It is so surreal to think that I'm meeting 25 plus guys in just a matter of hours
I am so excited, but I'm incredibly nervous. I need some advice and I know just an ass
I'm so happy to sit down with former bachelorettes Dez Caitlin in an alley
I really just kind of want to pick their brains and find out the do's and don'ts of how to handle this whole thing
It's so weird being back in here. I was nervous. Just pulling up. It's so weird. I was just here crazy. Are you excited?
I'm really excited. I'm really nervous were you guys really nervous the first night yes
I was very nervous, but the guys coming in was the best part for me it like took my nerves away
Yeah, I think their nerves will calm yours. Yeah, they're gonna look to you to calm them down
Do you think that when guys were coming out of limo for y'all season the ones that did something crazy that?
Actually stood out to you or even communic loved him yeah. He pulled up in a
Commute yeah, what was his really was my first kiss. I only know cupcake. He was yes. He was my first kiss
Did you kiss on night one? Yes? Oh yeah, I feel like if I'm feeling it. Why we go for it
Why you're trying to find a husband you're not gonna kiss somebody if you're feeling it felt like you it why delay it?
What was the hardest thing for you all on this whole thing cuz I know for me like I hate hurting people's feelings yeah
I think it's just saying whatever is honest and true and me nervous as you do it
Yeah, you can really what you did really well or some guys where I was like. I don't care
How you feel leaving this house right now as your outrageous, and then other guys it like killed me
Yeah You're like wait
Am I saying bye to the right person or like am I really feel?
Like having regrets like is there anything that you guys regret doing throughout this whole?
What is that game yeah
I honestly feel like I'm a kind of person who lives in the moment yeah and sometimes
I wish I would have taken a step back my biggest regret is I didn't focus enough on the
Compatibility Roberto was so hot that all I wanted to do is like take his clothes
Time I saw him, and I didn't really get to know him and so at the end
I think I think that's kind of where maybe I
That is true because I think while we all lead with like
attraction first
But that's actually turns into lust and then it's harder to decipher if in the end if it's love or less
Yeah, like this is one of my big pieces of advice
I feel like the first night figure out who you really like and ignore them for the first week
That's the problem if you like two guys the first night you're gonna like them in a week
So I think just the first week put them on the back burner a chance maybe would Plus. That'll make you a little more I
Have a question for you going through having been say I love you to you and to Lauren
Yeah Are you gonna be super aware of that with the guys that was the worst feeling?
There was so much validation coming from him that I think that's where I got confused and I think for me
Learning from that if I start to feel those feelings
I think I'll be very cautious about who I say that too because I know what that felt like for me
And to say I love you, and not be a hundred percent about it. I don't think I would do it
Do you feel like ready to get engaged? I really do it. You know I?
When I was with Ben I was mentally totally ready to be engaged and be dominating and just start my life with him
And I was so excited about that so when it ended I mean I was crushed
I was devastated
but it reminded me that that was something that I really wanted and
I mean I see you guys and Tanner and Jade's wedding and I see that and
You know I'd get like teary-eyed watching because I'm that's what I want, and it just I'm really excited
and I hope that I find somebody I'm scared that I
May not, but it's definitely what I want
Cared for you know
I'm here for myself too actually
I'm just being honest. No. I love the hair behind at the same time. It's hard getting really hard. It's really hard
I think that's where we have to be honest too, and it's it's one of the hardest things
You'll do, but it's one of the most rewarding mm-hmm. I can't wait. I'm gonna make a toast
To your future husband to the crazy drunk guy to the kind of normal
Kind of weird ones to all the guys you're gonna date us enjoy each
I really hope that I don't let these ladies down. I got some really great advice from them, and I just can't wait for tonight
JoJo Fletcher gets advice from Kaitlyn, Ali and Desiree before embarking on her journey to find love on The Bachelorette Season 12. Subscribe to our channel for more Bachelorette highlights from across the Bachelor world!