Quick, I want to show you guys what I've been working on.
So earlier in 2021, I mentioned to you, I was building a room and a studio.
And I want to have my own show.
And I don't know necessarily how it's going to turn out or how it's going to be.
But I'm going to, you know, bring on some cool people talk about some cool topics.
And I think that I got the perfect little setup for it.
So it's not quite finished, you know, it's still in the works, it's still being built.
But this is going to be the official positioning for everything uncle see back in the office.
And in today's video, I'm going to be explaining the number one most attractive trait to all
when it women when it comes to attracting them.
Now, this topic, I want to go extremely in depth in because not only do I feel like this
will help a lot of men actually, on their journey and on their mission with who they're
trying to become.
But I really believe that if I take this slow, and if I break it down for you, that you're
going to see who you need to become in the process to really be the man that you've always
wanted to be.
So let's cut right to the meat and beans.
Okay, the number one biggest attraction killer and or turn off in the eyes of a woman is
going to be fear.
Okay, I wrote this down and I have notes.
Why am I saying fear?
Well, here's the thing.
What we know regarding masculine frame is that when you are fearful, you're in the standpoint
of putting yourself into some sort of emotional vulnerability.
Now, here's what I can tell you.
It is okay to be scared from time to time, it is okay to be fearful.
But the most important thing in the eyes of a woman is that you are brave.
And that you face those fears, whatever those fears are.
Now to preface this, I'm going to explain something to you.
The biggest reason why most men have an issue with actually being a high value guy, I high
value man being a man of value, being on their mission, being on their purpose, actually
accomplishing successful things in life, talking the way they want to talk, having the confidence
or the demeanor that they want to have, is due to the fact that they're fearful.
Now they're fearful of three things, okay?
They're fearful number one of other people's judgment, they're fearful of rejection, and
they're fearful of humiliation.
Now, I'm going to explain some sort of brainwashing techniques or brainwashing tips that you can
actually use so that way you can get over this fear because I know what that was like,
Okay, pretty much everything that I've done in my whole life has been moving myself away
from fear or pain and moving myself towards pleasure or purpose.
And if you can really identify with that, you can start to adapt the strong beliefs
and the strong traits and the strong habits.
So I'm going to break down this video in every situation, how most men are peppering their
whole lives with fear and how this is holding them back from actually being who they know
that they need to be.
The very first thing that I can tell you, is going to hold you back that women can sense
you see what the reason why if you get too emotional around a woman why she senses that
loss of masculinity is because she knows something feels off, right?
There's like, there's, there's like a strong polarity shift between the masculine and the
feminine.
And when that when that is not there, okay, when all of a sudden that man is fearful,
or not necessarily certain unsure of himself, it's the biggest turnoff to where she knows
that he is not who he says he is, or who he wants to be right off the RIP, the number
one fear that most have is going to be fear of the approach.
Okay?
If you can get over fear of the approach, that is going to be 90% of the confidence
shift inside of your head to actually be identified in that woman's mind as some sort of high
value man, some sort of alpha, some guy who takes charge and is okay with putting himself
out there, even risking rejection.
Now, I can tell you one thing, men that will make
the approach regardless of their situation, regardless if they're in public, regardless
if they're at the gym, regardless if they're out there, like the fact that you're showing
that, hey, I could have 100 eyeballs on me right now.
And I don't care because I'm going to go out there and get exactly what I want to get.
That is going to be the biggest turn on for a woman where she senses certainty.
Now, for those of you here's what I can tell you, for those of you who struggle with a
game, like you struggle with flirting, you struggle with the ability to manifest creative
thoughts into words.
You know, such as like, hey, you know, you look like trouble or Hey, you look like the
type of girl I don't know if I should get to know but for some reason I want to get
to Nora, like if you struggle working the words, I'm a creative thinker.
I am better at that aspect.
But I know a lot of guys, they're very logical.
They're very logistical.
They're very rational, and they're just in that box if that is you.
The best way you can wipe your fear off of the approach is adapting the standpoint of
100% Honesty.
If you can have 100% and brutal honesty in all ways, shapes and forms, and put yourself
out there not not fearful of rejection, that's how you will win in the eyes of a woman.
And that's how you will ultimately be an attractive option as she sees, you can just go after
and get what you want.
So what would that look like?
Okay, complete honesty off the approach would be, hey, I think you're extremely attractive.
And I wanted to get to know you.
Now, I'm on my way.
So we don't have a lot of time.
Is there any way I could get your number?
