Hi everyone Agnes here and I've got a viewers question for you today from Anna.
And before I read that out to you I just want to say in the light of getting a
lot of emails trying to get me to purchase views and subscribers on my YouTube channel,
I just want to let all of you know that that program of foolishness is something that I
will not be doing and that everything you see here on this channel is a 100%
authentic, honest and valid okay, so that's all I'm going to say about that.
Anna's story, now it goes like this - well it's not a story it's a question.
She said: 'How do you stop worrying that your SP will leave you for someone else? I worry that
they are with me just out of boredom and once they meet someone amazing they will leave me.
I often create scenarios in my head how my person meets and talks with other women and realises that
she is his dream partner and how much better she is than me and ultimately decides to leave me.
I want to be free of this mindset and I want to stop projecting this onto my specific person
as everyone is you pushed out so I would really, really, really appreciate your advice.' So
Anna if you are having thoughts like this what it tells you is that you feel '2nd Best' and
not good enough to other women. And it might not even be a woman that you know
it could be just women in general in relation to your specific person. So if you don't feel good
enough and also you'd be feeling 2nd best most likely I would start working on those
and changing them with affirming. You've got to change your repetitive habitual negative
thoughts about this, so I would start with 'I am good enough and I am 1st best' and I would
work on 'I am secure' because when you have these thoughts you're not secure okay, start with that.
Now what it also tells you is that you have a fear of loss and a fear of abandonment so to deal with
that I would look at doing some inner child work because this stuff stems back there okay. I would
have a look at in particular Brandon Bays' 'The Emotional Journey' okay I'll put links down below
to anything I mention here in this YouTube. Now Brandon Bays is a wonderful woman who has done
a process called the emotional journey and you basically go back and you release some old emotion
and you then unblock it so that you don't get this stuff in the present moment. So
do the work on the past, change your mind, your mental diet on this particular issue and if you
want to look at the inner child meditation you can do that as well I'll put that down below and
look at the whole ho'oponopono playlist because you want to start dissolving the parts of you
that's projecting that out okay. So that's it, it's short and sweet Anna because it's really you
just got to do a couple of things and you've got to do them extremely well and you've got to get to
the point where you override this happening. But it's very hard to override if you're not
dealing with what's underneath okay, so deal with what's underneath as well as re-inputting
some new affirmations for yourself okay. So lots of love - oh before I go
for those of you that don't know the work of Brandon Bays she has got a free pdf at the moment
on her website so you can get access to her book for free so I will put that
that link down below for you as well okay. Lots of love, see you in the next YouTube.