Hi I'm Stevie Boebi
And you guys been begging me
To tell you how lesbians have sex
So today I'm gonna teach you how to
FUUUUCK
I've been getting messages for years
on Tumblr and Twitter and Facebook
That are all like
I want to have lesbians sex for the first time
How do I have lesbian sex for the first time?
I'm about to do it the first time how to do the sex?
So I'll be making these videos in the future
Where I go in depth into each of these topics
But today I'm here to dispel some rumors
Teach some lesssons
But mostly see how many times
I can say "butt stuff" in one video
Butt stuff!
First of all
There's kind of no such thing as lesbian sex
There's just sex
Any type of sex can be had by any type of human
With any type of genitalia
Think about it
What about finger-banging?
Works for anyone
Penetration?
Anyone
Oral sex?
Anyone
Doggystyle
Anyone!
Butt stuff?
Yes please!
The point is you've got hands and mouths
And genitalia and toys and you can use all those things
To have sex with your hands and mouths
And genitalia and toys
Although I guess if your toys had sex
With each other that wouldn't be considered lesbian sex
Why is this so loud?!
Also it doesn't matter how many times you've had sex
If you're having sex with someone new
It really is your first time
And you should treat it that way
In terms of consent and communication
And respect and asking questions
And learning someone's body
It's your first time
I said how do you have lesbian sex?
And I want answers now!
Okay, I got it
Consent is sexy and also mandatory
Sometimes people tell me that
Enthusiastic consent is like lame
Or not sexy
But what?!
It is so hot are you kidding me?
It's hot because someone's all like
Yes, I want you to do this sexy thing to my body
And also it's hot because
They're telling you what they want
You don't have to guess
How cool is that?
But in case some of you are not convinced
Here some sexy ways to ask for consent
Is this okay?
Or
Can I touch you?
Or
I want to put my finger inside of your ***
You down?
Et cetera et cetera
No.2 Communication
If you're having sex with someone
And you're not asking them what they want
Or what they like
You're probably not doing a good job
People are gonna think it's harsh
That I said that but I don't give a FUCK
But some of the concerns
That you guys have expressed to me are
That you're worried that
You're not going to do it right
And you're worried about being bad at it
Hi, you only gonna suck at sex if you think you're doing a good job when you're not
Just sayin'!
Ask questions like "Does this feel good?"
"Do you like this or this more?"
And read body cues
Right, quick question
When you move your hips that way do you want me to go harder or do you just really like this song?
I love Britney Spears and exactly what you are doing right now! Don't stop
The secret of good sex is talking to each other
Laughing together and figuring stuff out together
Don't take it so seriously
Sex is supposed to be fun
Sex-is-supposed-to-be-fun
Ask her what she likes
What she fantasizes about tell her your fantasies
If she's never done butt stuff before
Ask her about it and then take it slowly
Okay, first you're gonna feel like I'm like poking your butthole
Or whatever and then I'm gonna like a wiggle it around a little bit, it's really cool
Could you try explaining that in a hot way?
And don't forget to ask for what you want
Contrary to what you might have been told
Your pleasure is just as important as anonye elses
Okay so now we've got consent of communication covered
Now let's get to specifics
So let's talk about pussy
I was raised in the southern United States
Where they call your vagina a hoohoo
Or a wangwang for your whole life
Until then they show you like a video of a baby crowning and they're like that's what pussies do
And little to no information is provided
Dr. Doe is a real life sex doctor and she has a great channel called "Sexplanations"
And I sat her down to ask her about certain things about lesbian sex and check it out
So Dr. Doe why do you think so many people don't know what lesbian sex is?
Or how lesbians have sex?
Because it's not hot in sex education
They have no examples
Or their imagination is based on this idea
That sex is penetrative missionary style
Man on top
So that's how they can form their ideas to fit into that
These are my teacher clothes
True or False: a vagina has one hole
False!
This is actually not your vagina
It's your vulva
The canal inside of you is your vagina
This is your outer labia
This is your inner labia
This little hole is your urethra
Where the pee comes out
This is your vaginal opening
Where babies and period comes out
And dildos, tampons or fingers go in
This is your clit
It's inside of this little hood
And sometime it peeks out to take a look around
What is a clit?
The clitoris
The clitoris is a small sensitive organ located at the top of the vulva
Just about the vaginal opening and the urethra
The function of the clitoris is to provide pleasure
And it's how most women can orgasm most easily
Wanna know how to find the clit?
