How do you know love could be just around the corner for you? Now in this video I'm going
to go through 10 ways that you can track and trace this a little bit as to how close you are
in relation to this topic and being successful. Now before I do that, for those of you that have
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destinations around the world. So check that out if you're interested. Now getting back to
the 10 things: Number 1) Being relaxed. Now when we're tense about love and we're obsessed about
getting a relationship and we're in this not very good place within ourselves and we have anxiety
like many of us have had at different times on the topic of love, romantic love and relationships,
being relaxed is something that we are not. So if you can improve anything that makes you feel more
relaxed, feel more at peace and feel more calm that is something that can really help you to
get closer to having this wonderful romantic relationship. Now Number 2) Enjoying life.
So in terms of enjoying life - not to do with relationships, I'm talking about all the other
areas of your life. If you are getting more involved in your life and building that part up
whether it's for pleasure or work or learning, it really is
building your self-love up in different ways, as in really getting to the place where you are
just having a great time. So this is another area that if you are already doing that,
you are getting closer to attracting what you desire because you become more attractive
when you actually have a life that's fun. That energy that is emitting from you
is a magnet, it's a beautiful magnet, because the more playful and fun you are the more attractive
you become to whatever gender you prefer to date okay. Number 3) Letting go of watching endless
YouTube's about relationships, about how to get love, how to make this happen, how to get this
and being obsessed in this preoccupation of it. When you're in that you are not close,
but if you are at the point where you know what you're saying 'screw this, I've done that enough,
I still want to manifest this desire but I'm just I've had enough of this' - once you get
to that point that's a good sign because you are no longer chasing it, you're no longer trying to
make it happen. Now there's nothing wrong with watching YouTube's on this particular topic,
but when you get to the point where you think you know what I've done enough, I've listened enough,
I've learned enough, now what I'm going to do is I'm going to work on what Abraham Hicks says is
getting into the vortex and you're doing that on other subjects. So if you're at that place where
you're letting it go a bit and you're taking foot off the accelerator on those types of YouTube's,
a good thing for you and again that is a sign or a good thing that shows you you are now getting
closer to manifesting what you desire because your obsession has released itself. Number 4) No
being exhausted. Now when we are doing this work on ourselves we are so fixated in the beginning
especially when we've had a heartbreak and that's understandable to try and perhaps attract a new
relationship or an ex back or a specific person. So once you get to the place where you have
pulled back your energy, you get enough sleep, you're letting go of anxiety, you're letting go
of the negative emotion and you're building yourself up from the inside out and taking
really great care of yourself. Then that is a sign too that you are getting closer because you're no
longer seeking the drug of love from the outside, from another person - whether it's a new person
or someone that you already are focused on, it really doesn't matter. You're doing
the self love from within, you're unhooking yourself from the love coming from the outside
and you are getting yourself in a more emotionally attractive position. Your vibrations better okay.
Now Number 6) Give to others from your self-love cup. So, yes when you're in a
position where you're doing that more and I'm not saying overdoing it - be careful about that
because I do see people do not everyone but some over give to others and they leave themselves
empty or they're over giving and therefore they're going into the exhaustion. So be mindful
of that - giving to others some of the time from a full cup - a wonderful place to come from. Now
Number 7) Enjoying adventure to go explore - whether you do music, whether you make time to
go hiking, whether you go to the next town and try a new coffee shop, whether you go and try
that cultures food that you've always wanted to try but never have. When you're making your life
a fun treasure hunt and an adventure that rises up your vibration and your vibe and it means you
have a better life and it means you have more fun and as you have more fun you're not at anxiety,
you're not in feeling hurt, you're not feeling rejected, you're not in feeling unwanted that
you're not a priority, that you don't matter, etc etc etc and that you're not good enough. Now
when you do that it's like you stop watering that plant and you are then watering
the plant of feeling good, being in a new state as Neville says - feeling good or being in the vortex
as Abraham Hicks says. So as you do this you are making yourself the priority, you are making
yourself having fun and again that is the energy that means you're closer to what you desire.
If any of you have seen the Abraham Hicks emotional guidance scale - I will put a link
down below to a photograph of that after I video this and you will be able to see it
so you can see how close you are. And when you look at that guidance system say to yourself:
How am I doing right now on the topic of love, romantic love, relationships?
Or if you've got a specific person or an ex, think about where am I at right now in relation to
them or this topic? Okay, so it's a really interesting thing to check out. I remember
when I was moving my way up towards being with my specific person and having a great relationship,
it ended up that I was checking this when I first heard about and I thought wow I am making
progress. I'm no longer depressed or anxious all the time or feeling you know a bit negative,
I'm feeling better and I was making the effort. So check that out when you have a little bit of time.
Now the next one: Number 8) Laughing more is a good sign that you're moving towards
having more love or manifesting the love that you desire. Because when you're laughing you're
in a great vibration, you're in a great state, so with whether you choose to do it deliberately
by watching comedy or whether you find weird and wonderful quirky things to amuse yourself with,
whether it's online or whether it's out and about,
that notice those things. Let it capture your attention, take a moment, have a laugh okay.
And I think it's you know it's self-amusement, self-amusement, the art of self-amusement,
that's a whole thing that I find I spend a lot of time doing and it's really
it just it breaks you focusing on 'I'm not getting enough, I want more' and all that.
It just puts you in that moment, on that day, in a good space. Now Number 9) Tend to things that
grow. Now this is an interesting one - whether it's plants, whether it's your garden,
whether you're growing vegetables or flowers or whether you are someone who is growing your own
knowledge through studying, through research. That is a really good thing to
do - tend to things that grow, so you're watering and fertilising these things.
And I find the more you get absorbed and lost in something that captures your attention,
you are then no longer watering the plant of 'I don't have love, I don't have money, I don't have
a great job, I don't have, I don't have, I don't have' and you are then bringing up the
good vibration, the good energy that again is the energy needed to get you closer to where you want
to go in a romantic relationship or a wonderful meaningful relationship. Okay, now: Number 10)
This one is stop looking for reassurance - now that doesn't matter whether it's in your life,
with family, friends, at work or even online. It doesn't matter where it is stop doing it.
The more you stop looking for reassurance which is about not feeling secure, not feeling good enough,
then it really is something that you can stop quite quickly. And if you are doing it,
consider stopping doing it and if you are not doing it and you notice you're not doing it then
this is a way you can see you're getting closer to where you want to go. People are attracted to
confident people - doesn't mean you have to be on your 'soapbox' confident - quietly
confident people are intriguing and you can see them as you move around, on the bus, at the
supermarket - sometimes someone will just capture your attention while they're looking to buy yogurt
and you think wow something about that person's vibe that makes me want to have another look. So
hopefully that will help you to see where are you at and that love could
be just around the corner for you. Let me know down below how you're doing with these things,
some of them you might be doing already, some of them you might think you know what
I've forgotten about that and I might need to do a bit of work on it. So let me know
and I will put the link down to that beautiful shop for you and I will also put down
another few videos that are in line with this one in the description for you. Lots of love everyone
and as always you know where I am on YouTube and I will see you soon, cheers.