- In this video,
I'm gonna show you the three habits
that make people immediately begin to fall
energetically for you.
Now, these are things that, realize, that in life,
you get a reflection of who you are being.
Who you are being is what you are getting a reflection of.
And if you focus on what you want,
which a lot of people they're focused on they want love,
they want connection.
they might want validation
with somebody else,.
That want means I lack.
So the key to this transformation
of understanding what habits make people actually fall
in love with you is when you were being the real you.
Now, based on how you think, act and feel
you are getting a reality that is equal to that.
So if you are thinking, feeling and acting equal
to a reality where you're working
a nine to five job you don't enjoy.
If you're thinking, feeling and acting equal
to a reality where you're not voicing the real you,
you're not being vulnerable, you're not expressing yourself,
you're going to attract somebody else
to reflect that back to you.
You're not gonna attract the real,
a person that resonates with the real you,
unless you are being the real you,
the highest vibrational you.
That doesn't mean that you have to wait to attract love
until you have it all figured out,
because there's never a point
to where you have it all figured out.
However, when you begin to activate your own heart
and be this version of you,
you then begin to perceive of new probabilities
and new synchronicities as a reflection.
So the first habit to making people immediately
energetically fall in love with you,
has to do with actually expressing
what you are thinking and feeling
and you making the choice to be the real you.
For a long time in my own life,
when I was dating someone,
I was afraid to show the real me,
because I was afraid of rejection.
I was afraid.
There was also a part of me
that wasn't really aware of this,
but I was living in the energies of the past.
This is like the past self.
I was living in the energies of the past,
where I felt like growing up.
I wasn't validated, I wasn't approved of.
So I felt like I had to overcompensate
and prove myself to whoever I was dating.
I was coming from an energy of also not feeling worthy.
So part of that was a level
of not feeling worthy and an energy of shame,
which means I'm broken, there's something wrong with me.
So I was afraid to show somebody that I actually
even had interest in them.
I remember going through the process of dating someone
and then after like a month or two,
they're wondering if I even have
feelings for them like that,
because I was afraid to express
that I was actually attracted to them,
because I was afraid of rejection.
So one of the things,
that held me back for so long from actually being,
and being in that energy
of having opportunities in my life,
synchronicities and opportunities in my life,
to reflect back that love.
So one of the most important things for you to do
is to actually begin to open up your own heart,
which means being vulnerable,
showing the real you.
You see, shame likes to grow in the dark.
I've broken, there's something wrong with me.
I can't show certain parts
of myself because I don't wanna get rejected.
The key is to actually have the courage
to show the real you.
And to know, if you do get "rejected,"
then it means one, you're saving yourself time.
But two, you can only really reject yourself.
It's only really rejection
if you internalize it and say,
there's something wrong with me.
So what I ended up doing is after years of going
through this pattern of like not having the right polarity
in the people I was dating and the relationships,
I realized it's because I wasn't being vulnerable.
I wasn't sharing the real me.
It takes vulnerability to go
and talk to someone you're attracted to.
the vulnerability is that you could get rejected,
but I promise you, you will be more attractive.
People will fall in love with you more,
if you have the courage to express yourself in that way,
to express your emotions.
I know that even when I met my girlfriend,
for example, that was something that I had to,
that right from the very beginning I made the choice
that I'm going to show my interests.
I'm going to show the real me.
I'm gonna show that I'm attracted to her.
By having that level of energy,
it then also set the relationship
out to where there was strong polarity, where I was leading.
I was in my own frame.
So the reason I'm sharing this with you
is because the key to attracting someone
that's really gonna resonate
with the real you is you showing the real you
by voicing how you're feeling,
how you're thinking and who you really are.
This is like a pattern you have to become aware of too.
I became aware of my old pattern
of really holding myself back.
I remember one time being, getting like IVs.
I think I've told this story once or twice before,
but I was getting the IVs
at this place where you go here in Austin to get like IVs
and stuff like that for like health purposes and stuff.
And I was getting an IV and I was there with somebody
and there was like three or four other people that I met.
I remember one guy there,
and he was talking about stem cells.
And I remember I was holding myself back
from sharing a perspective that I had about stem cells,
because he owns a company about stem cells.
He actually like partners with Joe Rogan
and stuff like that.
