I get hundreds of messages every single day from people who say to me Tim I want
to become successful what do I need to do one of the first things I always ask
them is what do you currently do in regards to your behavior what's going on really in
your world the reason being is this if you look at successful people the most
successful people that have ever lived on this planet you'll notice that they
do things differently from the masses out there that's why when it comes to
success you have to really model this thus in this video I wanted to reveal to
you the three things that you can do differently from the masses out there to
get the results that they can't get let's go straightaway onto the first
point which is successful people often listen even when they want to talk the
reason being is listening is one of the most powerful learning tool and a hugely
beneficial relationship builder nowadays this is such a rare rare asset in
somebody that when somebody is listened to let's say for example in a networking
party people are like wow like this is so rare and they just treasure that
moment because for first time ever somebody is just truly listening to them
talk and not like trying to budge in saying oh my god like I wanna just add
on top of this they're just listening asking the right questions really deep
questions proper questions and what that what will often happen is a
deeper connection is formed not so much is my you know here's my networking card
here's my business card there you go and you go to the next one
you never really truly form a deep bond the connection that allows you to expand
your network if you never truly listen so successful people listens even when
they want to talk because they focus on building true relationship as a great
saying goes it's not about what you know is about who you know the fastest way to
reinvent your life is to reinvent your friends your peer group you got to hang
around with winners to become a winner how do you become a winner well you've
got to get good at listing another reason why you've got to get good at
listening is allows you to become an effective salesperson because you get to
discover the needs of the customer in front of you and every great leader
on this planet is an excellent salesperson and that's why they use
listening as their tool at their disposal going on to the second point
they separate how they feel from what they do this is very very important what
I mean by this is this most people out there don't take action why because they
don't feel like taking action and if you always wait for that right moment where
you feel good before you do something you will never get something done do you
think Steve Jobs honestly just felt every single day he felt like doing what
he did which is working incredibly long hours building one of the most valuable
companies on this planet do you honestly think every single day he didn't have a
day where he just felt oh I don't feel like I wanna get out of bed today of course he's a
human just like you and I but he still did it why because he separated his
feeling from his actions so you too have to do the same whenever you don't feel
like doing something you gotta still do it separate your feelings from your
actions that way you will make better decisions most often not most most of
the reason why most people out there fail is due to this they are letting their
feelings control their decision thus the decisions are often often wrong so make
sure to separate your feelings from what you do going on to the final point they
battle the addiction to being right the desire to always be right can overshadow
even the strongest relationship being right at all cost might fulfill an inner
need you have which is ego driven but often at expense of someone or something
else you always have to ask yourself is it really worth proving my point here is
it really worth just just proving somebody I'm right right this is the
only way I am right because often they're not
I found this just you just trying to fulfill your ego right because it may
you know do some good of course I'm saying keep your point of view and speak
up for your values but realize this there is no joy in winning the battle
but losing the war so you always have to ask yourself is it worth really just
costing this valuable relationship just to prove somebody's wrong because often
not it's not and that's why successful people because they value the network
they didn't always just prove and have an addiction to being right they do of
course speak their values and do truth but they have realized that like I said
there is no joy in winning the battle but losing the war so those are the
three things truly successful people do differently be sure to model this if you
want to get the same result in your life I hope you found this video helpful if
you have please be sure to click the like button and share this video to
educate your friends and be sure to comment below in regards to any
questions you may have I'm also gonna chuck around some
videos for you to check out and as always insider follow your heart my
friend and take action and go live the life you're born to live my friend
speak to you soon