Matt: Have you ever wondered why the weird guy at the bar always has a bunch of beautiful girls
around him or what about the athletes who practically has no time to date at all?
But..
Always has beautiful women pining for his attention? Well the reality of it is that both
of these guys embody a certain mindset that allows this phenomenon to happen and guess
what? You can too! This is Matt Artisan with The Attractive Man and today I'm in beautiful
Playa del Carmen Mexico and I'm gonna reveal the one mindset that you need to embody in
order to get high quality women..
Attracted to you.
Now I want you to get rid of all the weird one liners, get rid of the awkward pick up
lines and start embodying this one.
Mindset.
Are you ready? You are a king! That's it, stop thinking that you're not good enough and that
women don't like you because it's just not true women do like you just don't like the
sad ,insecure, depressed version of yourself that you might be portraying to the world,
hopefully that's not you but chances are you're doing that at least to some degree. You see
a high quality woman doesn't want a guy that swipes right on every chicks picture hoping
to get a match she doesn't want to guy who tries to cater to every girl at the bar she
wants a guy who was a full and exciting life with or without her in it and he just ultimately
chooses her to enriches his life but not to complete it. That's key.
Tom Cruise: You. Complete me.
Matt: And I've seen it over and over again what happens to a guy who doesn't embody this mindset.
I recently had a client who would constantly agree with everything a woman would say to
the point where it just seemed really disingenuous and I was with him on the first night working
with him at a bar and I actually had him miked up and was listening in on this conversation
and the girl brought up her favorite movie which was Fear and loathing in Las Vegas.
And of course he said it was one of his favorite movies as well.. and she seemed a little suspicious
of that because it's kind of an obscure movie and so she asked him some questions about
it. Like what's your favorite scene? Then he got kind of nervous he was like - when they
arrived in Las Vegas. And she's like - okay well who's your favorite actor? And he couldn't
answer the question. "Uhh Johnny Depp..duh?" needless to say the conversation ended really quickly.
He was a really nice guy but at the end of the day a woman wants a man who isn't trying
to cater to her every whim.
She wants some playful arguments every once in awhile with the guy and
the problem was that he was insecure and he was ashamed and lacked any
sense Of masculine identity whatsoever he didn't have the king mindset of course as
a result he tried to conform to the woman's ideas on you know pretty much everything instead
of just letting his own personality attract those that are right for him and that's what
you should be doing thankfully course I set him straight and now he's figured out who
he really is and he's completely unapologetic about it and he's dating a gorgeous high quality
woman as a result.
So stop trying to be a replica of the guy that you think women want to be and start
being a hundred percent you when you do that you'll start seeing yourself as a king and
your watch how you filter out all the people that don't click with and you find the ones that
you do click with. Now I know this sounds a lot easier said than done but don't worry because
I'm gonna give you three practical ways that you can start embodying this king mindset
starting today. By the way if you're not a subscriber click that subscribe button and
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I'm just waiting for my brother we're gonna go cave diving today and I'll come in Mexico
or somewhere nearby.
I think we Actually have to hike through the jungle to find like a fresh water.
The first step in order to embody this mindset is to stop caring about what people think
about you, this is so crucial and I want you to think of it like this a good king isn't
gonna worry about pleasing every person around him he's going to do what's best for himself
and of course the people in his kingdom no matter what so you need to understand who
you are as a person and just be confident in that because at the end of the day no matter
who you are no matter what you do and no matter what you look like some people are just not
going to like you that's just how it is.
All.
So you need to accept this rejection as part of life and stop wasting your time on people
who don't matter because once you do the people that do matter will naturally be attracted
to your life.
So this is going to be our first cave dive excited.
Scared.
I know man you probably heard all this before but it has so much credibility.
I mean.
