[MUSIC PLAYING]
OK, go in five.
We weed Frank, Mumen, Zadia, Tisia,
Sidney, Aisha, [INAUDIBLE]--
It's only 7:25.
--to the stage.
TANIKA RAY: Welcome back to The Ready to Love DC Reunion
special.
Now, Frank's journey to find love eventually
led him to a fork in the road--
Mumen down one path, and Sidney down the other,
but his internal GPS ultimately chose
Mumen as his final destination.
Take a look.
We have some food.
You want a Lady and the Tramp for real?
Yeah, let's do it, let's do it, let's do it--
Ah, all right.
--we gonna do it.
I've had my eye on Frank for a while.
I love his whole vibe, I love how he dress,
and I love that he has a vision.
Our chemistry has just been growing,
but the truth is I'm still feeling Sidney,
but I need to make a very tough decision for myself.
You know, as a father, I will tell you,
don't waste my daughter's time.
I understand.
I'mma be blunt about this.
I really do enjoy spending time with Mumen.
I know that I don't want to lose you--
OK.
--and I'm having a hard time with that.
Now, I'm starting to think, oh my gosh,
is Frank going to make, just, like, a really good guy friend?
I feel extremely confident that I'm
making the right decision.
So if you'd have me, I want to be a part of your life.
I hope you would like to be a part of mine.
- I trust what you're saying. - Yeah.
So far you've kept your word.
As long as we continue to communicate--
Yeah.
--we'll be good.
It's a yes for me.
[MUSIC PLAYING]
(SINGING) Baby, you can have it all.
FRANK: This beautiful person is definitely the one for me.
I'm so happy she chose me.
(SINGING) Baby, you can have it all.
TANIKA RAY: Aww. WOMEN: Aww.
[LIGHT APPLAUSE]
TANIKA RAY: That is so beautiful.
So Mumen, how has it been going since you
guys pledged your love for each other on that boardwalk?
Have things been going up?
Be honest.
Oh.
Mumen?
[LAUGHS NERVOUSLY] Um, I wouldn't say up.
What do you mean by that?
Um, it hasn't gone anywhere.
I need more information.
I don't understand.
What happened after that day?
Nothing happened after that day.
OK.
No things?
No things.
I know you're looking for me to say more--
I don't have anything for you. - Like, you're going out?
We're not going out.
- Frank. - We're not going out currently.
- Frank. - Yes.
Why aren't you going out?
Multiple reasons.
Child, she is over it.
Uh, I still genuinely and passionately
care for this woman.
I respect her in so many different ways.
When the cameras were finally off of us,
I needed to regroup and get back to myself,
and of course, I still wanted her to be a part of that.
I also realize that, um, this process had taken a toll on me.
So was it the cameras on you?
No, I don't even think that it was the cameras.
I think the one thing that I've always been very guarded
and-- and, like kind of keep lock-and-key
is my love relationships because I've been hurt.
I've also, you know, at times I've
felt that I've hurt people in the past by not being,
you know-- being reluctant.
Frank, just be honest, bro.
Just-- just be honest.
I think that I pulled back because there are things
about our relationship that didn't add up to me
as what I've always pictured.
OK, let me switch over here, Frank.
You seemed very together throughout this process,
making very logical decisions.
Right.
You thought about a friend of yours, Sidney, who's beautiful,
and-- that would have been fun.
Right.
But then you thought, huh, Mumen is my match,
is what I need.
So why going forward-- did it happen
the next day you decided?
No, no.
So there was a point in time where
I felt that we were-- we were getting too close, too fast.
OK, wait, so.
During those time periods that we were together,
I felt like we were too close, too soon.
Me and you were really trying to find a lot of connections,
whether it be life expectations, you
know, what your future looked like,
what my future looked like, what kids looked like, um.
To me, it just didn't all add up,
and I'm sorry that it's coming out this way, but me and you--
I actually don't mind it coming out.
What I don't care for is you saying things
like, it was moving too fast or that it was becoming too
much because it was nothing.
OK.
So what was becoming too much?
For me-- for-- that's-- that's my--
I just felt like some of our contact wasn't adding up, like
the way we held hands wasn't--
Yeah, but even when we were over here, Frank, you
initiated all the affection-- - I know, 'cause I still feel--
--you're an affectionate person--
- Exactly. - --but that's what I mean--
I know, I know.
So when I respond back, then it's like too much.
Do you see how that doesn't make sense?
- I do, I do. - OK.
God.
Just be direct.
I trusted that everything every other woman on the show
thought about you may not be true.
Several of the women said, you're not ready.
I said, I will believe what you told me.
And all we have in this life is our word,
and you have not kept your word, and I think that's what hurts.
You got to be careful with people.
You keep talking about the fact that you've been hurt before--
you're not the only person that's been hurt--
- I'm not saying otherwise. - Ah-ah-ah.
You know how much it takes to go on this type of journey?
The bravery it takes to open up again to somebody?
You want to know what I went through before this chapter?
You have no idea, and I trusted you.
AISHA: See this is the thing though--
--You need some tissue.
You cannot come in here playing with people's emotion,
and I'm not saying that was your intent--
FRANK: OK, thank you.
TANIKA RAY: And you may have done it accidentally.
AISHA: --so we're not calling it intent--
we're not calling it intent, but you
have to be able to identify your mishaps as a person,
because now it affected somebody else, and it's not fair.
We do not get to show up in this world and keep hurting people.
You don't deserve her.
He doesn't deserve her.
I think for the future, Frank, you should look at your partner
as being a friend. - I do.
And at the end of the day, always starts with the baseline
that's friendship, and that should be something that you
just always go back to-- it's like, how
would I want my friend to feel?
I didn't value the relationship
thus far as I should have.
I don't think you knew what you had in Mumen.
I don't think you knew that, because if you knew that...
I hate that things didn't work out for you two,
but hopefully this process has brought you both closer
to finding your forever love.
Up next, the singles took the drama on the road
with a countryside retreat that nearly
turned into an all-out war.
We're jumping in the trenches and discussing
it all when the Ready to Love Reunion Special continues.
Let me back outside my truck that is the but that is one.