When talking about relationships, one of the most common issues couples face is jealousy.
Whether he’s anxious about her spending time with male friends, or she feels insecure
when comparing herself to the females in his life, not being able to overcome jealousy
is a pretty awful feeling.
THAT SAID, when used correctly, jealousy can be an extremely powerful tool for making a
man want you.
You may think this sounds crazy, but stick around, because I’m about to share five
text messages that will stir up that green-eyed monster in the best way possible.
Hey ladies, Amy North here.
For those of you who don’t already know me I’m a relationship coach from the west
coast of Canada and author of The Devotion System - a program I’ve designed to help
women around the world find and lock down the love they want and deserve.
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As I already mentioned, today I’m going to share with you some text messages that
you can send the man you’re into to make him jealous.
Before I share these five types of texts with you though, I want to start by giving you
a quick but important pointer, so grab some paper and a pen, and repeat this after me
so that this becomes your new philosophy: don’t.
reply.
to.
his.
messages.
right.
away.
Got it?
Good.
Now here’s why.
Since part of the magic of making a guy fall for you is not being too clingy or available,
if you’re answering his text messages the second he sends them, then guess what?
You are going to look pretty desperate.
That’s why a good rule of thumb is to wait anywhere from ten minutes to half an hour
before responding to him.
Of course that changes if you’re having a conversation or discussing a time sensitive
issue, but unless he needs to hear from you right away, hold back and let some time pass
between texts — it’ll save you from looking like you are sat by the phone, desperately
waiting for his name to pop up, and it’ll keep him curious about what you’re so preoccupied
with.
Don’t brush this tip aside, because when used with the five types of text messages
I’m about to share with you, it will do wonders for getting your guy jealous.
Before I do share these five text messages with you I would like to take a moment and
quickly ask that if you enjoy this video or find these text messages at all helpful then
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Now, let’s get rolling.
1.
Be mysterious about what you are doing.
There are few things more powerful than the imagination, and when left to it’s own creations,
there’s no saying what stories it can unravel.
So, if you’re looking to make a man jealous, then what better what to do so than by withholding
some information when it comes to your plans, and leaving blank spaces for him to guess,
wonder about or fill in himself.
Of course this requires balance.
I mean, if you don’t tell the poor guy anything then he’s not going to get jealous, he’ll
get bored.
So be fair here, and decide when is and when is not a good time to text in cryptic.
A good example of a mysterious text is something like “I had so much fun last night, but
I’m paying for it today!”
or “Just getting back from an awesome lunch date, I’ll message you in a bit!”
These types of texts work because while they’re seemingly innocent messages, his mind will
race with thoughts about who you were with, and what happened.
When this happens there’s a good chance he’ll ask you for more details.
If this is the case, then do supply him with these, but again, if you can create some mystery
in your response then you’ll be sure to push his jealousy buttons.
2.
Causally mention other guys.
“Chris gave me a ride home from work today,” or “I’m going out to check out that new
martini lounge with Ryan” … those little mentions of other men will have a huge impact
when it comes to awakening the green-eyed-monster in your man.
To explain why, let’s reverse rolls for a moment and take about a scenario that most
of you can probably relate to.
Let’s say you are talking to a guy who you’re interested in and he mentions other females.
Right away your brain starts processing that he’s referring to other woman, and you can’t
help but wonder who she is and what their relationship is all about.
Is it sexual?
Did they ever date?
Are they just friends?
Is he in any way attracted to her?
Well guess what, that kind of jealousy works both ways.
So, when you tell your guy that you have been or plan to spend time with another male, those
similar types of questions will arise, which in the grand scheme of things, is perfect
for making him want you.
Now, the key here is to be smooth and subtle, meaning you’re going to want to make it
seem natural when you bring up other guys, and not like you’re forcing it.
If he gets the impression that you ARE trying to make him jealous, well in that case he’ll
either get annoyed with you, or won’t buy into or be phased by your stories.
