them and learn to be successful
in SPITE of those limitations.
So are you going to take up the challenge today?
Or are you going to find a limiting reason why this won't work for you?
Let me know how you go, I love reading your reports in the comments below.
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