That's all you'd have to say 100% Truth.
The problem is that most men are liars.
Okay, they lie about everything.
I used to be that guy.
Okay.
Most men lie about what they want.
They lie about their desires, they lie about who they want to be.
And because of that, they're constantly putting on a front.
That is not how you want to be.
So the first thing we have to cover is fear of the approach and how you have to get over
it.
The second thing that we have to go over is fear of escalation.
Let me tell you this, if a woman is agreeing to meet up with you, you know, thinks you're
cute and wants to go on a date with you.
She is 100% expecting you to eventually escalate, okay?
Even if it's for a handhold, even if it's for a touch, even if it's for a kiss, okay,
any of those things, you have to use social calibration to make sure that she feels safe,
she feels warmed up to you.
And she's actually ready for that experience.
And that's why you have to have good social cues and a good, you know, sense of judgment.
Now, here's what I can tell you, the men who are not fearful of their true desires, like
hey, I want that girl, I'm going to go talk to that girl.
And I'm going to see if that girl likes me, okay, guys who have that mindset of I'm not
going to be fearful.
I can tell you two things specifically that most men have tons of fear over and they don't
know how to get over it.
Okay, the first is fear of going after their goals.
And second is fear of taking risks.
And this is where we have to actually cover strong, confident mindset tactics that you
can copy paste into your life, guys who are fearful of taking risks in life.
This could be risks when it comes to your purpose, risks when it comes to going after
what you want for occupation.
This could be risks in your career, this could be monetary risks, where you're trying to
make investments and see if that pays dividends for you.
Here's what I can tell you the second that you become complacent as a man, you become
complacent and you're okay with where you're at in life, you're not chasing success, you're
not chasing excellence, you're completely content.
The second your woman senses that stagnation, or that fear of taking risks is the second
that she knows that she is not with a leader.
Now I advise all men, if you can get rid of not not get rid of one emotion, but learn
how to overcome this negative emotion, aka fear.
If you can do that, you will succeed with women far more than majority of men.
And the biggest reason is because they allow that negative emotion to chip away at their
confidence.
I see men time and time again, they are not going after their goals because they're fearful
of not hitting them.
They're not going after what they want out of life because they're fearful that what
they may build or what they might put time into will get broken, it might get destroyed,
it might not work out.
They're fearful of humiliation.
Like I can't stress this enough.
This one point, this one tip.
Like if you get if you if you allow this fear to overcome your life where you don't take
your risks in life, you don't go after what you want, you don't become the man you want
to be like you don't chase excellence, you will lose everything that I've done when it
comes to my own personal life.
Whether it be you know, building a hitman nation, right, starting my YouTube channel,
okay, building any of my businesses and even my products, starting CZ fitness when I was
1920 years old, like everything could have failed.
Literally everything.
No, there was a chance no one would have liked what I did, there's a chance no one would
have believed that I could help them, there's a chance that nobody would even would see
anything positive.
And because of that.
I didn't allow that fear to overcome, right and what I've shown now with hundreds and
hundreds of men who are inside of my NBT masculine behavioral techniques, men who are adapting
this principle, this mindset shift this belief shift their copy pasting these principles
that I teach, which is why I advise you to go down and watch the webinar below this presentation
today.
If this video is helping you what's happening is they're taking this the same system that
I use, and they're going in there copy pasting it, they're getting success with the companions
that they've always wanted in their life.
So because I know this worked for me what happened was I shared this with over 2000
men and because those 2000 men are getting results, I know it can work for you.
And that's why I firmly believe not only do these mindset traits, these habits, these
behavioral shifts, everything that a high value man can do to carry himself the correct
way.
Not only will this help serve you, but I can tell you this, there is nothing more unattractive
to women when you're dating than if she senses a fearful man.
They can smell it, okay, they can sense it.
They fit you they sense that fear of the rejection on the approach.
They sense that fear of being turned down on the escalation.
They sense that fear if you're scared to go after what you want for a lot of you you want
to build businesses You want to you want to have social life of abundance, right?
You want to have status, you want to make more money.
Well, the fact is like if you if you can't adapt that mindset shift of getting uncomfortable
and sitting in that fire, there's no way that you can ever actually accomplish what it is
that you want to accomplish in the second that your woman sees that you submit to that
behavioral shift in your mind is the second she no longer wants and she's going to be
going after a winner.
This is why I highly advise you guys you have to pursue what it is in life you know that
you need to do and you have to be on your mission to become a full stack one percenter
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