Hello, my wonderful friend! Let's talk about 7 body language signs she wants you
to approach her. Okay, you've been in that situation, right? Where you see this really
cute girl, and you're really hoping she wants you to approach, talk to her, get her number. But
you don't know what she thinks. I will be completely honest with you, if you approach a
woman when she's not interested or when she's not expecting it, that's one of the best ways to come
across as creepy and actually scare her because she feels like you just want something from her.
That's not what you want. Imagine instead, that you see a really cute girl, and you know the body
language signs to look for. And you notice that she is sending you those body language signs that
she wants you to approach her. That's insanely exciting, right? This is something, it's a basic
skill that you must know. Make sure you watch to the end because I have 7 of these signs for you.
And each woman is a little bit different so you need to make sure you know all the signs
and look for as many of them as you can. Because just one sign alone is not necessarily enough to
feel confident about your approach, so stay with me to the end of this video.
Before we dive in make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell. My name is Melannie. I'm
a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy. I'm your
go-to place to learn how to attract a lasting, loving relationship with a woman who lights your
heart on fire and absolutely adores you. So be sure you subscribe, ring that bell. And if
you'd like to learn more about working with me to attract lasting love with the girl of your dreams
make sure you visit me at coachmelannie.com I will also put a link in the description below. Body
language is one of the most helpful things you can learn, both in what your body language can be and
how to read her body language. It's honestly one of my favorite things to teach my clients
in Attracting Lasting Love Academy. And it's one of the tools that allows my clients to see results
so quickly. Speaking of the approach, I'm going to mention two other videos that are also going
to help you with this. If you haven't yet seen this one and this one make sure
you watch them as well. I will put links in the description below. With that, let's get started
with the 7 body language signs she wants you to approach her. Sign number one is that she will try
to catch your eye. This is one of the most basic and one of the main body language things women do
when they think you're cute and when they want to get to know you better. She will first, you know,
notice you, and think, "Oh, hey, he's really hot." And then she's going to try to catch your eye.
This is a signal that says, "Hey, I noticed you. I think you're cute. You should come
talk to me. You should approach me." Now it's very important with this that you don't assume
her catching your eye once to be a sign. You need to notice it two to three to four to five times
before you make that move because sometimes your eyes just meet. So just be aware of that. However,
that is a sign that a woman will do. "Hey, I'm going to catch his eye, and I'm going to let him
know, hey, you should, you know, come talk to me." Sign number two is another huge sign women give,
and it's a very reliable sign. That is that she'll smile at you and do like the chin tuck.
This is just body language 101. This is what women do without even realizing they're doing it or why
they're doing it. If let's say she catches your eye and she does the little chin tuck. She may
look up at you again, she may just look away. Whatever it is, really what's going on in her
head is, "Oh, he noticed me. He's really cute. Oh, wow." So look for that smile with the chin tuck.
Our next sign is that her body will be facing you and she'll have really open body language. So
let me just explain what's going on in her head. First, she notices you and she thinks, "Oh,
he's cute. I want to try and catch his eye." Then, you know, she's going to smile because she wants
you to think she's pretty. But she's also going to keep her body towards you, to keep her body
language open. You don't really want to approach somebody like this, right? This is closed off body
language, "Don't approach me." So if she keeps her body language open, and maybe even just,
you know, even if she's looking somewhere else but she's kind of pointing towards you, that's her way
of being open and approachable and like, "Hey, you could come talk to me." In addition to that,
if she is thinking about you she's just kind of, you know, subconsciously going to be pointed
towards you because she's hoping you're gonna walk across the room and talk to her. So if you notice
that closed off body language, she does not want you to approach her. However, if she's got open
body language and she's kind of facing towards you a lot, that's a really good sign that she,
you know, she wants you to approach. With this in mind, imagine for a moment. Imagine that you see
the signs that she wants you to approach her and you walk across the room and you
start talking to her. The truth is, this can go one of two ways, right? What far too often happens
is you finally work up the courage, you finally walk across the room, you start talking to her,
and all of a sudden you're like, "Wait a minute. I don't think she's interested in me."
And she kind of like seems like she wants you to go away, and it becomes awkward and she ghosts
you and whatever. Have you been there? Do you know what I'm talking about? That's an awful
feeling, right? What if instead you walk across the room confidently and masculinely and you know
exactly what to say. And she starts giggling, and you start seeing more signs, and she acts even
more attracted to you. Getting her number is a piece of cake, and you get that first date,
and you get the second date, so on and so on until you're in a relationship with this woman.
That's the end goal, right? That's exactly what you want. Here's the important part. There's a
big difference between scenario number one where it goes terribly wrong, and scenario number two
where you light her heart on fire and she cannot wait to go out with you. The big difference is you
must learn how to approach successfully. You need to know what your body language is,
you need to know what to say. You need to know how to flirt in a way that's not creepy
but actually makes her super excited to be around you. You need to understand how to pursue her in
a way that makes her go, "Oh my goodness, this is the man of my dreams. This is the man I've always
wanted to meet." The men who are successful know those secrets. The men who are not successful
think they don't need to learn them. Or they just kind of sort of guess what will work. They
don't actually have a solid game plan. Because here's the deal: Men and women think different
than each other. That's no surprise, right? We all know that. But we forget to take that into
consideration when we interact with each other. This means something that would not freak you out,
would not creep you out, would not be weird to you at all, is actually terrifying to her. Now women
look to the man we're attracted to to protect us, to make us feel safe. But if that man makes
us not feel safe, Whoa, he doesn't get a second chance because she is terrified.