Let's ask Dr. Doe
Do you have trick on how to find the clit?
For someone who's never seen another person's vulva
Do it when you're not aroused
Because when the body becomes aroused the clitoris tends to retract underneath the foreskin
The clitoral hood the little fold of skin above it
And so it's harder to see visually
I also suggest that you look for it with the sensation rather than sight like feel around until you come across
Something like WHAT WAS THAT PART?!
So find your clit before you find someone else's clit
If you both have vulvas
What would you recommend on how to find someone else's clit?
To get lots of differnet diagrams of lots of different vulvas and how they can all look varied
And then start to map up the geography where things are so finding for example the inner lips
And then going upward from there and saying okay, the clitoris should be right around here
And if I touch this what is the response of the person
I think she should tell you
You know like "There it is"
You got it!
If she knows
Yeah
I mean, yeah
Ask the person if they know where their clitoris is
Hey why doesn't have a vagina diagram have vagina lips
It does!
I like to call it wings
I wish I could fly but I don't think mine are big enough
Buoyant enough?
Hollow enough?
Wait my vagina doesn't look like that
Great point!
Every lesbian's vagina and vulva is different
Some lesbians only have a vulva
Some lesbians don't have a vagina or a vulva
So remember to do some exploring to see
What kind of bits they have when you're touching your casual lesbian sex partner
Casual lesbian sex partner!
So teacher phrase
When you touch your casual lesbian sex partner remember to ask questions
Ask her what feels good ask her where and how she likes to be touched
Ask her if she likes what you are doing
Because she's had a lot more pussy practise
Pussy practise!
I'm going to go more in depth about specifics of different sex acts that lesbians can do together
In other videos but here let's scratch the surfice with me. Come along!
Here are some lesbian sex positions you can try out
Butt stuff!
Technically two Ken dolls can get in a tribbing because they just have these lumps
Some things to keep in mind: use protection
No glove, no love!
It's always important to protect yourself whether it's a casual hookup or a new relationship
It's important that you're honest with your partner and it's important that you protect yourself
Here's what Dr. Doe has to say about protection in lesbian sex
What do you think about girl-girl sex and STI's?
And how you can be safe?
Because I know it is less likely for girls to transmit diseases with each other
Transmitted infections with each other depending on the kind of sex they're having but
Yeah!
You can definitely still transmit infections you can transmit things like HPV (the human papilloma virus)
That can lead to genital warts or cervical cancer
You can transmit HIV is transmitted with vaginal fluid
You can transmit herpes
Very easily, vaginally
Or orally and just by moving fluids around even with toys
Preventive tools will be things like getting tested communicating that you have been tested
And what you've been tested for and what the results were asking questions like
"Have you been tested?" rather than "Are you clean?"
'Cause you are gonna get more accurate responses that way and then using things like
Dams that are polyurethane or latex rectangles
That you can set over body parts or gloves to make your own
You can also use gloves on your hands and
Gloves are so great!
Oh. Aren't they?
- Especially the black.. Ah - Yes! I have the black ones.
If you are a person that has an STI you don't have to stop having sex
But you do have to be honest with your partners
And even if you don't have an STI you need to protect yourself and respect yourself
Protect just my vagina or do I need it for butt stuff too?
Butt stuff too!
But before you leave me to go test out a hundred sex positions with your new lesbian sex partner
First let's talk about foreplay
Which is the most important part of sex besides the sex
Foreplay is any and everything that happens before the sex
Before play, foreplay
Get it?
Flirting, role playing, kissing, biting, rope tying or even just whispering in your boo's ear
That counts as foreplay
Make it last the more you turn her on the more she'll desperately want you to bang her
And that feels nice
So that's it
Having good sex is as easy as wanting to have good sex
And then figuring out how to do that with your partner or partners
Don't forget preaching abstinence is just a shitty way of trying to talk kids into never having any fun
Society will tell you that no sex is bad, too much sex is bad and doing cool sex stuff is bad
None of it is bad!
Go have fun!
Butt stuff is dope!
Make decisions based on what you want, what feels good to you and to people who respect you
And make you feel good
All that was a little bit of communication and you'll have a lesbian wet sex dream
Or just lesbian sex
Or just lesbian sex..
Thank you guys so much for watching
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Bye!
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Step 1: Get your feelings out!
Stop trying to be so strong!
You have to actually acknowledge