– Wouldn’t it be amazing if we could look into the future of our relationship and see how things turn
out? Imagine, you could use it to see if you end up together and live happily ever after, or maybe
you find out that your relationship falls apart because of cheating. But, if you knew in advanced,
then you could take action proactively to change the outcome and save the relationship before
anything happens.
Well, I can’t give you a crystal ball, but I can give you
the next best thing… You can recognize the signs.. the clues and suspicious behaviors that all men do
BEFORE they cheat on you. and, trust me…. There are always EARLY warning signs in advanced …. We
just miss them if we are not looking for them.
So stay right here because if you’re seeing these signs, you can still take action to save your
relationship before it’s too late. So, without further ado, here are the signs to look for.
7. He has cheated before
As simple as it sounds, past behaviors are the best predictor of future behaviors.
History often repeats itself, so you need to know your partners past. However…. Just because a
person cheated in the past does not guarantee that they will cheat in your relationship. Afterall,
People learn from their mistakes and experience personal growth. And when they do,
they are open to sharing their lessons. So, Ask questions about his past relationships
and why the relationships ended. And, don’t skip questions about infidelity or their opinions on
what is. Now, if he admits to have cheated in the past, and talks about the lessons he learned
and how he’s changed, that’s good. However, if your partner responds to your questions with a
cavalier attitude, make a mental note of this red flag and further explore this topic later.
Remember, those who fail to learn from mistakes of the past usually repeat them.
Now, as we talk about each of these signs,
we need to especially consider them when they represent a significant change in his behaviors
and priorities That’s because there's often an inspiration or incentive (like wanting to be
more attractive to others) that's motivating this change in the first place. For example, number
6. He is
suddenly very concerned about his appearance or he decides to make a sudden change in his
appearance. If he usually doesn’t really care about his appearance, or what his hair looks like
and now he becomes extremely interested in – or even obsessed with – his appearance,
such as dying his hair, getting spray tans, and whitening his teeth, he may be trying to impress
someone other than you. OR, perhaps he becomes obsessed with getting a new wardrobe… especially
if he recently started to become concerned about wearing nice socks and underwear.
Or, another big one… he becomes obsessed
with getting into great shape… so he joins a gym even though he never used to work out. and he is
not doing this because his doctor told him he needed to lose 15lbs because he is unhealthy.
No, he’s doing these things because it’s suddenly important for him to have a six pack, look great,
and get more attention. When this behavior is a significant change from prior behavior,
it may be motivated by a new for attention.
5. There are Changes (increases) In His Social Media Activity
If you start to notice your man posting thirsty photos of himself on social media,
it may be time to question what’s going on. Especially if his new photos and status updates
no longer include you. This becomes increasingly concerning when he no longer tags you in photos
together - So if he hasn’t included you in any updates in a long while, maybe he wants to make
it appear that he now single?
Also, pay attention to whom they are interacting with online. For example,
"if they are liking a lot of ‘sexy pics’ or commenting on lots of new attractive women,
it may be a sign he is not as committed or satisfied with the relationship as you thought.
4. He safeguards or hides his cell phone.
In a relationship, being open and honest about everything is important. But When a guy has
something to hide, one of the first things he’ll begin to do is keep his cell phone private. So pay
attention to what he does with his phone when he is with you? Does he have the ringer and
notifications off? Does he keep the phone face down on the counter when you are hanging out?
Does he always take his phone to the bathroom and seem to be gone for an unusually long time?
These are all possible signs that he is trying to keep his communications private
and doesn’t want you to know about them. This doesn’t mean that he is cheating, but maybe he’s
flirting or inappropriately communicating with someone and knows it would upset you.
Oh.. and here is another big
one.. He never shows you pictures or videos on his own phone. That’s because he’s worried about
the texts that might come through while you’re looking at the screen. It’s subtle, but when
you’re hiding something you’re certainly worried that a provoking text message might give you away.
3. You Aren’t
Invited to Work or Other Social Events Anymore In the past, he always invited you to hang out
with him and his co-workers after work, and he would invite you to all work events and office
parties that included spouses. Now, he doesn’t invite you or include you – When you ask him
about it, he makes some flimsy excuse and says that you would get bored or- he really needs to
spend one on one time with his boss etc…. If this is happening, you have to wonder,
is he hiding someone from you, or is he hiding you from someone- does he want to
spend that extra after work time flirting with a co-worker he’s getting closer up.
Ok, The last two signs
are also the most important ones… but, I want to caution you to be careful with them because it’s
never a good idea to jump to conclusions too soon. you certainly don’t want to accuse your partner
of cheating or wanting to cheat without being absolutely sure.
Just keep your eyes open.. because if he cheating, more signs will pop
up and you will find out. That’s for sure. So just keep your eyes open and be patient…
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2. He keeps accusing you of cheating.
He is constantly accusing you of texting other people or flirting with
other men behind his back — even though you’ve never done anything like that.
If he’s accusing you of these things without a real reason,
then He may be projecting his guilt onto you. Now it doesn’t mean that he’s cheating,
It simply means that he is capable of cheating or he has thought about cheating on you….
And because he has, he assumes it’s just as natural or easy for
you to cheat (or want to) as it is for him. In other words, He’s assuming that you’re
capable of being just as disloyal as he is. So yeah… if he is constantly assuming that you are
cheating or wanting to.. it’s because his head is right there… capable of, thinking about or doing
what he accuses you of doing.
1. Your Intuition tells you that something isn’t right.
If deep down you feel like something isn’t right with this person, you’re probably right. And
you’re noticing it for a reason. You see, your intuition often picks up on small clues
that you might consciously miss. There may not be anything significant that has changed
that you can rationally analyze, But you're aware that things aren't the same as they used to be,
and you're curious as to why.
Most important… do not to let an openness to intuition turn into insecurity. Being completely
honest with yourself is essential. if you’ve had trust issues before and can’t rely on your
gut instinct… At the very least, use this as a starting point to look out for the other 6 signs
that I’ve just mentioned. Trust issues are not something to be ashamed of, but it is something
you should work on.
If you know you're not insecure in general, but you have a strong hunch that something is wrong,
you're probably right. You understand your lover better than anybody else.
There is a reason you're feeling the way you're feeling. It's possible that he's not cheating,
but you should investigate to find out what's going on. Don't make assumptions; instead,
be mindful and begin to ask questions.
First and foremost, let me state unequivocally that just because your partner exhibits a few of
the traits I have described does not mean he is definitely cheating. It's possible
that these are simply warning signs that your relationship is about to hit a rough patch.
However, if you've recently noticed several of these symptoms in your partner and you're
concerned that things aren't going well in your relationship, I urge you to take action now before
things become any worse. Have a heart to heart conversation with him and find out what’s going
on.. Because if you don’t, it will only get worse