- So in today's video we're going to talk about
things he is thinking when you ignore him.
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Just before I share with you five things he's thinking
when you ignore him, don't forget
to take my free self-awareness test,
"Are you a woman of high value or low value?"
Which I will drop down in the video description box below.
So my ladies, without further ado, let's start.
The number one thing is his thinking, what is happening?
If you have been giving your guy a lot of certainty
or texting more than him,
you are pursuing him for sex regularly,
he clearly knew where he stood with you and ignoring him
can make him say, what is happening?
What is going on here?
You may even think that you, maybe,
are reevaluating the relationship.
If he had been used to knowing how you feel about him,
ignoring him will make him start to wonder,
what is going on?
Ignoring him will give him uncertainty
and uncertainty is one of guys' love needs.
Ladies, keep this in mind and it's very, very important
because it's so crucial.
I'm not telling you to ignore the guys in this video,
this is not what I'm saying.
Please don't start ignoring them for no reason.
Okay, that is just purely ridiculous.
I'm just sharing with you what they are thinking
when you do do that, which takes me to the number two,
he might think you are busy.
He knows you have long hours at times at work.
You have an active social life with friends,
family and activities.
Ignoring him will get him to ask himself,
"Hmm, maybe she's just busier than usual."
And yes, it will add some mystery to the relationship
and will make you naturally a challenge.
And mystery, as we all know, is a power of seduction.
The number of songs that have been written
about mystery is a lot. (laughs)
And men also love a woman who is a challenge.
Before how to be a challenge for a man, a healthy way
and not, "I'm ignoring you so you would chase me" way,
please watch my video right here.
Number three, when you ignore him,
he might be getting jealous.
Your guy has shown jealousy in your relationship already
or maybe not.
However, ignoring him may trigger best emotion.
He may think but there is a chance
that you may be seeing another man or he may get jealous
of your friends or that your job is taking too much
of your time, this can go both ways.
He might start to mark his territory
and get into a competitive zone, you will get more attention
than usual or he may not react at all if he understands
the games that you might be playing
and knows exactly why you're doing this.
So if the reason why you are ignoring him
is to get attention or make him jealous,
you are basically playing with fire
and digging yourself a hole, therefore,
be wise, ladies, be wise.
Number four, he might think why you are ignoring him.
If you are ignoring him for no reason,
just to play some games, as I mentioned before,
so he will chase you.
Yes, it does work with men who are not very experienced
or are not high value.
A man with self-respect a will not put up that part.
He will see right through you, just think about it.
If you watching my channel, you are totally aware
of the games guys are playing as well.
If he would play a game like this with you,
would you fall into his trap?
No you wouldn't, so it's literally the same thing.
If you are ignoring him to put up a boundary
because he has crossed it, that is a different story.
And he will know exactly why you are doing it also,
and then he'll think how to go about it.
The most common immature way is to disappear
for some time hoping that he will reappear again,
all will be forgotten.
Ladies, please watch my video, "How to get a man
to respect you" which you can find
just by following the link right here.
Here comes the fifth one, he will want what he cannot have.
If you're ignoring him because you are setting a boundary,
well, you have now removed his access to you
and now he will want that access back
if he has feelings for you.
If he was just using you and never cared,
he just won't care.
"Plenty more fish in the sea," he will say to himself.
However, men will value you a lot more
when we cannot have you at any time we want.
As you value yourself, you value your time,
and a woman who values her time cannot be available
whenever he pleases, therefore, ladies, do not play
these silly games and watch my video right here,
"How to get a man to value you in a healthy way."
So ladies, we explored the five things
that a man might thinking when you are ignoring him.
Don't forget to take my self-awareness test,
"Are you a woman of high value or low value?"
Which, as I said, you can find
in my video description box below, check out my videos
which I have plenty of them for sale on my website
such as "How to stay attractive via text,"
"Games men play on women,"
"How to control your emotions,"
"How to get your ex back," for which I will also drop a link
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