Just think about some of the most popular celebrities for example a lot of them say
and do the most outlandish and ridiculous things but at the end of the day it's their
willingness to just completely only their character which makes us feel drawn to their
presence my favorite example this is Kiana Reeves he's not the most outgoing person in
the world in fact he seems like a shy introverted times but he just owns that about his and
apologize for who he is and women go crazy over here another example is Chris Pratt I
mean it's pretty obvious that you know that he's a very charismatic actor but it doesn't
have anything to do with his good looks or his well.
It has everything to do with his ability to just completely only who he is no matter what
I mean just watched any of his interviews and you'll see it very quickly that he's not
afraid to make fun of themselves he just completely owns who is which is why we feel drawn to
people like that now I know not caring what people think about you just being who you're
meant to be sounds like an easy concept but it's not a lot of people sugar the struggle
their entire lives with that and they always live in fear of what other people gonna think
about them so I made an entire video to dive a lot deeper in the topic of not giving a
**** about what people think about you and I'll put the link to that video down in the
description so make sure to check that out now I know companies like this doesn't come
naturally to a lot of people I want to help other people I mean pretty much everybody
but don't worry I have a free confidence teaching listed in the description box below for you
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Sometimes I wish I was a kid.
The Easter egg hunt or something I don't know.
Having your home maybe either way looks fun.
Sorry guys messages told us how some people died in the caves.
A little risky.
The second way in order to really embody this
mindset is to make a list of the characteristics that you want the woman in your life to happen
think about it like this is a king going to hang out with women were clearly not a match
for him of course not so instead have a clear idea of the type of clean you wanted your
powers use this analogy in your own life so that you can be aware of the types of women
Hey you want in your line go ahead and do it right now make a list either on paper or
on your phone or on a computer and write down the qualities that you want the woman in your
life to have the right now this video all wait.
Now this isn't about being picky this is just so that you can be aware of the type of people
that you want in your own line and you may realize that some of the people that you meet
actually are a good fit for you and that's perfectly fine dole transform yourself into
the guy that you think they want to the state see yourself as a prize and move on and find
someone who does meet your standard.
We just finished Dr number one is super awesome so for now we're doing dive number to the
bat cave.
The third step in order to achieve this mindset is to find your purpose and go out and pursue
it takes some time to really think about what your purpose in life is.
And do not.
Answer women or relationships because constantly placing people above yourself like that is
going to severely weakening your character so instead need to see yourself as a king
who is building your kingdom.
Which means do some soul searching find your purpose and go pursue it this one is so powerful
because it's actually been proven that having a purpose in life makes you appear more attractive
this is because purpose driven people naturally radiate this positive and ambitious added
to that.
People around them.
Want to have this actually study that looked at different yearbook photos and they would
attribute different positive and negative character traits to each of the photos at
the end of the study was actually found that those photos with the positive characteristic
traits were seen as more attractive so whatever your purpose in life go out there and do it
and by the way if you don't know what your purpose is then that becomes your purpose
which means go out there and experience a lot of different things and you figure out
which things you really like can resonate with and which ones you don't maybe you're
an aspiring musician for example that was actually my purpose for a long time in my
life if so maybe you go to an open Mike night where you can perform at or maybe an entrepreneur
find a mentor who can help accelerate your business these are things that you can do
right away to help you get to that next step and actually going out and taking small steps
like that is going to help you make progress as opposed to just staying stagnant and doing
nothing on the plus side as you working on yourself and discovering your purpose in going
out and pursuing it it's going to force you to say no to her more often because you'll
be so busy and that's absolutely okay.
No.
Because this will prove to her that you're actually doing something for yourself which
is gonna make you not only more attractive but it's going to make your time a lot more
valuable and of course it's gonna make your standards go up so just to recap number one
stop caring about what people think about you king does what he wants number two list
the characteristics of the people that you want.
In your life the king hangs out with royalty and over three find your purpose and pursue
it king of the rules is kingdom make sure to check out our free confidence chichi that
I listed in the description box below that contains more mind sets and eighteen practical
and simple daily habits that you can do to not only boost your confidence and become
more fearless around women but also become more charismatic and confident in every aspect
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beliefs but also the skills to meet attract and date your full women then make sure to
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