How should a real man speak to other people? The way you speak to other
people influences not only how they react to you but also what they think
about you. It tells people a lot about you. Who you are as a person.
Luckily we can always improve the way we speak to other people, so in this video
I'm gonna talk about 12 tips and how a real man should speak to other people
let's not waste any more time let's get right into the video:
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any of the next videos. Now let's start with the first tip.
A real man never ever talks down on anybody.
It doesn't matter who they are. Nothing makes me more angrier
than this. You see those guys that just talks down on people to try and lift
themselves up. It's disgusting. Some people think that because they
achieved some kind of success by reading a great book or becoming a celebrity or obtaining a
very high position in some kind of firm. Then they think they have the authority to talk
down on people. It's disgusting. It doesn't matter what you've achieved in life, what
kind of race you are, who you are, what job you have... It doesn't matter. You never
ever speak down to anybody else. Pride makes us artificial but humility makes
us real.
Don't be afraid to be heard. There's a lot of guys out there that feel like
they don't have that deep voice. Well actually that deep voice doesn't really
matter that much. We all have different voices and we use different tones when
we speak to people, but the problem is that fear. That's fear for when I speak
people are not gonna like my voice and so it bothers you. It also
changes the way you speak to people and it's a psychological thing. Now even if
you don't have a deep voice. If you're not afraid to speak. To be heard. You're
gonna speak in a way where people is gonna look at you and view you as
somebody with a strong voice with a strong opinion. It's all psychological
Pleas. It is one simple word. I don't know why most parents don't teach their kids these
basic rules of just saying please. It doesn't matter what they do even if they
just get you a cup of coffee and they say hey do you want a cup of coffee. You
say yes please. It's one word that just shows this person that you have respect
for them that you appreciate what they want to do for you and it shows that you
have manners
Don't talk so loud. You know that type of guy who steps into the room and he needs
attention. He wants attention so he raises his voice and he speaks very loud
even if the guy's just here next to him and he can just talk normally he would
be like: "hey how are you doing ah man..." and everybody in the room looks at
him. This guy realizes everybody is looking at
him. He thinks: "wow I'm so cool everybody's looking at me I have
attention" and the people that looks at him they're thinking: "who is this guy
that just has no manners and just talk so loud". See what I'm saying.
When you're speaking to somebody you're standing next to them, so you don't have to
speak too soft so they cannot hear you or too loud. Just speak normally. Be
normal. They're not miles away you don't have to yell
say thank you. Two words very
simple very easy thank you. It blows my mind why people cannot say
that anymore today. I mean even if you drop something and somebody picks it up
you give it to them say thank you. There's so many times where I do certain
things and I help people with certain things like picking up stuff giving it to them
they just take it and look at me and walk on... They have no appreciation and I'm
just like, can you believe this... Or even driving and you give somebody like yeah
you can you can. Go first, you know, and then people just like... they just go and
instead of just saying thank you and then go. It doesn't matter what it is.
Say thank you to show the person that you appreciate what they're doing for you
You stand by what you say and what you believe in with your body language. Don't
slouch. Don't look away while you talk and you're speaking to this person and
you're like like this...mumble... No stand up straight. Look them in the eye and say your say.
Not in an arrogant way be humble be kind but say your say and then show people
that you're confident in what you're saying and what you believe in.
You know I feel like we are
entering an age where people are having less and less
manners. Like for example interrupting people. A real man never interrupts
someone unless this person is being very rude, right? But if you interrupt somebody
it shows them that you're not really interested in what they're saying and
you cannot even wait just a few seconds to speak. Unless you're speaking with some
woman that really loves talking a lot (joking)... You know I heard this joke about the
husband and wife and the husband said: "you know I stopped talking to my wife for
five years" and they asked "why? "Well", he said: "well because I didn't want to
interrupt her"...
Say I'm sorry. It's so hard for a lot of people to say I'm sorry because they
have so much pride but you know sometimes we just gotta shut up, accept
we were wrong, swallow our pride and say I'm sorry. It's not giving up it's
growing up. Nobody is perfect, right? We all make mistakes, but a real man
takes responsibility for his mistakes. He man's up, he owns his mistakes and he
says I'm sorry.
Profanity or cursing on a regular basis. Do you swear so much
sometimes that you don't even realize how much you're swearing? If you can't be
interesting without swearing then you have to know that there's a problem. You
don't need to use profanity or cursing, swearing all the time to try and sound
funny or interesting or make people like you. If you swear or curse a lot you lose
credibility with a lot of people. I see it in the comments all the time and I delete
people who swear. There's been a lot of studies on this and scientist says that
if you use profanity on a regular basis then people see you more as being
dishonest and less intelligent than your peers.
Don't gossip. It's disgusting. If it's not your story to tell
don't tell it. Rumors are carried by haters, spread
by fools and accepted by idiots and remember those who gossip with you will
gossip about you. You know I think so many problems in the
world would disappear if we decide to talk to each other instead of about each
other.
A real man. A gentleman never says
hateful things about someone's sex, race, color, culture or anything else. They don't
judge a book by its cover. They get to know the person first. If you judge
another person based on these things then you don't define them you define
yourself.
A real man speaks in a positive manner. He builds people up, he makes them
feel good. He lifts the spirits of everybody around him. You've met those
guys who are just negative about everything in life. It doesn't matter
what they experience, even if it's a nice day outside or they have experienced
something nice then they always have something negative to say. A real man
does not do that. Change your way of thinking by focusing on the good things
in your life, because your thoughts becomes your words and the words that
you say becomes the house that you live in.
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