[SPEAKING CHINESE]
We have two kids.
We have a two-and-a-half-year-old and a
nine-month-old.
We were ready to have kids when we realized there's so
much more to life than being places.
While we were living in Philadelphia, taking the train
to New York and pursuing all these really great dreams that
we had, I didn't realize that there was a whole other part
of my heart that would open up.
At first I did not really want to have a kid.
I haven't finished my school yet.
We watched Elder Andersen's talk "Children." And during
the talk he said, "Where's your faith?" I thought that
piercing question was just for me.
And I feel right about having a kid.
We go forward in faith--realizing the decision
of how many children to have and when to have them is
between a husband and wife and the Lord.
I'm like, "No, no, we can't do this." And it's like, "What
are we going to do now?
We're going to have a baby." And then, "We're going to have
twins!" I was just kind of freaking out.
And it was a big jump of, like, "Hey, this is a big
step."
We have four little boys, because he's one.
Tell Daddy "I love you."
As a father, I fill a significant
chunk of his world.
You're just finding that your everyday things that you're
going to do--it's more fun in unloading the dishwasher with
the clean dishes.
The plastic stuff, we'll let them load.
I think a common misconception with having kids is
that life is over.
I'm an artist.
And I somehow am able to get it done just the
same as I did before.
It's been really cool to see and be a part of how the Lord
is just making it happen.
If I can take the time to just listen and to see my children,
then it just makes it worth it.
Those moments when you could become frustrated--suddenly
you just see the frustration in their eyes, and your heart
is filled with compassion.
It's a combination of patience and also just not taking
things too seriously about life.
And we learn how to love in our home.
It's such an important thing.
Looking back, we had a great life, but we have
a great life now.
And I wouldn't give it up for anything.
Daddy, Daddy, Daddy.
Daddy, Daddy.
[INAUDIBLE]
So now you can't touch it, because
it's not yours anymore.
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I think that Heavenly Father really is
trying to help us succeed.
He has this wonderful plan, a plan of salvation.
And as we faithfully follow the plan and do our part, He
will help us.