what's up everybody George here from GP lifestyle ending today's video guys
I'll be going over my top 5 best dating tips for college students as always gentlemen, there is a video summary wait
I'm Sam's linked in description likes to review certain points on this list. Let's get started tip
Number one on this list is to use common classes programs
groups as your
introduction now guys often struggle with what is the first thing you're going to say the world that you want to go up to and
Talk to and since you both share a common environment here aka your classes program school then a hold environment
this can be an excellent way for you to make your
Introduction simply go up to that person that you well I can just add some hey
Aren't you so-and-so from that class Oh have a majority
Oh, how are you liking?
You know everything sit and that is an interesting way that you can make
Small talk and actually introduce our rather than just you know
go up to them and really try to flirt right off the bat because
It usually doesn't work out that way
If you start off with a very general conversation about you know
This shared environment that you both have it's actually gonna work in your favor
I've never done business that generally gets to know the other person. They're transitioning your small talk into a bit more deeper
Open-ended question like why did this person show this for them?
What do they plan to do in the future? And the key thing here is you do not want to interview?
Don't just keep
rapid-firing
questions off the top of your head because girls can pick up on that and it's going to seem like you're just trying to ask
A number of questions before you shoot your shot
Which is really going to work against you because they know nothing about you
You are just some stranger that's trying to make a first impression that they don't nothing about. Why would they give their number and
Social media, even if you're an attractive handsome god that can still come off as well serial killer creepy
but here are the things you want to do to gently get to know the other person be
Genuine be actually interested in them
not just a means to an end and
Here you want to look for common interest that you have a common interest even if you don't have a lot of common interest you
Need to see if you are emotionally compatible, which is a lot to do with your personality type
you see how they react to certain jokes how they have a
enunciate and say stuff and what they find funny it can actually be a better telltale sign whether you guys are at
A little bit more compatible or just the attraction. He's just purely physical because common interest a lot of people think
Oh, you got something in common Deb's great not necessarily the case
It doesn't matter if you guys have everything in common if you're going to be arguing while you're doing that thing
It really doesn't matter. It's how you leap how they react to certain things that you say and how you say it
And what is their reaction to it?
so be sure to check out their body language the way that their position which then brings us to tip number three and Edison don't
overstay
Now a lot of times guys
when you go to the talks over anything like they really just want to go balls to the walls in that first interaction make you
Go to first impression get good
Get a good conversation going then a store number and everything this if you overstay your welcome
Especially the first time you talk to somebody you're gonna come off as desperate and girls can sense a desperation
Like it's the plague or something ridiculous. I don't know how but they just know here
You want to be you want to be charming here?
You want to be subtle you wanna?
it's a marathon not a sprint in this case because I'm hopefully you're looking for a genuine relationship in your
life right now and here what you wanna do is you want to see how the conversation is going if it's going
Well, there's no awkward long pauses
There's a good you know, both parties are you know, give and take it's very it's natural
But if you start to see the body language start to close up and start to turn away start looking over
She starts looking over your shoulder to leave. These are all telltale signs that this conversation is over
This person wants to leave and go about their day
Which you should do the same because if you keep you know being persistent in staying there
You're more likely to be rejected because you seem desperate and you seem like there's nothing
anything else that you'd rather be doing in your life right now than just talking to this person and try to get in to
Go on with his person you try to make it seem like getting a girl is like the purpose of your existence down there
nothing else
You should be doing be very subtle and charming about it have a little bit of a conversation
Flirt a little bit and then then what's some swagger?
Exit that conversation because you want to make a great first impression
You want to make her feel comfortable around you and yet you want a - in a little bit of?
Flirting so the next time you go up to her and talk to her and when you really shoot your shot
I think you should be on the second time
If you know you're going to this person again
Then she's gonna be putty in your heads because you already made such a good first impression that she's probably going to think about you
A little bit more after you're gone in which she sees you against that. Oh, that's a cute guy from math class and then
That's when you shoot your shot tip number four on this list
We're transitioning away from the conversation has been any to your personal appearance and that is addressed with these smart casual aesthetic
This is where you really want your fashion sense that start to grow up either
You're just gonna start learning more about how to dress properly or you're starting to graduate away from the street wear
Hypebeast aesthetic with to something a little bit more smart casual like this outfit that I'm wearing here
It's a prime example of so nice a little more smart casual. I'm going with a olive green pair of chinos
I'm pairing it with a 10 hoodie any white pair of sneakers and just a stainless steel
Watch and that's it because here I'm combining something that you know could be a little bit more, you know
Younger man style a little more street wear because I'm wearing a hoodie sneaker
these are usually I would pair with like a trick pair of jeans, but I'm cleaning it up with a pair of
olive green
Chinos, so this a little looks a little more professional the sneakers here
You can go with retro sneakers or something a little more minimal
It shows that you can still dress, you know, young and fun
But you can also clean it up when it's necessary to have you look a little bit more mature and a little bit more grown-up
Which is a nice aesthetic to have and the fifth and final tip on this list is the plan cheap yet romantic dates now
I understand being a college student having disposable income to spend on liquor on
Drinks on going down
it's just
not the case for a lot people now a lot of guys test really over thing what they're gonna do for the first day because
They want to be you know, make something do a really good job. So you're gonna be a second aid in the third
That's relationship and yadda yadda yadda
But they said to miss the point here. The action that you're you to are going to partake in is only
Secondary that's working on guys, but it doesn't matter if you're getting a smooth
You're getting a coffee or you're getting sushi, or you're getting Pizza. It's about what you're really going to talk about
It's like it doesn't matter what you're doing is gonna be sitting there awkwardly in silence
The key thing here is that you really want to focus more on the conversation. What do you guys are gonna talk about?
what are you going to look for right and you want to see if if
The attraction goes beyond physical and - more emotional then you guys are really compatible and could be a couple
But if you guys are interesting, I want me to do a video on five cheap awesome
first date ideas
Please drop a comment down below and I'll prep the video and get it out to you the next few weeks if you guys are
interested in that
That's it for me today guys
Those are my top 5 best dating tips for college shoes if guys enjoyed this week
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