So just like women have to understand certain things about communicating with men,
as a man, you need to understand certain things about communicating with women. The men and women
who understand these things are the men and women who can have happy, successful marriages. The men
and women who don't understand these things, yeah, they struggle. So how do you become successful at
this? How do you become her superhero because she feels safe, she feels protected, she feels excited
and alive when she's around you? Well this, my friend,, is exactly what I'm here to teach you.
As a coach, this is exactly what you learn how to do in detail in Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
If you have ever felt confused and frustrated and like you have no idea why this isn't working,
like you have no idea why you're still single, it's because you don't have these secrets. And
I'm here to teach them to you. And it's totally okay if you're like, "Melannie, I have no idea
what secrets I wouldn't know," well, I do. I'm the coach, that's exactly how it always is. You
don't know what you don't know until someone teaches you. So to learn more about this so
you can be the one who's finally successful in relationships, so you can be the one telling your
family and friends you're getting married and the one having someone to come home to every night,
make sure you watch my free masterclass. This is where you will learn about what I teach,
why it works, and get a special introduction to my program. Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass
There's also a link in the description below. If you're tired of feeling frustrated and lonely and
wondering why this isn't working for you, then it's time for you to learn those secrets. So
again, make sure you watch that free masterclass to learn more. Now, for our next body language
sign she wants you to approach her, this one might make you giggle a little bit because it
sounds really funny. But we mentioned before that her body language will be open and often facing
you. I want you to especially pay attention to her feet. This sign is that her feet will be pointed
towards you. This sounds ridiculous when you say it out loud. However, even people who when we kind
of have control of our body language we usually don't remember to control our feet. And our feet
will show what we're thinking about. So even if, you know, she's talking to somebody else here,
it could even be another guy, you know, she's polite so she kind of needs to sort of
face him, but if her foot is pointing at you, it's an incredibly good sign that you're the one she's
thinking about, even if she's like being polite over here. So make sure you notice what direction
her feet are in. And if they're frequently pointed at you, that's a really good sign that,
yeah, she wants you to approach her. Our next body language sign is if she is playing with her hair
and/or jewelry. This is especially true if, you know, she's like trying to catch your eye
and facing you and things like that. This is just a subconscious thing women do. We don't think,
"Oh, hey, he's cute. I'm going to like play with my hair now." You know, that's not what she does.
It's just a gut reaction. And that's the beauty of body language and why it is so
accurate, is it's something we don't think about. It's something we can't
really hide. So if you notice she's, you know, playing with her jewelry when she's
trying to catch your eye or playing with her hair or trying to look nice, whatever it is,
and sneaking those glances at you, it's a very good sign that she wants you to notice she's cute,
and she wants you to approach her. Okay, speaking of approaching, before we get to our next sign
I want to hear from you in the comments. Should I make more videos like this one? If I should,
comment "approach" in the comments below to let me know that's something you are interested in.
And if you have any specific questions make sure you leave those in the comments as well.
Your feedback helps me so much, so thank you. Again, if you want more videos like this,
comment "approach." Okay, our next body language sign she wants you to approach her
is, let's say she's with a friend and they are looking at you and talking a lot. And
they'll talk, and then they'll look at you a lot, and they'll giggle and laugh between themselves.
This is something that women totally do when they like you, when they're interested in you.
Girls know who their friends are interested in. And of course they're going to tease her about
it. That's just what they want to do. In addition to that, she feels the butterflies and she's like,
"Oh my goodness, he's so cute." And so they're going to laugh and talk about it. Many men will
mistake this for, "They're making fun of me." Usually, it's that one or both of them think
you are really cute. And again, just make sure you're looking for as many signs as possible.
That will help you feel confident that they're not making fun of you, but instead, actually
interested in you. And our next body language sign is that she will walk past you several times. This
is totally something women do, like, totally. She is trying to make it as easy for you to approach
her as possible. And if she's been sending those signals and you've not picked up on them,
she's just going to try to be close to you and walk past you to give you the opportunity to, one,
think she's really cute and notice her as she walks by, and two, approach her and talk
to her. So if you've ever been in that situation where you're like, "She keeps walking past here.
She must really like what's over there," whatever it is, no, there's a really good chance that that
is not what's going on, she's just trying to get you to notice her because she wants you to
approach her. So take a moment right now and congratulate yourself for learning these signs.
This is the first step to a successful approach. And that is something to be celebrated. Remember
though that there are other steps to a successful approach. And if you skip learning those you're
setting yourself up for failure. The remaining steps to a successful approach is what I teach my
clients and that's why they get that confidence boost and why they can start approaching women
and why I get emails that they're getting married. So make sure that you take the time
to learn how to have that successful approach. Again, to learn more about working with me in
Attracting Lasting Love Academy, watch my free masterclass at coachmelannie.com/masterclass You
want a successful approach, right? Then you must have these secrets, so make sure you check it out
right now. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! Be sure to subscribe and ring
the notification bell if you haven't yet and give me a big thumbs up. I want to hear from you in the
comments. Which of these signs surprised you the most? I always love to hear from you. And if you
have any questions about approaching leave those in the comments below as well. And if you'd like
more videos like this, just comment "approach" and then I'll know that that's what you want. Do
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and have an amazing day! [blooper beep] All right, let's keep going with our signs- [laughter] I
don't know what just happened to my brain. It's too hot in here and the AC won't kick on.
[laughter] Okay, and if you have any questions about the approach, leave those in the comment-
That didn't make any sense. [laughter] Okay, am I done?
I think I'm done. We're gonna go with that. That sounds good. Cool. [laughter]