Hey there! I'm Emma from mmmEnglish
and it is speaking practice time.
You are gonna speak with me in a type of
conversation that happens
every single day in English.
Small talk.
Small talk is an essential social skill
and an essential professional skill.
Being able to feel comfortable with small talk in a professional
situation is a really powerful tool.
It's going to help you to start conversations with people,
build better relationships with your colleagues
and also your clients
and of course, this leads to new opportunities or to promotions
or exciting things for you.
Today's lesson is a speaking dialogue so we'll get to practise
small talk together.
You and then me
and then we'll swap, me and then you.
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If you want to get straight to the conversation practice,
head that way but before we do that, I want to talk about.
One of the worst things that you can do in a professional situation
is be too stiff,
too formal,
too serious
especially when you're just hanging out
in the office with colleagues.
So even in a professional context your small talk
should still be light and the tone should be positive.
Even if you're feeling really stressed or you've got some problems
that are making you feel bad,
small talk is not the place to raise these.
Hi! How's your day been?
Not so good.
I'm feeling really stressed and overwhelmed.
I just... I don't really know what to do about it.
No, it's not a good idea to be so
honest and so open in this context because it really does make
the other person feel uncomfortable.
As harsh as it is,
it's true.
Now I'm not saying
don't raise these issues, they're important things to talk about
but this conversation just needs a separate context,
it needs to be prefaced with something like:
Hi.
I had a couple of things I need to speak with you about today
if that's okay?
When you have some time, can I speak with you in private?
So this just helps to set the tone,
lets the person know that it's a serious topic.
But right now let's get back to light, positive small talk.
If a colleague asks you:
How's your day been?
Then you need to answer positively and productively
and that is exactly the tone that we're going to practise
using in this dialogue right now.
So you start by asking me about my day
and then be ready to respond when I finish.
Not too bad actually.
A bit slower than usual
so I've been able to tick a few things off my to-do list!
What are you working on at the moment?
I don't know how you could feel excited about
such an important presentation.
I'd be a nervous wreck!
Hey, speaking of experience, can I ask your advice?
I'm planning to propose a four-day work week to management.
There are so many benefits but
I know it will be tough to convince them it's a good idea.
Do you have any advice for how I can make my case?
Definitely.
It's important that they see the change as a win-win, right?
Thanks! I'll see you around.
Did you notice some new and interesting expressions
in that dialogue?
I've explained them in a little bit more detail over on the
mmmEnglish website just for you.
So if you're interested in exploring some of these new expressions
the link to mmmEnglish is down in the description below.
But now
let's switch places.
So I'll start this time. You respond.
Hey, how's your day been so far?
I've been working on a presentation for a new client.
I'm meeting with them on Friday
and I'm pretty excited to share our proposal.
I guess it comes down to experience.
Sure, how can I help?
In my experience, they'll be looking for real data.
Evidence that helps them to see the benefits
to the team and to the company.
Exactly!
Hey I've got to get back to work now but
good luck getting it over the line.
Do you want to listen to me do the whole thing now?
Hey, how's your day been so far?
Not too bad actually, a bit slower than usual
so I've been able to tick a few things off my to-do list.
What are you working on at the moment?
I've been working on a presentation for a new client.
I'm meeting with them on Friday
and I'm pretty excited to share our proposal.
I don't know how you could feel excited
about such an important presentation.
I'd be a nervous wreck!
I guess it comes down to experience.
Hey speaking of experience, can I ask your advice?
Sure, how can I help?
I'm planning to propose a four-day work week to management.
There are so many benefits but
I know it will be tough to convince them it's a good idea.
Do you have any advice for how I can make my case?
In my experience, they'll be looking for real data.
Evidence that helps them to see the benefits
to the team and to the company.
Definitely.
It's important that they see the change as a win-win, right?
Exactly.
Hey I've got to get back to work now but
good luck getting it over the line.
Thanks, I'll see you around!
I hope you enjoyed this lesson and that you had some fun with
this small talk conversation practice.
If you want to practise a little more with some
similar lessons to this one,
check out these two right here.
I'll see you in there!