Hey, what's going on?
This is Tripp from TrippAdvice.com, teaching you how to get the girl while still being
your genuine self.
And today, I want to talk to you about how to talk to a shy girl.
Now I get this question all the time and it seems like there are a lot of guys out there
who are trying to attract different kinds of girls and some girls happen to be a lot
more shy than others or happen to be a lot more nervous than others and there actually
is a very specific way to talk to a girl who's shy and to attract a girl who is shy.
So generally, if you've been watching my videos and taking my advice, you know that I always
say that whenever you talk to a girl, whenever you talk to a group of people, you've got
to come in with a lot of energy, right?
So I'm always talking about energy.
Now there's also a concept called calibration, which is basically adapting to the specifics
of a situation you're in depending on who you're talking to.
So you don't always want to come in with high energy, especially if you're talking to a
girl who's more reserved or a little more shy.
So this is why I'm talking more about the adapting or calibration aspect of talking
to women.
If she is a shy girl, you don't want to come in with too much energy, because you're going
to turn her off.
It's going to be too much for her.
But if you talk to a girl on the other hand who's very energetic or a party girl, you're
going to want to come in with higher energy than her.
So what you have to do is you always come slightly above the energy of the girl you're
talking to, but remember, if you're talking to a girl who's shy or who has low energy,
yeah, you're going to come in a little more energetic than her, but still overall, your
energy is going to be low.
So in order to attract a shy girl, make sure you're on a little bit more of a calm level
and you're talking to her in a manner that's going to be a little bit more relaxed.
Another tip with talking to shy girls is the ability to be able to talk to her in such
a way that kind of pokes around to figure out what she's interested, right?
So sometimes girls who are really shy don't show a lot of excitement, but they will once
you find something you two can connect on.
So I talk about connecting a lot in my videos, and basically teaching you that you need to
be getting on a specific level with her where you guys talk about things in common or things
that are more interesting.
Right, so if you can do that with a shy girl, she's going to open up to you.
Right, you have to make her feel comfortable, and that's really the idea with any girl you're
talking to is making her feel really comfortable, but you've got to do it a little bit more
with the girls who are a little bit more reserved and shy.
Now I also talk about intentions, right, showing your intentions when talking to a girl that
you're attracted to.
You might want to do this a little bit less when you're talking to a girl who's shy, right,
because she's going to get really nervous and she's going to start blushing a lot if
you're telling her right away how beautiful she is and all these great things about her.
Instead, you kind of want to pepper those in, just sprinkle those in a little bit when
you're talking to her, but don't go overboard.
If you want more information on how to seduce women, how to talk to girls, go to my website,
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Go there right now and I'll see you on the next video.