What I want to talk to you about today is this idea of getting her so into you, so attracted to
you that she'll become so loyal. And that's one of the reasons why you want to learn this. So
that you have someone who's loyal to you, a really good girlfriend. Or you are dating multiple women
and they want to be with you so you have options. So you're making this dating life or your
relationship the best that it can be right. And of course, it takes two to tango here. You want
to have the woman doing her part too. If she's not, she's out. You break up with her, you don't
see her again. But you have to do your part too in order to make it happen. We're going to go over
a few little tricks that are not necessarily evil. That's why I put evil in quotes, it seems like it
is. It appears like it is. But they are very effective. And they're not the typical thing
that most guys do because most guys play the nice guy card. This is the opposite of that. It's not
going to be like you're being mean or bad to a woman. But you're not going to be overly nice.
You'll see what I mean when we go through these ideas. The idea behind these 5 little tricks here
are that you're getting her to chase you and you're not giving her all this attention.
Each one is very specific to this theory or concept of not giving her too much attention
so then she starts to chase you. That's the whole concept here. Each of these is. going to help you
keep a little bit of a distance in keeping her wanting you more. Because most guys (and this
is where it doesn't work out for guys, which is why I made this video) give too much attention
and then the girl gets turned off. Same thing would happen for a guy. If the girl is giving
too much attention and being too needy, it's a big turnoff because it basically signals to somebody
that you have low self-esteem and we don't want that here. We're going to do the opposite to
signal that you're confident and this in turn is going to get her to chase you. The first one is
something I've been teaching for the past year or so. It's this idea of not complimenting or minimal
to no complimenting. I know that guys are going to mess this up and this happens because it feels so
intuitive to compliment someone and say nice things to them. But when you're doing this,
you are signaling to them that you're saying things just to get their attention. That's
all you're doing. You're just saying things because you're trying to get them to like you.
I don't think compliments... very rarely do compliments, I should say,
come off as genuine. I think a lot of guys do it as a way to manipulate. Let's not
give compliments. And if you do, it's going to be so seldom and so rare. So that when you finally do
say a nice compliment to her, she's gonna be like whoa, this is real, this feels good. And
that will make her more attracted. So minimal to no compliments. This will get her to chase
you. By the way, don't take these and think okay, since he's saying no compliments, I should do the
opposite and say mean things. That's not what I'm saying. Follow this literally. We're just saying
no compliments here. Let's go to the next one. Don't respond to her text message for a few hours.
This is of course different if you are married and you have kids and there's things you need to take
care of. But in the dating process and even in the beginning of a relationship, you don't need to be
texting back so fast. I hope, and this is the hope here, is that you're busy enough where you
just naturally are doing that. You're busy enough where that's not something that's gonna be on top
of your mind. Like your phone is right by you and boom, boom, you got to text her back right away.
Wait a few hours. Again, hopefully this is natural so instead of just being like oh, here's the text.
Tripp told me to wait a few hours. I'm going to put my phone down now. Instead keep your phone
away. Don't be checking it every single second. Go on your computer if you need to do something
with the internet. Whatever you need to do, don't be looking at your phone, so it doesn't have you
texting her back so fast and that way, giving her less attention which gets her to chase you more.
Planning a date far in advance. A lot of guys won't do this and they'll be a little bit scared
to plan a date far in advance. When I say far in advance, I don't mean in a month.
I just mean doing it sometime next week or in 7 to 10 days, maybe even two weeks.
Don't be planning a date within the next couple of days. Show her that you're busy.
And hopefully you're dating enough women, doing enough things, having enough fun in your life
and on your path, your purpose, your mission, where you actually don't have time until a week
or week and a half, maybe even two weeks from now. Let's use that. Let's use that idea here of
being busy, staying busy, planning a date a little bit further in advance. Here's the fourth one,
challenging her on what you're looking for in a woman. You should know what you want in a woman. I
made a video about this just recently and we dove into it a little bit deeper. I'll put that video
in a link down below. I talk about challenging her and qualifying her and this is very important.
It's going to help you find the woman that you're looking for, but also show her that you're not
desperate. That you won't just go for a new woman. That you're not going to date any woman you come
across. That you have certain specific things that you're looking for in a woman. You want to make
her know that by asking her questions, by asking her things that get to know her to know if she's
going to be right for you. Are you looking for specific values, religion, politics? Is there a
specific quality you want in a woman? Maybe she's someone who enjoys traveling a lot, she enjoys
live music. Challenge her on these. Ask her "is this something that you like?" Some of those are a
little bit superficial, maybe like live music. But what are some of the things that you're looking
for in a woman? Ask her these things. Be that challenge to her. Here's one that guys really
mess up. And they asked me this a lot. "Tripp, what if a girl asks me if I'm dating other
women? You say to go off and date other women. But isn't that gonna be a turnoff to women if
you're dating multiple women and she asks you? No, it's not. In fact, 9 times out of 10, it's a turn
on. It shows her that you're not desperate and it shows that you have other women that want you
which is social proof. This is very powerful. So no, don't lie to her. I'm not telling you to tell
all the women you're dating that you're dating other women. If you're not dating other women
think you get my drift here. But make sure that if you are and she asks, say yes you are. Yeah okay,
once in a while that woman is going to be like well no, I only want a guy who's dating
me even though we're not exclusive and she'll be gone. Okay, so be it. You're dating other women
and that's someone who you probably don't want in your life anyways. But if there's
a woman who you're saying to her yes, I am dating other people, she's going to stick around because
she's going to fight for you. And she's gonna make her even more interested in you. But the whole
point here is that you're dating multiple women to see which one is going to be the best fit for you.
And if you're just looking for casual, that's fine too. But trust me, they will stick around.
It seems like it's wrong. It's evil. But you know what's more evil? Lying to her and saying no, I'm
just seeing you. Be honest and hopefully you are dating enough women where you can actually have
the opportunity to let her know that. My program Hooked teaches you even more in depth techniques
just like this to get her interest in you, to get her hooked on you. That's why it's called Hooked.
So check it out at Get Her Hooked dot com. It's a full online course that teaches everything from
meeting women to flirting with women to continuing conversation with them to get them interested in
you and everything in between to get them to be hooked on you whether you want a relationship
or you want something casual. Check it out. www.getherhooked.com. I'll put a link down below.
Let me know in the comments which one of these you resonate with the most. And here's what I want you
to do. I know this is gonna sound pretty crazy. But if you have a date, if you have a date right
now. I want you to reschedule it to next week. This is going to be a test to see first of all,
are you in an abundant mindset. And also it's going to test to see how much she likes you.
I want you to do that. I know it sounds insane. But just do it. Let her know hey, something crazy
came up. You're still interested in meeting. Let's do it next week. Plan the time, plan the date.
Have that dominance there. But try that out. I'm telling you it's going to work in your benefit.