And there's this cool guy and I was talking to him
and I could tell the old part of me was afraid
to say something that was a little bit esoteric.
What I wanted to say is I wanted to talk well,
it's interesting 'cause stem cells coming from like,
if you get stem cells from a certain person,
what if that person,
we're talking about like ancestral trauma
or we talk about,
trauma that's stored in the body.
What if that energy is then in the stem cells?
Whereas there's certain people that may have
stem cells where that energy is not as active.
So when you're putting something inside of your body,
that's stem cells, that's going to heal,
I bet you there's a difference
between different people
with different energy states, right?
That's what I wanted to share,
but I was afraid because I thought it was kind of weird.
I then caught myself in the moment,
not sharing that I really wanted to share that.
And I said, you know what?
I'm just gonna have the courage to share that.
So I shared that perspective.
It's like, so what do you think about like
energy fields and how like the energy fields
go into the cells of the body
and how when we're putting that into our body,
what if there's a similar energy in that?
And I could tell he thought about it.
I could tell he then started.
He thought thought it was interesting.
Not that he was like,
oh, that's the best thing I ever heard
of my whole entire life.
But he was like, he thought about it.
I could tell from that point going forward
there was a little bit more,
either more respect there or more intrigue.
There was more of like interest there,
because I was expressing what I really thought.
Now in that same way, the reason I share that story,
is because you may find yourself in a moment
when you're on a date with someone and they say something,
you wanna like express something about that.
But you're afraid of what they'll think.
You're afraid of being a certain way.
Being perceived as a certain way.
What I would encourage you to do is to say it anyways,
to go into it, to lean into it.
Because when you're expressing the real you,
it may be a little bit more polarizing, but guess what?
Polarizing is also the key to being magnetic,
Polarizing is the key
to you really being in that magnetic energy.
And we talk about magnetic energy as well,
if you haven't seen it yet.
I have the five things
and the five traits that make you extremely magnetic.
There's a free PDF/training video below,
if you haven't checked it out already.
Go and click the link below, check out that training.
And I'm gonna show you step by step,
how to create that magnetic energy from the inside out.
So that you're really able to create what you want
in your life or to have that attractive level energy.
So with that though, the second thing,
the second most attractive thing that will help you
to have somebody else fall in love
with you is something that I learned, that I've shared.
And it's completely changed so many people's lives
that have applied this technique,
but it has to do with embodiment.
It has to do with actually bringing the energy
into your body.
When you bring the energy into your hands
and into your feet and you are more present
and you are in your own frame, you are more magnetic.
Now, when I say your own frame as well,
this is both from a body perspective
and an energetic perspective where this is the question.
Are you the star of your own movie.
Being the star of your own movie,
now this doesn't mean being a narcissist,
but what a lot of people do
when attracting love is they try to become the cameo
in other people's movies,
especially when it comes to like making videos online
where I'm talking about like attracting love,
it tends, if you're watching this
you may be somebody that wants love.
And if you make love your center focus
of the thing you need the most,
it's gonna create a lot of resistance
and a lot of energy that ends up propelling love.
I'd encourage you to not have that be the main focus
of your life and to focus on you enjoying your life,
focus on following your purpose,
focus on elevating your frequency or vibration,
focus on your own like friend group,
focus on your own environment, focus on these things,
and then love will come as a side effect of that.
But the thing that you wanna ask is in childhood,
was it the case where you were the cameo
in everyone else's movie?
Because sometimes that has us playing
the same patterns over and over again,
where we're trying to be the cameo in someone else's movie.
We're trying to find the star
of some movie so that we can then feel safe.
And the key is actually feeling safe within your own movie,
feeling safe within your own frame.
Be the star of your own movie,
which means have your our own vision in your life.
Have something that you're focused on.
That's why also I talk a lot about like the key
to creating your dream life is becoming aware
of this old patterns, the old version of you.
Normally we're living in the past
and to then energetically become familiar
with a new version of you.
Familiar meditation literally means to become familiar.
Energetically meditate, feel the emotions,
as this new version of you, being this version of you,
how would you think, how would you feel?
How would you act?
And have the habits and feel grateful
that it's here right now and then take action
make choices as this version of you right now.