If you don’t want to go as far as making plans with other guys, and don’t think you
can swing saying you are if you aren’t, then something as simple as mentioning how
hilarious your male coworker is, or how a pal of yours got a handsome new haircut can
be just as effective.
Again though, balance is key here.
If you come across as too interested in someone else then yeah, you’ll make your guy jealous,
but it could also be your undoing.
You don’t want that!
3.
Imply that you have plans
Hand in hand with my previous two points, if you’re looking to make a man jealous
and wanting you, then a great strategy is to make it known that you have plans, but
without telling him what those plans are.
Now, don’t panic, this sounds tricky but it’s actually one of the easier types of
messages you can send.
For example, if you and him are texting back and forth then pull this jealousy-maker off
by saying “I gotta get going.
I need to go buy shoes for tomorrow night.”
Of course you don’t have to use that exact example, and I encourage you to make this
your own, and dress it up however you see fit.
Just remember, the point is to imply that you have upcoming plans that need some tending
to, but don’t mention what those plans are.
If he does ask, then wait at least half an hour before responding to him, this will give
him the chance to trigger that jealousy you’re looking to awaken here.
When you do answer, maybe you can causally sneak in some guys names too, but if he doesn’t
dig for details then just leave well enough alone!
Just be sure to always read the situation.
If you feel like your text messages are going to upset him or piss him off then don’t
send it.
After all, you’re trying to win him over, not push him away!
Be wise and use your judgement here.
4.
Send him a hot photo via text
This one is pretty self explanatory.
Take a photo of yourself looking AMAZING and send it to him.
Now, be smart here though, you don’t want to send him anything too promiscuous and definitely
no nude photos.
What I’m talking about here are shots of yourself, dolled up for a night out.
This means hair and makeup done (if that’s your thing), a fresh, flattering outfit and
toothy smile to boot!
This type of text messages will have him boiling with jealousy for all the men who get to lay
eyes on you that night.
The reason why you want to keep this photo classy is because the last thing you want
to do is make him think that you’re going out, intentionally to get gawked at by men.
Now, you may be thinking, “But Amy, how would he know that?”
Well, to be blunt, it doesn’t take Sherlock Holmes to figure that one out.
I mean, I’m all for expressing yourself and being an individual, but if you tell him
you’re going out with the girls and send a photo of yourself in an overly revealing
top or micro mini skirt then he may think that you’re fishing for attention.
And trust me, that’s a huge turn off for him.
If you would like to learn some more powerful tips to up your odds in a way that will make
you any man’s dream woman then visit my website and watch the free video presentation.
The URL is www.coachnorth.com/texting, and to make things even easier for you, I’ll
be sure to post it in the description below!
Trust me ladies, you don’t want to miss this one!
5.
Always be having fun (or at the very least seeming to be!)
Whether it’s a mundane Monday morning or sunny Saturday afternoon, by being the woman
who is always having fun, you will be able to increase the likelihood of your man getting
jealous.
Again, in a good way.
So, why does this work?
Well, since men are naturally drawn to women who radiate positivity, if you are doing this
then a few things are going to happen.
First, you’re going to get attention from other men, because again, guys are attracted
to it.
Second, the guy you are into is going to get jealous of your exciting lifestyle, especially
if you’re giving him a taste of it, but still keeping your buffer zone and doing your
own thing.
Third, when a man thinks that you NEED HIM to have a good time then he is going to assume
that it’s impossible for you to enjoy yourself unless he’s around.
By doing the opposite it lets him know that you don’t need him, which, believe it or
not, will make him jealous of your independence.
Again, I know this sounds strange, but it’s been proven time and time again.
So, to have him steaming with jealousy, all you have to do is tell him what a great time
you had without him.
Of course you don’t want to say it so directly, but you get the point.
Well, that just about does it for this video, as always thanks so much for watching!
If you have any of your own tips for texting and getting the guy you are into jealous then
please share those in the comments section below, I would love to hear from you.
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