Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. You got to
understand something. There is a famous saying in personal development. I believe
it was coined by Jim Rohn where he says "you are the sum of the five people that
you surround yourself with." What does that mean. That means that the people
that you hang out with have a very big influence on who you are as a person and
the decisions that you make. If you hang out for example with people who are
very successful, it's gonna help drive you and motivate you to become
successful. If you end up hanging out people who are losers and just doing
nothing with their lives and doing drugs all day or something to that
extreme, you might be influenced to make those decisions and partake in those
activities. With this concept, you also tend to
take on the personality and ways of a person. What does this have to do with
you being more funny around girls? Here's the thing
one of the best ways to teach yourself to be funny around girls
is to surround yourself by people who are funny. I've been over this in my head
for so long to figure out how to teach someone to be funny because when you're
funny it does help with the attraction. Making a girl laugh does spark that
emotion and it makes her feel good around you. It is a good thing to do.
Is it absolutely necessary? No but it does help. I've been
struggling with trying to figure out how to teach them to be funny because
there's not a formula. There are formulas of jokes but if you just go
online or I teach you some formulas to jokes then you're just gonna be saying
jokes and it's gonna come off very cheesy, very inauthentic and therefore
not so funny. How to become funny, like I said, you surround yourself
by people who are funny and you're probably thinking "well Tripp I don't
have funny friends or what are you saying? I have to go out and search for
funny friends?" Not necessarily. You could take it to that extreme. I would say if
you do have a friend who's funny, hang out with them more because again when
you're hanging out with them, you're gonna see how they're making jokes all
the time and it just happens. You're hanging out with
people, you take on their mannerisms, you take on some of their personality when
you spend a lot of time with them. If you got that funny friend, hang
out with them a bunch. But another very easy way to do this is go on YouTube and
just watch an hour of comedy every single day. Surrounding yourself by
people doesn't have to be so literal in person. I mean if you want to surround
yourself by successful people, watch successful motivational speeches, read
books by people who are successful, watch videos on whatever that thing is that
you want to become successful at and in this case, it's the same thing. If you want to
be funny, watch people who are funny. I would really recommend watching
stand-up comedians. It's not just about watching videos that are funny that make
you laugh because that's not gonna help you become funny if you watch a bunch of
prank videos on YouTube. I mean watch stand-up comedy.
Find your favorites and watch it or try some new ones. There's new comedians coming out
all the time. On Netflix there's always a new person that I never even recognize.
Who's this person? They have a stand-up special or on HBO or wherever.
But look at that free on youtube if you want to is watch stand-up and
surround yourself by it. Like I said, if you watch an hour a day, which is a
lot by the way. Doing an hour of the same thing ever every single day can make a
huge difference in your life. Whether that's going out and approaching which I
really always recommend and encourage you to go out and practice meeting and
talking to girls. Or spending an hour just watching videos of people who
you think are funny. I'd even recommend that you pick one comedian and just plow
through all of their material. Because if you get to know one person really well,
the easier for you to pick up on that type of comedy, those kind of mannerisms.
Try this. I don't know if it's the end-all be-all
solution for you to be funny around girls. It might not work for everybody,
but it's definitely something that has been known to help. I know for sure
whenever I watch a bunch of stand up, I feel like cracking jokes.
I seem to take on that personality for like a little bit after I watch it
because I've been so engrossed in this person's comedy and it
stays with you. There's this thing called the law of state transference
where if you're in a certain emotional state with someone, they can bring it on to you.
For example if someone's really sad and down in the dumps and you're around them
or you're watching something like that on a video, you start to feel that way
and if they're really happy then you start to feel that way. And if they're really
funny, like I'm saying in this case, then you can start to feel that way as well.
And this might take a while to pick up on those
mannerisms and things like that. But do that and I'm not saying necessarily
take someone's jokes. Although you can. Sometimes I'll say lines from a
movie that are really funny people. People know I'm referencing the line from the movie
but people laugh anyways and I'm just seen as the funny person even though I'm
clearly not making that line up and I've clearly just repeated something that I
heard somewhere that they know but still you get that stamp of "hey this guy's
pretty funny" when you can do that. Even just repeating jokes like that
people might know from a movie, from standup still very funny. I have a
few jokes that you can use that do make girls laugh. I have a video of it
on YouTube. I'm gonna put a link to that video in the description below and I
want you to watch that so you can at least have a little bit of material that
you can work on to be more funny when you're in conversation. Just a few jokes
that seem to work most of the time. Go check that out. I'll see in the comments
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