And you'll begin to energetically tune
to a reality where you get new reflections in your life.
So what you wanna do though is using the power
of meditation and choice, meditation and action,
meditation and following your purpose,
you are able to literally energetically tune
to this reality that we're talking about right now.
Now, part of you becoming and tuning
to this reality means becoming aware of your values.
What is important to you?
The old version of me, what was important to me,
was people's approval, people's validation.
And it had me feeling like I was always
seeking other people's approval and validation.
I was the cameo in everyone else's movie.
Once I became aware of the values I choose to live by,
which is the values of vulnerability,
showing the real me,
the values of courage, of expressing the real me,
the values of authenticity.
of all of these things are more important
to me now than validation and approval.
And because of that, it's a different identity,
different way of showing up.
My purpose is very important to me,
making videos, doing what I love.
That is attractive because I am the star of my own movie.
So the key to the transformation
and making people fall in love with you
that I highly recommend you do
is you start to bring the energy more inside
and you start figuring out who the hell am I?
What am I passionate about?
Meditation, by the way, is a very powerful way
to connect to this energy,
to become aware of the patterns that are blocking you,
but to be also become aware of the old self,
so that you can then create space to figure
out what are you really fucking passionate about?
What are you really excited about?
And as you start becoming aware of that,
you begin to tune to it.
You begin to have a vision for the future.
You begin to energetically tune to this energy.
Meditation allows you to tap
into what is called a theta brainwave state.
Theta is the subconscious mind.
You are literally able to access the subconscious mind,
feel the emotions as they exist now
and realize this,
tuning, it's like of radio dial.
You wanna tune to the reality
where you're in a loving relationship
or you're doing what you love full time?
You must energetically become it
and feel like it's already here now.
And the way you feel like it's already here now
is you love your life
and you focus on creating the vision of the way
you prefer to show up in the world,
living your life with purpose.
Creating an ecosystem of an environment of what love,
being around friends and family,
not focusing just on the relationship.
So that's the second thing that changes everything.
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We have hundreds of members already in it
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So I'm excited to see if you join,
but also here's the third thing.
The third thing that helps people to instantly fall
in love with you in a very powerful way,
has to do with you,
how you're showing up in the present moment,
whether you're showing up in the present moment
and you're trying to get something out
of the moment or you're doing it because it's who you are.
This is another core principle of who you're being.
Now, what I mean by this
is are you being present to the moment?
Are you enjoying the moment?
If you're going on a date with someone,
you're like I hope they give me their number.
I hope they give me validation.
I hope they give me, I hope I have sex.
That's manipulative.
Manipulative energy is resistant energy.
When you are instead going on a date because you're curious,
if you're gonna connect with this person,
that is very attractive.
And think about the question to mind too,
will this person like me?
What kind of energy does that admit?
Most likely needy energy.
I hope this person likes me, needy energy.
I'm curious if we have anything in common,
very different energy.
I'm curious if we share similar values.
I'm curious to,
if this person's living their purpose
or what they're passion is,
and that curiosity is very attractive.
Also, I wanna have fun.
I wanna have fun.
I wanna enjoy the process of dating, not just doing dating,
'cause then it'll get the end result.
Am I enjoying the process?
How do I feel in my body around this person?
This is being present to the moment.
Present moment energy is one of the most attractive
kind of energies you can have.
And it comes from bringing the energy once again
into your hands and your feet.
Actually feeling this separation
between you and other people.
Separation helps you to feel safe in your own body.
A lot of this also has to do with healing,
some of the old energies from childhood
where we didn't feel safe.
So we tune to others to get that validation approval
and a lot of this is healing that kind of energy,
letting go of the energies of the past,
so that you can then tune to this new quantum probable you.
These are all things that change everything,
as you begin to embody it.
So one thing that you wanna realize as well
for this is there are confidence secrets
that help you to feel confident,
'cause when you're confident you have more
magnetic energy than you can even possibly imagine.
And one of the most powerful ways to tap into this
is to activate that magnetic energy inside of you.
So if you want the three confidence energies and secrets
to really becoming the most attractive version of you,
watch this video right here.
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People feel what you feel about you.
The energy inside of our bodies are contagious
and based on how we feel about ourselves,
that energy is being emanated
out and other people are responding.